SPH = small penis humiliation

I was always very small knew this by seeing my dad and then in gym classes but when puberty hit never got bigger than 10 or 11yr old.My 1st wife left think was not satisfied and left.

I do it to all my sissies but that's always one of the things they asked for before we ever played.

I've had some people with bigger dicks than me that wanted that.

I like it myself too but I'm hardly ever the sissy anymore it's usually the other way around hard to find somebody.

I have a small dick and get off on sph. Lexi Lapetina is the sph/joi queen and understands.

I love them all…big or small. Mine is “average” I have been told. Small is cute and big can be scary…but I just love watching them at the nudist resort. Just like women’s breasts or vaginas they are all different.

I have always been small when soft,I notice around the school showers that there were some smaller than me so i never let it worry me.Its well proportioned when its excited and pleases my gf .

I love when my penis is completely flaccid. When I’m like that it’s only 1” long with a 3/4” girth. When a top mentions my tiny penis. I instantly become more submissive. The more I’m humiliated and degraded for having such a small penis. The more submissive, sluttier and kinkier I become. If anyone would like to see pics feel free to send me a private message.

I am 60 yrs old and have noticed that my penis has shrunk quite bit in the last few years. I've always been a grower not a shower, but recently even my wife has noticed the shrinkage. I felt a bit embarrassed at her comments and even got a bit of an erection. I've also started wearing mens "panties" occasionally and my wife will make derogatory comments about my choices. I'm about 1 1/2" flaccid and 4 1/2" erect now (about 1" - 2 " shorter than I used to be). At times the head of my penis shrinks into the shaft like a foreskin (I am circumcised). If I have not trimmed for a while, it almost disappears! Not sure if this common or not.

SPH is another thing I overlooked until I found zity. I've always felt that I had a small penis, which I somewhat have finally verified in the locker rooms recently. I wouldn't say I enjoy being ridiculed or humiliated, but I do like her "embarrassment" of showing it off. I know I've always enjoyed when I have to expose my small member to the doctor, knowing he knows exactly where I rank, but have found I enjoy showing it off in the locker room as well. It's not uncommon to be the smallest in there. Since I'm already going to be small, I look forward to when I have to change / shower after swimming, knowing it'll be even smaller than normal.

@happygsp I am 60 yrs old and have noticed that my penis has shrunk quite bit in the last few years. I've always been a grower not a shower.....

Wait till you get to my age... not sure when I began to notice shrinkage; but I really like having a grower that about 1" when unexcited. This makes it great for wearing women's panties as makes for a feminine flat panty crotch.

I posted on this topic 3 years ago. I started taking Estradiol about then to develop real breasts. Since then (2019) my cock has shrunk so he is only 2 inches when I masturbate. I never have spontaneous erections and have to concentrate on porn to make him cum. He hides inside me most of the time and I have to pull him out to pee! I do have nice A cups now so it was worth it! I now make love to my GF like a lesbian - she loves it and is still multi-orgasmic! I have been to Club Orlando - I love being naked with other men. I have had several interested in my little penis. The comment I have had range from humiliation to extreme interest in the little guy! And for some reason, my breasts attract attention from many of the gay men. I see myself as a man with breasts - when dressed I look and act alpha male. Small penis is OK by me to have bigger breasts!

Speaking of breasts; I wonder having them has anything to do with having a very small grower dickiedoo... I mentioned that it makes wearing women's panties fit easier in the crotch since there's nothing hanging/pushing out.

I posted on this topic 3 years ago.

me too! Always interesting to re-read stuff and see how we have changed, or not. For me, i am better able to articulate how i feel now in some ways.

i don't have a particularly small sized penis, maybe even a little larger than average when it comes to erect girth, though about 7 long. my testicles are on the smaller size though (i've been in contact with a lotta cocks in my life, so can compare) and always seem to want to retreat up into me if i'm erect.

i see Men/men as having both a physical and a psychological penis. In that context, while i perceive myself as having a physical penis, i do not have a 'Cock.' Just my own emotional/psychological perceptions and verbiage, but to me a "Cock" is something a man who uses it to penetrate, effect, create, dominate, inseminate, impregnate, etc., with. And all those descriptors have deep and varied meaning for me, and their definition/meaning comes down to the individual Man. While we may all have similar parts and similarities, no two people are alike.

To me, the connections we make in relationship are about connecting our individual parts, both physically and psychologically, but i do not separate the two. my penis size is about how another Man wants and sees it.

For a few years now, i find i am very responsive to Men Who see me as having more of a clitoris than a penis. Which can be tricky to communicate, because i do not 'feel' like a woman, nor do i have any particular need or desire to be, i'm not a transperson, but i experience the deepest and most intense and 'real' (for me) connections with Men who see/want that too (i.e., they see me as having a 'clit' and a 'pussy'). i'm not deluded, i know i have a penis and an anus, but psychosexually, those are the descriptors that i identify with and connect to other Men with.

