Guys: What do YOU like in a blowjob?

I'm giving my boyfriend head on Friday and picked up a few basics, like: see if he enjoys his balls being played with, "cap" your teeth with your lips just in case they come out, pay some attention to the outside of the shaft, swirl the head. Well, that's all fine and good, but more advice can never hurt.

So tell me, what do you guys like when you get head?

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Since this appears to be one of your early experiences, just remember one thing if he starts to get too demanding or rough for you: The dominant person in charge of the blowjob is the one with the teeth. Don't be afraid to use them if you need to.

A lot of men also enjoy a bit of a handjob as you suck them off. Keep their penis wet with saliva.

Come to an agreement in advance if he can ejaculate in your mouth and also whether you are willing to swallow or spit it out. Getting things sorted out in advance will avoid hurt feelings or anyone having a suboptimal experience.

Since you asked, I like a woman to pay oral attention to my balls as well as my cock, if she wants to lick a little lower, I won't stop her. I prefer her to just use her mouth, if I want a hand job I will ask or do it myself. I also love a woman who loves to swallow. Most of all, if she is not into it, don't bother.

I agree work out the swallow or not to swallow issue before you get started. If you don't swallow you can just let him cum in your mouth and more or less push the semen out of your mouth with your tongue and let it fall back on his cock. Check out some porn vides for a demonstration- this is done all the time.

I love to be slowly deep throated feeling the grip of her lips all the way down to the base of my penis and then slowly pulling back up to the head. These long full deep strokes are heavenly.

Now I am into all things anal, so this might not be for everyone but I like to have my balls sucked and then have her move down and rim my ass hole- what a sensation! And if he is into anal stimulation, fingers up the ass while giving the blowjob result in an extremely powerful orgasm.

Have fun, I can't imagine he won't enjoy this blowjob.

First of all i like that the giver is caring enough about an anticipate experience to reach out to others in an effort to make it the best experience possible. i like that caring aspect of it that you have.

I like during a bj that if you feel your mouth needs to take a short break, maintaining my arousal with your hand is good. If you want him to cum in your mouth, make sure you communicate so he does not ejaculate during your use of your hand instead, like the combo of signaling to you or your detection from his reactions that he is about ready.

Try to be cognizant of your teeth to minimize contact with them, that the contact should more be with your tongue, lips, & inside walls of your mouth.

Yes, i like my balls & scrotum to be caressed. Once you know this secret & you want me to cum sooner instead of later, the right manipulation of my balls & scrotum would result in me cumming when you want me to. I'm sure every male is different, but if you neglect my scrotum for 5 to 10 mins after around the 20 minute mark, & then resume around the 30 minute mark, i'll cum almost instantly. So you could control when the ejaculation happens based on you knowing what turns your man on.

A few other things i like is varying the speed with which you move your head, & if you vary the technique with perhaps some shaft licking with your tongue outside of your mouth..

I like the giver to be enthusiastic. I want to know that she (he) is enjoying the act as much as I am. I like variation on speed and intensity. Little playful tongue flicks, long slow deep throats, fast head bobs. I like the giver to use their hands too. Pumping the shaft is good, cradling the balls, constricting the base, even manipulating the glans a bit.

And slobber, heavy on the slobber.

Relax, let yourself become one with the penis, and have fun!

The feeling of having my penis completely engulfed and the caresses on my balls, specially with long nails, that go with it. The throat is the perfect vagina when you love big loose pussy and are normally endowed

Along with all the good info already presented, I'm like ProV1 in that I also like some gentle suction while swirling the tongue around my glans. I'm also into some gentle suction on each testicle during the whole process as well. If we all "planned ahead" and had a cleansing enema series prior to said BJ, continuing the tonguing all the way to the anus for a thorough rimming during the event is also highly enjoyable.

I like it when I am sitting in a chair and she gets down on her knees and pulls my pants and underware down. I like it very slow and gentle in and out motion and with deep suction and with a few flicks of the tongue at the head and opening when its in her mouth. I also like hands and mouth stroking and sucking and the same time. I love to hear her moan with it in her mouth. You should also encourage your man to make some noise to let you know if her likes it and what he likes. Myself personally I am quite vocal in the bedroom. If I am getting head and like it I will moan and cry out or say things like "thats it, good girl, right there baby, just like that or keep sucking etc" Encourage him to be vocal and tell you how he likes it. Also if he wants to let him hold you hair and push on your head down on his cock. That way he has control.

I like blowjobs that are wet and slutty and enthusiastic. A finger up my butt increases my pleasure dramatically but I don't know if your bf likes that.

Generally, my dick and their mouth will do.

