Ways to enjoy enemas more

I've been giving myself enemas since I was 12 and giving others enemas for close to a decade now. I've noticed that they tend to affect me a lot more, even with a small amount of water I tend to have a large urge to go and even when I have something like a double balloon nozzle in I worry that my body might push it out. Does anyone else have this issue? Any suggestions to allow me to enjoy enemas more? Thanks!

Some suggestions: i always start by cleaning the rectum with a small warm plain water enema. if you're blocked up there, then its difficult to retain any volume for any length of time. after that initial cleanse, its much easier to take and hold. i also make the water about as hot as i'd use to wash my hands, about 100-102 degrees, and hang the bag no more than 3" above your body. one teaspoon of salt per quart of water reduces cramping. if that doesn't work, then come on down to PA and pay me a visit, 'cuz i have a paddle ready and waiting for those who don't concentrate on taking their enemas like a big boy!

Just to emphasize what Fulloky said. The first few fillings can be small and if you have an immediate urge to go then you may have stool in your rectum. The more you clear with each succeeding fill and expel the more you open up the rectum and colon. So be patient and listen to your body. Your capacity should increase as you go. That is one way to enjoy nice long sessions.

Relaxation on the part of the receiver helps a lot!!

I'd echo all the previous replies. Take it slow and build up the volume. I'll often start with maybe only 500ml of water and use a smooth nozzle to get rid of the stuff nearer the exit. If you feel the urge to go at this stage then let it out. I might then work up to a litte of soap solution using the same nozzle and lying on my back or side to help it in. Once that's out only then will I think about cracking out the double balloon nozzle and stretching myself with higher volumes and stronger solutions. Taking this approach I can get up to four litres of strong lemon juice into me. The cramps are wild and well worth the build up.

Another thing to remember is taking time to let all of the previous enema out before starting the next one. I always find that makes things much more enjoyable. It requires patience (not always easy when you are super horny) and time but do try it. Interested to hear your experiences.

Yes, I know that a warm water enema when I'm stressed out really helps me get relaxed, then afterwards a "special" suppository to relax even more helps, then go to bed early, for a restful night. Yes, you might need to wear protection

A common theme is relaxation. A good enema needs to be taken slowly, held for as long as you can, and then slowly released. The room needs to be comfortably warm, the enema not too warm or cool, and if you want to put on some soft music and light a scented candle all the better. Like a fine wine, a good enema is to be savored.

I agree with LisaK and Emom - relaxation is the key. If someone else is giving me the enema I can relax and take the whole bag easily without much discomfort. When I administer myself I just can't seem to completely relax for some reason.

Lynn, what's your special suppository? Just curious. Could be a lot of things, but as usual I'm probably just missing the point. Thanks.

Sometimes I find entertainment in experimenting with my colon tube. But locating the squirting holes within is fun. But most importantly, you want it to last a while, so minimizing the flow volume makes it more fun too.

Agree relaxation is the key

When I was in my 20's and 30's, enema sessions were always more fun if I, and my partner if I had one, were a little stoned!!! But I don't do that anymore!!!

Ways to enjoy enemas more?

Take more enemas! 😃

Just make sure you have no time pressure

To make enemas more enjoyable have a lovely lady give them to you. Slow, with lots of caressing and massaging while you are filling and holding.

The general consensus, and I completely agree with it, is the ability to be totally relaxed and experience the enema without having to worry about the tubes and clamps, and ons and offs, etc. etc. This of course means having an enemate. This also opens up many new avenues to explore as long as your partner is willing. The only thing I can think of that would be better, as my friend Hank says, is to take more of them. If everyone in he world took enemas, I could imagine a worldwide shift in perspective; don't you think?

For me the best way to enjoy an enema is when the wife helps. It's great having an understanding lover. Nothing like sharing intimate experiences with your mate!

Take small pre enemas before a session of slow enemas and higher volumes. That's the key.

I make sure that everything is done and that I can totally relax and enjoy my enema session. Relaxing and making the enema session the number one (number two?>:-) priority.

Stronger enemas less often. Better prep. Relaxation. No food no alcohol plenty of water for at least 8 and better 12 hours before starting.

For me it is: An empty house; plenty of time; and no plan-just go with the flow. Maybe one, two, more? plain, soap, coffee, ???

I agree 200% with emom: an enema is something to be savored. My favorite enema sessions always had one common theme: a willing partner who loves them as much as I do and is willing to take the time to prepare me as well as the enema. I know that slower enemas are more relaxing and lend themselves to longer holding times. I find a 3 qt enema of salt & soda water, just slightly too warm on my wrist very nearly puts me to sleep. I want it given very slowly, maybe taking 10-15 minutes to empty the bag into me. I love seeing the bag going flat as my tummy bulges. If done properly, I can hold three qts nearly an hour. The other truly wonderful part is being able to trade places with my e-mate and pleasure her as I let mine work. I always remember something Marlenewas fond of saying on voy.com: It's an enema, not a race. True! And slow and steady is the road to enema heaven!

I just happened to find Zity.Biz while surfing around so I'm all of that new kid stuff... a little shy, embarrassed in a way, apprehensive etc etc that comes with first peering from my shell. This is all very interesting and comforting in a way because now I know I have company in my kinkiness. It's always been "just me", before now, so I am very naive about many things... for instance, enemas keep being referred to as being in 'sessions'. Would someone mind taking a minute or two to explain to me what is involved in a 'session'? Either that or possibly a link to a site that has a full explanation with visual aides to help get it right? Thanks to whoever found the courage to start this site up and thanks in advance to anyone who replies.

... enemas keep being referred to as being in 'sessions'. Would someone mind taking a minute or two to explain to me what is involved in a 'session'?

Many people take more than one, and this can be called a series or session. There are a couple of different reasons given - if you're constipated sometimes it's more comfortable to take a small one first to clear out the rectum then a larger one later to clear out the sigmoid and (if you want) above. Sometimes people take a smaller one first even when they aren't constipated, again to clear out the rectum (for instance if you're using a larger nozzle).

Sometimes people take a stronger solution such as soap and then want a rinse afterwards. Sometimes people want temperature variations. Sometimes people just want to experience the enema more than once - enemas are more comfortable after the big chunks and gas come out.

A session can also have a "theme," especially if you're doing it for sexual pleasure. MedFet, "naughty girl/boy", whatever.

I guess the short answer is that a session can be whatever you want it to be.

I know this is probably straying form the original poster's topic, but I think the one thing I have dome that have made my enemas more exciting and enjoyable is purchasing a few nozzles from Silicone Nozzles. Those nozzles have added a lot to my enema enjoyment and tend to make each new session and brand new adventure.

Deb

I usually do a liquid glycerin suppository before my first enema. It works so quickly, 5 minutes or less, and empties the rectum so there is room for the water. I also use a double balloon nozzle and do not hang it very high above my bottom when I am in the knee chest position. For me the key is relaxing as others have said and just let the double balloon nozzle do its job, holding the nozzle in place.

The way to enjoy enemas is to focus on how you will feel in the hours after that clear return.

You might try to take one or two small enemas (500 ml max.) first before doing the big one with the balloon nozzle. The small ones will help you relax and make room for the bigger amount of water.

Also an anal massage prior to the enema might help.

For me I have to start off will a few bulbs with a small nozzle and then switch to the two quart bag with the douche nozzle. I have never been able to do large volumes and really never wanted to. I just enjoy a couple of bags and I'm not going to lie I really like the insertion of the nozzle.

Enemas in life are like long passes in a football game! Those who get the most out of them don't really use them that much and time them well.

But when they do use them It's like GODDAMN!!