The terms work best for me because we don't really have terms to fit everyone, eh? Our culture has long been defined and described in mostly heteronormative terms. Those of us who are not heteronormative have to adapt or use those words to try and convey who we are, but the fit is never perfect. Still, i find anyone who wants to understand, can, not a big deal. And, more importantly, those who have similar wiring with similar need/desire, 'get it.'

So, for me, SMP is about absence of cock. i came to realize, after years of not wanting a Man to touch my physical penis, that it was about His perception about what i have. When i experienced a Man who actually perceived me as not having a 'cock' but perceived me as a guy with a clitoris, not only could He touch and use it, i really loved it because He was connecting to my real perception of my penis vs the standard norm that doesn't fit who and how i am.

While i can feel a very arousing sense of what i term "affectionate humiliation/degradation," from this kind of desire coming from a Man, i think it's a conditioned response. i do not connect to men who want/need to belittle or be mean about it, rather those who love and want that about me and are not shy or hidden about showing Their own need/desire.

I have a little smile when I see small penises in the Zity galleries.

I have a little smile when I see small penises in the Zity galleries.

You'd love this one at about 50 seconds

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oljGhc4qvds&t=106s

You'd love this one at about 50 seconds

That's allot bigger than my little grower...

Statistically my penis is smaller than average. Okay, so my penis is small and I have always been and still am intimidated by men with larger dicks in the communal showers at my health club. Maybe it is a Napoleon Complex of sorts but somehow I feel so very inadequate when I am nude along with any man with a longer and thicker penis than mine. My extremely powerful dominant late wife whom I worshiped and was obedient to and subservient to, relentlessly shamed me for having such a small, pitifully tiny, little penis because she knew that it made me feel horribly inadequate...she knew it did and she also knew it was quite a turn on for me. Nowadays I know there are more men like myself than ones with humongous dicks and I am okay with my inadequacy for my little dick and still get off when I get humiliated for it.

Well, where should I begin ? Working in various medical areas for over 40 years, I can tell you that the size of a man, or his hands, or his feet, has absolutely no baring on the size of his penis. I have seen some pretty fair sized penises on newborn babies - relatively speaking; I have seen grown men with penises the size of baby's penises. (I am married to one of those, but more about that later.) I have been a part of high school and college male physicals and can tell you there is usually a difference in the size of white boys and black boys/men- with black men having at least a small edge, but generally more. (Not trying to be racist or offend anyone, just speaking from my experiences.) I have not seen enough Asian, Native American, or other groups to make a comment on them in general. I have seen some very well endowed men and some that were MORE than well endowed.

However, this line of posting was started to discuss "small penises" and "small penis humiliation", so let me get back to the topic at hand. When I met my husband, I was still in nursing school and had seen many penises of all ages and descriptions.

As my boyfriend and I got more serious, occasionally he would develop a small bump in his tightie-whities but never the bulge I expected from a 21 tear old man. Now this "man" played high school football, ran track, worked in a hay field, did road construction, swam competitively, played water polo, and lots more. Even my brother, who is a West Point grad. said he was a 'stud". And he was in all but one aspect. For several months, I thought maybe it was me, did I not understand the male body ? (I was and still am fairly attractive, not ever having trouble getting dates at that time.) At the end of a great date, and a very heavy petting session, all I could get was a 2"- 2 1/2" response. I figured it was time to get to the bottom of this "little" problem. After an hour or so of prodding, coaxing, and down right bitchin', he was sulking and on the verge of tears. He told me that since Junior High School when the boys had to change into gym shorts the other boys poked fun of him because there was no bulge in hid underwear - not even a small bump. This carried on into high school, where the situation got worse. After practice - football, basketball, or track; in the "gang showers" the insults and jeering just grew. (Individual showers were not even thought about in the 1960's.) After a calf injury in football, he had to shave his leg from knee to ankle. This incited another round of un-masculine taunts and jeers. The other boys, even some of his friends told other students. boys and girls alike, about his "baggy drawers". Then some of the girls confirmed his status and his dating opportunities deminished greatly. He had few dates and they were were more social than physical; prom, Valentine's Day, Christmas time, etc. In college thing did not improve. He was a terrific swimmer, swimming long distances ans playing water polo. In order to reduce drag in the water, the team was "encouraged" to shave their body, arms and legs, (ever though his hair was blond, thin, and sparse). Well, he did. Now his brothers began their insults and chiding. Without knowing it, every remark cut out a part of his self respect. He is the oldest of three males, and after marriage we had three daughters. So - no males. After several medical tests we discovered he lad very low testosterone levels for a man. The Drs. told us this was a contributing factor for various conditions we found : large nipples, middle age breast development, high cheek bones, and probably the fact that his penis is short and not capable of much growth - even with the help of Viagra. Two Drs. sited low T levels sometime showed up in poor mobility and stamina of sperm, making it more probable for female (XX) than male (XY) to make it to the ovum for impregnation. The medical reports did not change things, although the Viagra helps. IV assured him his "condition" was just that -a "condition", and it did not affect my love for him. In our years together I have picked up on insulting his "inadequate tiny penis" and it has become part of his submissive personna and a large part of my heavy handed dominance. Now I use endearing terms like : "tiny", "shrimp dick" "limp dick" "sissy boi" and "wimpy'.

