Arousing purchase

I had thought about purchasing one of those njoy plugs for a couple of days now.

Today, I decided to get one. So I went to an upmarket erotic shop, quite an intimate setting. I was the only male customer, the others were women looking for lingerie, all female shop assistants. I went straight to one of them. She was attractive, in her mid twenties, slim, black nylons, a short black leather skirt, a tiny top and nerdy glasses. All very classy and very much my type. She asked what I was looking for, and I replied: "a butt plug". Her face was priceless and so was my arousal.

She then asked if I was a first time user and I said yes. We looked at a couple of different butt plugs, she explained how to use them, and we discussed my requirements, what size I should go for and if I wanted one that was specially designed to stimulate my prostate. I would not be surprised if one of the other customers had overheard what we were talking. I have never felt more embarrassed but excited at the same time.

I finally decided to go for a medium sized model, which she asked a colleague of hers to get for me.

When I paid, she teasingly told me that they had a strict no returns policy, which didn't really surprise me.

What about you fellow butt plug owners, did you purchase yours online or are there any similar experiences out there?

I love going to classy sex stores and chatting with the female help.

I've bought mine online. But I've had online discussions with the artist that made them. We've discussed changes to stock plugs and new designs. But you don't get that in person thrill on line. I went to a high end sex store about an hour from here years ago. I had no idea what I was looking for. They had some estim stuff for sale and the owner was in the store at the time. She saw me looking at it and asked if I was interested. I had tried a different brand and never got into it. So I told her so. She said her husband loved estim and that she did too. The next thing you know she had it out of the box and was showing me how it felt on my arm. I was in love with her at first sight. I'd talked to a woman about stuff like that! I think I spent about $400 before leaving the store that day! Ouch! And it renewed my interest in estim. I've probably got a couple of grand in equipment now.

I buy my personal toys from one of two nearby shops. We have the grand kids every day so I don't want to risk the exposure of something arriving in the mail. I also buy some things for myself, that I'm not comfortable enough to share with my wife just yet.

It had been many many years since I last visited an adult shop - and back then, I would always respond "Just looking, thanks" when the clerk asked if I needed assistance. Part of it may have been embarrassment and part of it was true, I really did not have any idea what I was looking for.

This last fall when I went into a shop, I surprised myself when a nice looking lady working there asked me if she could help me find anything and I didn't hesitate to tell her I was looking for a nice butt plug. She wasn't what I would call an expert on the topic, but she was very helpful by opening various packages so I could have a good look at them. On a later visit, I was helped by a slightly younger woman who seemed to be very much up to speed with what was popular - and she has helped me pick out a few nice items. I'm always surprised at how relaxed I am talking to them about what I want. I think joining Zity is partly responsible for making me more comfortable about what I want.

I knew I had made great strides the day I went into another shop looking for a nice dildo. The gal that works/manages this shop is short and round and looks to close to my age or in her late 40's. When she saw me looking at dildos and vibrators, she asked me if I had any questions. I kind of shrugged her off, not knowing what to say. She didn't give up though, the first question out of her mouth was, "Is this for you, or to use on someone else"? That single question knocked down any remaining barriers and I told her I was looking for something for myself. She proceeded to give me a thorough knowledge of the pros and cons of several styles of dildos. Soon we were talking about what experience I had and how large a diameter I was accustomed to. It was somewhat arousing but more importantly, it alleviated any anxiety I had been feeling.

She helped me select what i feel is the perfect dildo for me at this time. Now when I stop in to browse around, she points out anything new that she thinks I might be interested in. She also knows I'd love to get my wife to use a strap-on and she inquires as to whether or not I'm making any progress with her. She's promised to make sure my wife gets a good fit if I ever talk her into accompanying me to the shop.

I've been buying online for the last several toys. However, I do love finding shops in Atlanta where there is a female working and buying anal toys. It just seems dirty and a little embarrassing and it really turns me on for some reason.

@ImDoug

"...I kind of shrugged her off, not knowing what to say. She didn't give up though, the first question out of her mouth was, "Is this for you, or to use on someone else"? That single question knocked down any remaining barriers and I told her I was looking for something for myself. She proceeded to give me a thorough knowledge of the pros and cons of several styles of dildos. Soon we were talking about what experience I had and how large a diameter I was accustomed to. It was somewhat arousing but more importantly, it alleviated any anxiety I had been feeling.

She helped me select what i feel is the perfect dildo for me at this time. Now when I stop in to browse around, she points out anything new that she thinks I might be interested in. She also knows I'd love to get my wife to use a strap-on and she inquires as to whether or not I'm making any progress with her. She's promised to make sure my wife gets a good fit if I ever talk her into accompanying me to the shop..."

And they say customer service is dead