Spanky dance

Does anyone do this as an adult? I was never spanked as a child, so never had the need to deal with a burning bottom after being let up from a parental lap. My adult spankings have never resulted in the dance.

Just curious if it happens as often in real life as it does in our imaginations

What the hell is a spanky dance?

The "dance" kids supposedly make when they get up from their spanker's lap. It would happen as they hop around trying to deal with the stinging behind.

Hahahahahahah OMG!! When I read the title I thought it was something like spanking someone while they are dancing. Lmao! 😁

hahahahahahah OMG!! When I read the title I thought it was something like spanking someone while they are dancing. Lmao! 😁

I thought of the exact same thing or something close to your idea.

I saw something like this on TV. Not sure if it actually happens. I guess it does.

Bloom.

After a spanking when I was a child I certainly did do the "spanky dance". It hurt, I cupped each butt cheek with a hand, and ran and jumped in circles in the middle of the room, raising my legs high. My sister did the same. I remember seeing cousins and friends doing it after a spanking. I think it was rather reflexive. In addition to providing relief to the spanked, I figured putting on a little show would also let the spanker know they'd done a thorough job and should consider it done.

I've never seen an adult do it, but then again I've never witnessed an adult spanking or been given one as an adult.

I knew what eddyj meant by the time I'd read half of his original post.

Thank you Cleanbean -- I had no idea my post would be so confusing to some. Your description of yourself and your sister I'd exactly what I was thinking about when I was writing. I guess the little bit of "theatre" thrown in for your parents benefit helped with the stinging behind, and would explain why this is not much of an adult thing.

I enjoy watching something similar, the dance of my enemate retaining the enema. OMG.

Eddyj, I knew exactly what you were talking about when I read the title of the thread. I never did the dance as a kid (or an adult), but I know that many do it.

I've seen some kids do the "spanky dance". Don't remember ever doing it myself. Might have resulted in more spanking so I had a good reason to "dance".

I haven't had my sub "dance". Though he is usually tied down so no dancing allowed.

Being tied down definitely gets in the way of dancing!

It does. I'm not much of a dancer but my wife sures. As we have explored more of our kinks we have engaged in a lot more spanking of her. She hates being spanked but loves how it turns me on and she likes how she feels afterwards. As the pain starts to overwhelm her she does a lot of reflexive dancing during the spanking. Covering her butt or rolling on to her back means the spanking starts at zero again so she kicks, twists, spreads and pulls her legs up a lot which resulted in a sort of dance.

Doesn't happen with me. I must stay over my spanker's lap until she takes my temperature after my spanking. By the time she lets me up I'll just rub a little if she allows me to.

I love doing the spanky dance, it's so humiliating and makes me feel submissive.

Being of age that corporal punishments took place in school I saw many boy or girl do said dance, I my self after canning often did similar to what you have described .

In my case, "The Fire Dance" like it was named in my family, was in fact not a real dance - I just jumped in circles in the middle of the room, while I cupped my buttocks with both of my hands... Like Cleanbean said: "In addition to providing relief to the spanked, I figured putting on a little show would also let the spanker know they'd done a thorough job and should consider it done." - alsoo in my case 😃

I almost certainly did the spanky dance after being let up as a kid. I still do it when I feel like being playful after my spankings now as an adult. I think my friend gets a kick out of it because the first time I did it he about passed out from laughing so hard.

I certainly do remember doing the 'spanky dance' as a kid! To be perfectly honest it was not an option after a work out with my Mom's or Aunt Rose's hairbrushes! You literally, in an involuntary manner, leapt off the spanker's lap and just jumped from foot to foot dancing around the room in a vain and futile attempt to put out the flames consuming your buttocks! To this day I remember that distinct, indeed unique feeling that always follows A GENUINE AND PROPER SPANKING! The burning and pulsating prickly heat that gives you the impression that the skin on your butt cheeks is 'actually alive'! The spanking itself may be over but its after effects and legacy are still completely dominant! It would be 15 to 20 minutes before the inferno raging on you backside srarted to die down a little! But the soreness and tenderness would be with you for the next couple of days AT THE VERY LEAST!!!! And of course your 'Red Indian' (apologies for the phraseology of the times; nowadays they would rightly be referred to as 'native Americans') dance would amuse and produce laughter from all those in the room; often motivating those present to make 'witty' remarks, such as; "Shall I go and get the ice packs!"; "You might as well just go and park you fanny in the refrigerator/freezer!" Another favorite remark was: "Don't worry kiddo, in about a couple of hours, if you lucky, your butt might not feel like it has just sat on a hornets nest!" And there was of course the inevitable; "We've all been there; we all had our butts blistered growing up! We all did the 'spanking jig'; did our 'time' in the corner; cooled our bottoms off in the sink; etc..." It was they said; "a ritual you just have to go through..." But that did nothing to assauge the hot, pulsating darts of pain and fire dancing all over the skin on your buttocks; as you did 'your performance', dancing around the room!

To add to my previous post: whilst the adults would find the whole event and ritual highly amusing and enjoyable; other kids, if they were present, would have more ambivalent feelings! On the one hand, they would derive some enjoyment from seeing one of their contemporaries getting their butts roasted; just thankful it was not their own 'rump ends' on the grill! On the other hand, they knew from personal experience just HOW MUCH SPANKINGS HURT!!!! And how easily it could be them in the same position as that of their unfortunate peer! Indeed, it would inevitably soon be!! I even knew a couple of friends who dreaded being present when a spanking was in progress; since their parents would, without fail, decide a spanking was in order as soon as they got home! The reason for this being that the said parents found sex so much more enjoyable after giving their kid(s) a good spanking! To people and kids nowadays this must seem 'absolutely incredible' and indeed such behavior would be almost unthinkable in this day and age! Even later generations did not experience such things; but for many, if not all, kids growing up until the mid '70s, or thereabouts, this is the sort of power and authority parents/adults could and often did exercise of children/teenagers! Youngsters nowadays, and even in more recent times, often find it hard to believe that kids who grew up in the years from the end of the Second World War up until to the mid and late '70s, went through this! And to be fair many did not! But also plenty did! A very, very different world!

Only if I’m getting it standing up but I don’t think that’s quite the same dance

I certainly used to do the spanking dance, but can't quite remember exactly when it stopped. I remember at one point being very conscious after a spanking at the memory of my penis bouncing around, but eventually even if I stood there rubbing, I wouldn't be hopping.

I have a friend who says his penis moved around like a helicopter after a spanking, and I must admit I'm impressed at how active he must have been to get that reaction.

I've done it, but it's more for her. I've only really had a couple of spankings as an adult that made me want to do it legit.