For me its very simple . . . ENTHUSIASM! My GF certainly has that.

Anna, you received great advice here. Talk to your b/f first. Make sure you both agree if he can cum in your mouth, swallowing, ball sucking, rimmimg, prostate massage and holding your head. Hubby really enjoys ass play during a bj but he knows if he holds my head or grabs my hair that he will have teeth marks on his cock!

I also like her to make all kinds of noises. Lip smacking, suction release, kissing sounds, lapping, moans, giggles, and other vocalizations all turn me on. I know she is determined and enjoying herself, whether I have my eyes open or closed, when I hear the act.

What I like best is when daddy grabs the back of my head and forces his penis deep when he fills this sissybsby's throat with his cum

Wear something sexy like lacy lingerie or a nice blouse and skirt with a nice lace bra underneath and open the blouse a little so he can get a peek. Show off your breast without showing nipple. Wear something that will tease him. When your giving him head take your free hand and put in down your panties and start to play with yourself. That would be s good blowjob fantasy that I would enjoy. Or you could take him and tie or cuff his hands together and tell him you can't have him talking and gag him. Then when he can't get away take and suck his cock slow and gentle then hard and fast using your hands and mouth and deep suction. When he is about to cum stop. Then start again. Have him throbbing and burning and praying to God for you to let him cum. He is tied up and can't get away he can't stop you and can't even jack himself off. Un gag him and have him beg and plead for you to let him cum. Only let him cum when you decide you want him to cum. Bring him to the verge of explosive orgasim and then deney it until you want him to cum. Then only agree to release him if he agrees to be a good boy and after you have had your way with him.

Enthusiasm and desire to pleasure is the most important part. Beyond that, don't get boring, move your mouth up and down the shaft to simulate thrusting in and out of your vagina. Don't feel obligated to take the whole penis in your mouth but do interact with the entire length of the penis by using a hand on what will not comfortable fit in your mouth. The other hand can then stimulate the nipples, scrotum, and anus to keep things more interested.

I like her to fondle and squeeze firmly my balls and scrotum and rub between my balls and rectum. While she does this suck on my dick and swirl her tongue around the glands while jacking myself off in her mouth and face, she enjoys this so please no rude comments. With all that said we rarely go to completion as we both usually rather end by a nice hard deep fucking while I lick my precum off her lips and face and share it with her.

The first thing my wife usually does is take my ball sack in her mouth. She rolls my balls around with her tongue and nibbles on my balls. I also like my balls squeezed between her fingers. She usually then moves upward licking the shaft, but most of the attention is given to licking the glans, especially the bottom rim of the glans. Sometimes I shoot my first load just with the licking. It is also great if she tightens her lips and let me thrust a little.

It is good when she removes her dentures.

While I really like the feeling of a good blowjob, I have never cum by one.

Love watching it slide in and out of her mouth. Love when she swallows. Love when her finger caresses my asshole while she blows me, then slides it in just as I'm coming.

While I really like the feeling of a good blowjob, I have never cum by one.

Maybe your partner needs to use some hand action with it.

Never assume your partner will do a good job satisfying you. People change, sensitivities change, what they THINK they are doing changes and so on. You need to be a life-long teacher to your partner on how to satisfy you--and your partner needs to constantly update you on what makes her feel good.

Take a time out with the "blowing" part, leave it really wet and stroke it with your hand.

At the some time your stroking, lick and suck on his balls, to die for!!!!!

My wife knows very well that what I like most in a blowjob is rhythm. What I don't want is frantic and random actions that don't provide any sustained stimulation. Yes, she can tease my foreskin while it is still in the forward position, she can either retract it manually and then use her tongue creatively, but in the main she knows to concentrate on my glans with a rhythm, only occasionally stopping to do something different before resuming the rhythm.

. . . . she knows to concentrate on my glans with a rhythm, only occasionally stopping to do something different before resuming the rhythm.

My husband and I would agree with you 100%

I would add SUCTION and TONGUE PRESSURE.

I would add SUCTION and TONGUE PRESSURE.

Yes, absolutely. Suction and tongue pressure are always good things.

The teasing, arousing, attention getting techniques that make me hard, but don't necessarily get me off. I want to be ROCK HARD when blown, desiring to come and ejaculate but not quite allowed to do so until it's no longer in my control and I can't help but explode.

Just as a reply, I've had quite a few lovers both male and female, and a few were awesome in how they sucked me, and I don't believe they were doing anything wrong, so much as I think it was a physiological thing with me.

I've always wished I could do it myself, I've always been jealous of those few who could.

As I stated before, it feels wonderful.