All of this to get us to the fact that I love humiliating him with my SPH and he has come to embrace it also. I tease him about having a pair of useless balls in a sack that are virtually just a decoration. I also tease him about busting his balls or cutting them off, but that is just talk. We do not have intercourse as he is not large enough in width or length to give me any pleasure. But my erogenous zone are on the outside of my body anyway, and I have taught him how to tantalize and keep me on the edge of orgasm leading to a grand climax, relaxing and beginning all over again. All the time ridiculing and insulting his small symbol of what should be s man. ( I tell him repeatedly he might be a "male", but he will NEVER be a "man" ! !This happens at least once a week, usually more. Once in a while I will feed him a Viagra and tease the hell out of him to the edge, back him off and repeat the process repeatedly. Sometimes I cam coax him to a 3" erection but never more than that. His hands are too large for him to masturbate himself because he is so short. But it sure is fun watching him try to hold the little fellow and rub it. GREAT FUN ! ! To those who haven't tried it - regardless of your partner's size and ability try a good dose of SMALL PENIS HUMILIATION ! ! !

DommeOB

My penis is very much a grower and is quite small at its smallest (cold/nervous/etc.) While I am generally very happy that it is capable of significant growth when erect, I would love to sometimes be able to keep it small when I'm aroused and in a feminine and/or age-regressed headspace. On the SPH side, one of my fantasies involves being a teen or young adult and having my genitals and sexual responses examined by a doctor, who would determine that I needed to dressed and treated like a little girl, and be subject to embarrassing treatments and discipline.

After several medical tests we discovered he lad very low testosterone levels for a man. The Drs. told us this was a contributing factor for various conditions we found : large nipples, middle age breast development, high cheek bones, and probably the fact that his penis is short and not capable of much growth - even with the help of Viagra.

What a story.

I’ve never understood (or had any interest in learning more about) SPH, but this post really brought home the impact on someone’s life such a condition would have.

You’re very lucky to have found each other, and I’m so glad you’ve found ways to leverage his situation rather than having it primarily be a source of pain!

While this is definitely a male situation being discussed, I can’t help but think of a clear overlap with women…

I tend to do most of my most free and no-holds-barred writing over on BDSMLR. There, I see so, so, so many girls and women who really lean into the “women are meant to be used and abused” kinds of kink and fetish. Now, I know at least some of this comes from the modern-day paradox of some innate submissive tendencies contrasting with feminists ideals of equality and independence. But I also see many connections to a past that some of these women have suffered of abuse and mistreatment.

Much like your husband, it seems like, for the most part, these are healthy women who are using kink and porn and fetishism to mentally cope with what otherwise could be extraordinarily difficult trauma past experiences. Your husband (so it sounds like) can’t change his situation, and he can’t wish the terrible memories away, so he’s leaning into them to better cope with them and also find ways to turn a negative into an occasional, if not powerful, positive, for himself and you!

When I’m browsing BDSMLR and see women writing things that feel, clearly, like an attempt to lean into their broken past, my feelings are in conflict. Initially, they are anger, sympathy, and a desire to violently punish their abusers while giving them the biggest hug I can conceive of. Then I remember that they’re adults and deserve to be allowed to cope with their own issues however they want to. Then I write some more and give them some well-illustrated medfet-style abuse to fantasize about! 😉

-tyd

What is "BDSMLR" Have you got a web address ? What is the general gist/format of the content ? ?

DommeOB

I am a woman, but small ones always excited me.

Is that weird ?

I have had all sizes, but small makes me extra horny.

And in my opinion small ones are better lovers.

💋💋💋 Merel

Yes I love having this done at the hands of a woman ,mocking me and laughing at my size

I’d really love a roomfull of women to see it ,that would be my ideal fantasy

There is small and then there is small. I think most of what get's posted here involves very well developed men. We should realize that smaller doesn't mean defective!

@Merel I am a woman, but small ones always excited me. Is that weird ?

No, it's beautiful 🌹

@TrustYourDoctor I have the same question. What is BDSMLR? From you comment it sounds like a site that may be interesting.

@TrustYourDoctor I have the same question. What is BDSMLR? From you comment it sounds like a site that may be interesting.

https://bdsmlr.com/ sort of took over when Tumblr announced their no adult material policy some years ago. BDSMLR thrives on sexual content, photos mainly, with some of their members also doing illustrations made by hand.

Like Tumblr, it is mainly about posting imagery, but to my taste somewhat less tasteful than on Tumblr, or at least in the tumblr accounts I used to follow.

Even so, I have an account on BDSMLR, which because of the (relatively tame) contents doesn't seem all that successful.

I’m very small 1 inch soft and 2 hard and about 1 wide.

One day after my wife made me a cuckold I came into the bedroom after a cold shower. She laughed at me and said where is your dick. Well it little guy popped up and she laughed again