Getting partner to do it

How do I get my partner talked into anal? I love things stuck up my ass.

You don't provide much information on yourself or your partner. So with that said, i'll recommend a tried and true method.

The next time you go down on your partner - stick your tongue as far up their ass as it will reach. Once you have them under your control, tell them you want them to stick something in your butt. Doesn't matter if it's a tongue, a finger, vibrator, etc. Once you reach that point, you should have no problem convincing them.

The key is to show them and tell them - communication is everything - hinting wastes too much time

How do I get my partner talked into anal? I love things stuck up my ass.

YOU TALK about it.

There is no secret or magic.

Ask for, and Ye shall receiveth...

After having some highly enjoyable couch sex one afternoon, said ladyfriend simply told me she really liked anal and wanted me to fuck her in the ass. A few minutes later (this was some years back) I happily obliged. I'd take Vegas odds most guys won't need the hard sell to indulge you either. Just ask.

I'm with Susie you must talk about it. Ask you you will find most men will drop everything to oblige you.

You talk about it.

Keep in mind that RECEIVING anal sex may sound daunting and intimidating, and is painful if the anus is not loosened enough. Nervousness or anticipation result in contraction, thus more pain.

My wife liked anal play (thermometer, suppository, small plug, finger...) but could not cope with the idea of getting something as wide as my penis up her anus. (I think I'm slightly over average but not enormous!)

Basically we had to try pegging on me (with a rather thin dildo) before she could think it possible to try penetration on her.

I think before you ask the big question, you may want to make sure your rectum is clear. This could be as simple as having a BM soon before the opportunity to have sex begins. This will give you confidence that there won't be a bad experience for your partner if he is somewhat hesitant due to cleanliness reasons. You could of course do a few enemas that are not too large in volume so you can clear the rectum and it can be easily expelled.

Now that you are ready and confident of how things will go physically, just ask the question. I have not seen any surveys but I would be willing to bet that the majority of men would jump at the chance to have anal sex. This should be an easy sell.

Good luck and have fun.

Just tell your partner you get great g-spot stimulation from anal play. That is usually what allows anal play to be so enjoyable for women. So if you tell your partner this, it should be convincing enough. Everyone who is interested in pleasing and satisfying a woman will be interested in paying proper attention to her g-spot. If your partner happens to be a man, tell him that anal penetration gives the penis more stimulation than vaginal.

ProV1 is right. Before any anal sex, the minimum is to go poop, even if you do not feel an urge. You can improve on that with a small enema, repeat until results are clear enough. (Do not use large enemas they will just draw fecal matter from higher in the bowels...)

It's not only about actual sh*t but also about the fear of the receiving partner of sh*tting on the giving partner.

Before actual anal sex, some finger massaging / rectal exam is nice. Use lots of lube. If you don't use a condom, you may use vaseline - it has a more 'greasy' feeling than water-based gels and I find it nice for anal. The bad thing about vaseline is that it's difficult to clean off.

I would be surprised if guy wouldnt want to have anal sex with women. We guys have a thing for sticking our part to any whole available. It shouldnt take a lot of time to try to convince him to do it. I wish my wife be so happy to do it