Enema gateway

Do you think enemas lead to your use of dildos or nipple clamps or whatever other kink you have added on ?

Enemas did not lead me to anal play - I've always enjoyed anal stimulation and toys, whether solo or at the hands of my wife. This had always been limited to a few times a year thing since pre-teen. It always involved being "prepared for the worst" as far as clean-up and containment goes.

However, the discovery of enemas has made it so much more convenient and pleasurable that i now engage in anal play several times a week and have begun building a decent collection of "anal specific" toys. The libido boost from this activity was also a surprising benefit.

It also has amplified my interest in my wife's ass and anal sex. So far, she seems to be progressing in the right direction 😃

I wouldn't say that enemas alone opened the gateway, but it was a contributing factor. Having received weekly enemas since childhood, it was no big deal. However, when I had the house to myself, I decided to self administer a large enema to myself. Not being too bright, instead of doing it in the bathroom, I decided to do it someplace where I wouldn't be caught if somebody came home. Once I filled myself with almost two quarts, it dawned on me that I now have to climb the stairs to reach the bathroom! I found a small drain plunger under the sink in the laundry room, and proceeded to insert it in my bottom to hold the water in. Climbing the stairs with this thing wiggling in my butt with each step, proved to be sensory overload and I had my first orgasm, spurting cum while I raced up the stairs to unload the enema. That opened the gateway for anal play!

For me, enemas have not been a gateway to new kinks. On the contrary, my enema fetish was later coming than many other 'kinky type things' that I noticed in myself early on. I learned that I enjoyed anal play at a very early age, long before I figured out penile masturbation. I remember sneaking into my sisters room and trying on her clothes, especially her panties and stockings, as a prepubescent. I would spank my own bottom until it was quite red with the thin green roofing planks of my Lincoln Logs set when I was 8 or 10.

I recall fascinations with urinating on myself in the shower and bathtub. I knew these things would have been perceived as 'naughty' by my parents if/when I was caught doing them. As much as that taboo and danger of discover brought on a thrill, I never thought of the fun I was having as bad or abnormal in the least. Not until I was an adolescent and concerned with comparing myself to my peers, anyhow. Thankfully those feelings of personal inadequacy were fleeting. The fear of reproach from the wider culture did prompt me to hide most of my kinks and I do still to this day though.

I don't remember receiving enemas as a child and only recall discovering and playing with a combo bag when I was perhaps 12 or 13. When I became sexually active with the opposite sex in my late teens I did discover new titilating fun of course. Shivambu Shastra certainly came much later, but I hesitate to consider that a true kink.

Moreso, I would say that enemas have enhanced and heightened my enjoyment of other 'fetishes' rather than introducing me to trying new ones so far. I will say though, that I do look forward to expanding my repertoire as life goes on.

No, enemas have not been a gateway to anything other than enemas.

But then I'm pretty boring. I'm not into body art, or piercings, no nipple clamps or anything to cause pain.

I don't like pain, pain hurts me.

I don't believe that enemas are a gateway to anything. They are just a kink. It may be that an open minded person-one who is comfortable with their own body and exploration into different experiences- may discover other things that arouse them even though another person could look at the same experience and be put off by it. Enemas don't lead to other things that excite, they just represent the fact that we find various ways to excite ourselves and each other.

I have always viewed myself as anal erotic which started at an early age. Underneath that umbrella of anal eroticism are all kinds of anal play I like to do- enemas being one of them. So enemas did not create my anal eroticism it became a part of it.

Enemas over the years have grown to be more than just anal stimulation. I do enjoy the health benefits of cleaning my colon which for me is like hitting the reset button for my whole digestive process. I will have to say though my main draw to enemas is the sexual pleasure they bring and that is what keeps me coming back.

Enemas, strapons, dildos, prostate vibrators, anal beads- I love them all.

There's no connection for me either. I've been doing enemas for over 35 years and have had a vibe for only 10 and a dildo for only two. And like Lisa I have a very attentive husband who is often in combination with the others. 😃

For me I think it was the other way around. I'd been sticking things up there, particularly while masturbating since pre-puberty. Tinkertoys, brush handles wrapped in cellophane, pencils etc. Gave me a huge edge in the orgasm intensity department. Didn't start doing regular enemas until many years later, after getting divorced and while concurrently discovering the wonders of professional colonics. I didn't take much math to figure out I could afford really nice enema equipment for the cost of only a couple colon hydrotherapy sessions, and without having to reassure the therapist I really was there for the health benefits and not the kink. That was a tough sell sometimes...

I think I'd have to say that enemas have been a gateway for me - it may be more accurate that the partner that I have been exploring with opened up my eyes to a whole new world and enemas were part of that. But I think that the intimacy of enemas - the trust, or bond, I have with my partner, and His acceptance of me for me, was just multiplied ten thousand times by enemas.

