Locker Rooms

Bootboy1998: I think there is a huge difference between a school enforcing showers in a common room on teenagers (which may resent that if they are underdeveloped, shy, etc.) and a nudism organization, with adults attending voluntarily.

The health club I used to attend was very open. Open locker area, and a generally older but very open clientele.

What was specially good about it was that everyone respected difference. If someone was showering and openly touching himself, those disinterested would ignore it and those who rather enjoyed the show, would make that clear in a discreet way.

There were two all male sauna rooms and often one would be a great place for more open behaviour. No one would deliberately offend anyone else so no one would make any approaches until it was clear is would be received positively.

In some ways it felt much less like a meat market than gay bathhouses, and great for someone interested, but unsure of their sexuality.

Sadly some years ago the club to which the health club was attached rebuilt it and removed many of these comforting features, it was a great shame.

For me it's normal to be nude in the locker room but I've never noticed any sexual activity there.

I couldn't be naked in the locker room because I'm going to be fucking hard and I can't keep my hand off of it.

When my then wife and I worked out everyday at the same gym we would entertain each other with what our fellow regulars showed off and did in the changing rooms. From shy ones who would use the enclosed cubicles to those who wandered naked around the place. My wife was one of the latter and I also got hugely turned on by the thought of the other women seeing her fabulous naked figure. She had the best tits ever, in my experience.

Occasionally the male and female facilities would swap for the day to allow male maintenance staff access and that too was fun walking naked to the shower where all the women did usually. Inevitably one day I masturbated in the shower cubicle my wife said she always used.

I recall one girl with a stunning figure that my wife was clearly interested to see naked in the changing rooms. It was the only time she admitted to me she was mildly bi curious. She was amused that I would sometimes wank off in the shower and would often ask “did you have a play this morning then?”. Sadly our sex life drifted and she found someone else. I will regret that forever and think she does too. But that is another story.

I have never observed any overt male sex eroticism in changing rooms but always hope someone will admire my reasonable-for-my-age figure, as I do when I see another.

A long time ago, about 15 years or so ago, I gave an enema to a good acquaintance of ours in the women's locker room at our country club after a Saturday night affair we attended. He made a condescending remark about women that annoyed me that he thought was perfectly OK, so I made a bet with him that other women would also feel insulted, but he didn't believe me so the bet was if other women agreed with him, I would declare I was overly sensitive and he could give me an enema in the woman's locker room, but I won the bet, so I would give him an enema in the women's locker room. I feel certain he agreed to the bet because he was certain he would win and would end up giving me an enema. My husband stood guard and I used some long sneaker laces to tie his wrists behind the toilet in a marble stall and I gave him an enema using my douche bag (that I threw out afterward). I told him I better not hear any water dripping out of his ass until I told him it was OK to release it or else I would not cut his hands free after the enema.

The moral of this story is when you are a semi-drunk man, do not make a bet with a strong sober woman.

@SwitchableSusie Happy to see you here! Had to laugh - the fellow who got the enema seems like he was in a win-win situation; giving is great, but getting from you has to be good too!

ETA: If I were him, I'd have gone back to get the douche bag if you threw it out nearby - it would be quite a trophy having one from you…

I think most of us find it interesting, harmless and even quite enjoyable to peek at others in the locker rooms?? I admit that I tend to like to see who is circumcised, who is big/small, who is shaved or trimmed, what type & color underwear guys are wearing, how bold/shy they are, how their cock fits & looks when its put into a pair of briefs, how they react if they catch you looking, etc. Even when someone sees you glancing at their penis I don't think there is much of a problem. We all know that pretty much all of us has a look at least sometimes. Often it is our peripheral vision that tells us whether to consciously look or not, flagging anything deserving attention, overlooking the more routine cocks/pubes/underwear, etc. I've found that my friends either admit they look at others, or if they say they don't, I like to test them out. For instance, I said to one such denying friend that he was the only one in our soccer team to be shaved .. no, he'd say, Gary & Stewart are too. I'd say he and I were the only ones circumcised .. no, he'd say, what about Tony, Pete and Andy. I could similarly state something about underwear or cock size, and a similarly comprehensive account would come back.

If you deny looking yourself, test yourself immediately after your next locker room encounter & I bet you find you can recall lots of details for at least a handful of the guys who were near you, if you tried! There's no shame in it, & it doesn't mean you're not hetero.

Apart from the curiosity, I am definitely influenced by others in terms of trimming my pubes, styles of underwear, and the group etiquette of what is too much or too little modesty

What I noticed the most in the locker room is the overall physique - how in shape/muscular/defined is the guy. That inspired me to work harder, lift heavier, and work more on toning my body. Not at all interested in another guys genitals, dick or butt. I watched a 175 lb guy in a muscle shirt clean and jerk 305 lbs. The definition in his arms, shoulders and legs was phenomonal.

I enjoy the casual nudity in a lockerroom; however, that is where I draw the line. Very seldom have I seen any sexual overtones and when I did I just ignored.

I have used a few locker rooms in gyms and i have never seen anything untowards happening, pity, lol

I enjoy casual nudity in a locker room too. One gym I went to had a large open shower area directly across from the lockers, no dividers or individual cubicles. Made it so that everyone could see basically everything in the locker room. Sadly, it closed down a few years ago.

I've seen only 2 obvious displays over the years. Once was in the shower right across from me. There were no curtains, but a frosted glass panel separated each shower. He was directly across from me. It was clearly an intentional display and resulted in an ejaculation. The other was in the steam room which was very foggy you couldn't see clearly but could tell what he was doing. That too resulted in ejaculation. I couldn't see it happen, but did smell his semen.

In the locker room you could occasional see a guy stole his penis a couple times in front od his locker. There were always penises in various stages of erection sometimes full.

One gym I went to had a large open shower area directly across from the lockers, no dividers or individual cubicles. Made it so that everyone could see basically everything in the locker room. Sadly, it closed down a few years ago.

That is exactly how my high school showers were. There was no wall between the locker area and the showers, you just stepped down one step into the shower area. Huge shower room, easily held 30 guys (a whole team could shower at the same time). If you were in the locker area you saw the guys in the shower, and if you were in the showers you saw the guys in the locker area.