Don't want to watch your fantasy?

I was thinking (dangerous, lol) that I've never seen a single video I liked showing anything close to my medfet fantasies. So then I wonder, well why is that? And I think it's this: I prefer males as patients and females as medical staff, but I'm also a heterosexual male, and I don't like seeing other guys. Nothing against folks who do, don't get me wrong! Works for some I know, but it's not my pref, so anything that comes anything close to a fantasy of mine in video form, and I won't want to watch it coz of that.

Anyone else ever notice anything like that, where the mental doesn't line up with what you like to actually see?

Do you mean you don't like seeing guys in medical situations in a video but you do think about it?

It appears strange if you do have a mental fantasy but you wouldn't want to actually see it played out.

Each to their own of course.

Perhaps that is why you don't like looking at them, because it doesn't come close to how you want it to be. fantasy and reality are worlds apart, in fantasy everything falls into place at the right time. where in reality the kids are knocking on the bedroom door

Getting a personal fantasy absolutely correct in a video made by someone else is always going to be a difficult proposition. There will always be some little thing that doesn't appeal.

But what you're saying sounds more fundamental. Maybe you should just try female on female videos to start with.

I can somewhat understand what you're saying since I think I'm in a similar situation. I consider myself straight, having never done anything with another male. But I personally think of myself as a patient, with someone acting as the doctor and examining me. My preference is for the doctor to be female, but either is actually OK with me. When I watch a female doctor examining a male patient, I try to think of myself as the patient. I'm generally not watching it because I'd like to examine the guy in the video, but because I am that guy, having the doctor do those things to me. I guess it's just a subtle difference and maybe why I don't have a problem watching videos like that.

I see what you mean JimmyJohnson. I guess it's just a different mental state?

Also agracier I totally agree. Nobody else can really do someone else's fantasy very well especially if it's involved, and even if they try, it comes across always kinda... corny or something?

Yeah, I agree, never seen my fantasy either but for different reasons. My kinks are pretty BDSMi and even medfet but roleplay and realistic scenarios dont interest me the slightest. Basically all spanking videos Ive seen are about punishment, all shot movies and stories are about medical and pain. Just nah..

I agree, its very difficult to find material that matches my fantasies perfectly. My fantasies are rooted very heavily in the setting and I have yet to find a video with a set that really matches what I'm looking for.

I was thinking (dangerous, lol) that I've never seen a single video I liked showing anything close to my medfet fantasies. So then I wonder, well why is that?

Anyone else ever notice anything like that, where the mental doesn't line up with what you like to actually see?

I wondered about that too...

I haven't seen any videos close to my fantasies either but I think it is because fantasies are so personal in nature. I just like to watch real medical procedures and leave it up to my imagination to run wild after. In my mind everything is perfect and it happens just the way I want to.

I just like to watch real medical procedures and leave it up to my imagination to run wild after. In my mind everything is perfect and it happens just the way I want to.

And that is one reason why I've written a few stories. When you write your own story, you have total control over the scenario, the characters, the dialog -- everything. You can craft the fantasy to be exactly what turns you on at that particular moment.

And that is one reason why I've written a few stories. When you write your own story, you have total control over the scenario, the characters, the dialog -- everything. You can craft the fantasy to be exactly what turns you on at that particular moment.

Yes, exactly. Writing your own stuff can be such a turn-on and perhaps even good therapy.

Even better is writing enough so that you forget what you wrote and then years later re-reading it all again ... that's a real hoot ... ha ha

Even better is writing enough so that you forget what you wrote and then years later re-reading it all again ... that's a real hoot ... ha ha

Exactly. As soon as I finish a story, having proof read it and published all of the parts, I typically don't re-read it again for several months. Usually by the time I've finished one I'm ready to move on to some other story, or just take a break for awhile. But then I will come back a few months later and read it again -- as if I'm reading it for the first time. It's always nice when a story arouses me again -- even though I wrote it and even though I know exactly what happens and how it ends!