I may or may not have explored my sexuality without enemas - but I can't imagine NOT having enemas as part of who I have become, or will become. There's no way I can ever go back - I don't want to, and my enemas are a direct link to my kink that gave me my courage, or confidence, to let go and follow my heart. Finding out enemas are so - fantastic, versatile, and able to be much more than putting water up my butt, blows my mind. They enhance everything about being intimate - they establish a trust, a common experience shared between two people. I know this all sounds sappy - or sentimental, or retarded, but enemas, and the right partner, really did it for me.

Enemas were definitely a gateway for me - they lead me to my first ever woman-2-woman experience, the 'slap my ass and pull my hair' whip and ride buckaroo, not to mention regular anal sex for a used to be kinda vanilla grandma. Yeppers - put me down as saying yes to gateway.

I think that enemas started it all. I remember getting rectal temps prior to my first enema and they left me cold. After my mom taught me how to give myself an enema I loved them and couldn't wait to try everything anal. Somehow the distention, cramping and urgency of those first soapsuds awakened the whole universe of ass play. Now a nice enema administered by a lovely woman starts the motor. Even by myself I get reved up.

I have always been highly charged sexually as far back as I can remember. Enemas and the rest were just things to do. Enemas were not a gateway for me. I have always been interested in anything sexual as long as it does not hurt me or anyone and is not dangerous, etc., or illegal.

That said, I am sure enemas opened up the realization that it was super fun to play with my asshole and that started about 4 or 5 along with enemas. I have always had a lot of fun with my asshole.

I also do a lot of estiming now as it satisfies the deep desire of my asshole for great stimulation and I can easily control the stimulation, but not into pain or anything like that.

I've been anally erotic as far back as I can remember. As a kid I experimented teasing my anus with various objects and occasionally penetrating myself. The downside was such play oftentimes resulted in a mess because I wasn't clean back there. Then, in my late teens it occurred to me a small enema might clean things up and make my "playtime" more enjoyable. The sensations from those early enemas only enhanced the sensations of anal play. And my love of an enema grew and grew.

So, I suppose I came to enemas through the "back door" but they have become an enjoyable addition as I satisfy my anal cravings!

Have fun and play safe!

Deb

I too enjoyed anal play long before enemas.

I am also one of the non-gateway anal-erotics. I say I am bi, but the thing is , I adore women. I know I like to have things inserted into my rectum especially if the object gives my prostate a massage. And, in the past I have had male to male sexual relations. The thing is, I don't like to be dominated by another male. I will accept the control of a woman in what ever she wants to do. But, if a man wants to dominate me, he'd better look elsewhere. That being said, I like and enjoy anal penetration with very filling objects. Plus, if they squirt or vibrate..... look out cum-shot!!! What I really enjoy is anal play, not anal sex, per say. Here's hoping you understand this statement. For me, having a woman in my life in times past has been the most rewarding of my sexual experiences. Now that I'm a senior and living alone I seriously miss that relationship. I find that enema play gives me a pleasure and health benefit at the same time. I really enjoy reading the stories and comments on this site from both men and women. Zity is the best. MRay.

I think it led to a lot of things. I realized there are a lot of ways to be sexually stimulated. The most direct situation is eventually led me to try anal sex.

No, just a BIG part of my sexual likes!!! I've always enjoyed playing doctor, and other things with male friends growing up, and as I became a teenager and adult, the list of sexual kinks just grew and grew!!!

Yes.

First enemas by Mom were about age 3 or 4. Dad stepped in to help before age 9. That seemed to say that Enema was an OK activity. Was well into solo by age 9 or 10. Other kinks followed enema.

During puberty, I recognized that I was anally erotic, but it is impossible to say whether enemas, or any other anally stimulating experiences, caused me to be anally erotic or whether I just found those things to be pleasing and arousing because of my proclivity that way. Chicken or egg, I guess?

It is hard to say as it happened so long ago. As a kid, maybe 8 or 9, I had dreams which involved my anus - sitting down on something, etc. Our family did no enemas but by high school I was trying to take an enema. I had already started "taking care of myself" by this time. Enemas were just part of my sexuality by the time i was maturing - but enemas in secret! I didn't discover males have sensitive nipples until WAY later - several years ago.

No, I think it is like someone else said earlier, its just goed with my other sexual desires, although I do sometimes just like to take an enema for health. But usually end up with something else going in my back side or maybe a bare bottom paddling. My two favorite thing are enemas and spanking but mostly wide open for anything else.

No, more like the other way around, My liking for anal play and toys in my butt led to my use of enemas to clean the playground. The fact that enemas are enjoyable is just a plus..