Are enemas a gateway to other kinks?

If the most kinky experience in my marriage that's stimulated by an enema is satisfying lovemaking (and a few trimmings!) with my husband, then I'll continue to be a very happy and contented woman! As I have suggested before, an enema bag or syringe should be in each lady's boudoir (or in their linen closet, master bathroom, lingerie drawer, LOL!) for physical and "emotional" health.

Vicki,

Glad of your happiness and contentment. Aside from PIV, what other few trimmings are you referring to thats stimulated by an enema? I knew about my early kinks/fetishes (rubber, anal, enemas, sneakers) in my teens, but I'm sure having those were a major impetus to realizing my other ones, D/s and bondage, in my 20s.

Eric

Trimmings? Here's one: If a woman has not experienced from her partner a deep sensual massage all over, and I mean all over!! while receiving a slow, gentle cleanse, she's missing something very special physically and emotionally in her life. I'm a woman of some discretion, so let's leave it at that. ?

For me enemas where 100% my gateway to the kinky person I am now! I started really liking enemas when I was younger and that lead me to read more into them online and then I discovered this place. Then I found fetlife from there and really started learning about kink and found out who I really am.

I think that in my case, I gravitated towards Med Fet and in the natural exploration of the body first. I started to explore enemas as part of the diagnostic part of things as well as the therapeutic benefits....I started with an appreciation of the human body, and craving more... and worked towards a more comprehensive examination. Thanks to Zity, I feel comfortable with all elements of enemas and do like to work them into play.

I certainly hope so

Possibly but definitely not nipple clamps for this gal!! lol Denise

Most likely depends on the person I would think. I have always loved enemas myself. Not really into much of anything else.

Trimmings? Here's one: If a woman has not experienced from her partner a deep sensual massage all over, and I mean all over!! while receiving a slow, gentle cleanse, she's missing something very special physically and emotionally in her life. I'm a woman of some discretion, so let's leave it at that. ?

Vicki,

Thank you for replying. I understand your discretion.

Eric

AMEN to Vicki V's sensual massage along with an enema. I've been advocating Enemassage for a long time. If not for purely sexual gratification, it is also a great therapeutic endeavor.

I had the opportunity to attend several EFEST events in Las Vegas several years back. While enemas were the primary focus, a number of other "kinks" were explored and demonstrated. Those who were on the receiving end seemed to enjoy some significant gratification.

These demos were quite the eye opener for many of us. While many of us aren't necessarily "into" some of the extraordinary aspects, it certainly opened my mind to providing the necessary or desired stimulation to a partner who might enjoy something a bit unique.

While simple, old fashioned enemas are certainly sufficient for me, a little experimentation is quite enjoyable. Certainly, prostate stimulation, massage, pegging, and maybe a swat on the butt, can be great adjuncts.

In my case, I would say yes. Having stumbled upon enemas as a kink unto their own - I’ve posted elsewhere in Zity the genesis for my now 12+ year love of them - my mind was opened to the possibilities afforded me by a squeaky clean rectum and large intestine. I can safely say that without enemas I would certainly not have enjoyed playing with all number of plugs of all shapes, designs and sizes and, albeit rather circular, built up an embarrassingly large collection of enema nozzles and tubes that themselves provide an enormous amount of pleasure.

In my case, I would say yes. Having stumbled upon enemas as a kink unto their own - I’ve posted elsewhere in Zity the genesis for my now 12+ year love of them - my mind was opened to the possibilities afforded me by a squeaky clean rectum and large intestine. I can safely say that without enemas I would certainly not have enjoyed playing with all number of plugs of all shapes, designs and sizes and, albeit rather circular, built up an embarrassingly large collection of enema nozzles and tubes that themselves provide an enormous amount of pleasure.

Where/when did you post here about how you arrived at liking enemas 12 years ago? Thanks,

Eric

60+ years of enema-use never was a gateway into anything more kinky than it is. After finding this site, I have started using different nozzles, larger bags and colon tubes. I never knew that one could get a long nozzle or colon tube into the descending colon until recently. I wish that someone would explain to me how to get that tube into the transverse colon. I really don't want to put a hole in that puppy. I enjoy this site and it is good to talk openly to people that understand my love for enemas.

I did get a few enemas from my mom as a kid (3-5?), and as I grew older (8-10?) I started inserting things in my butt, took enemas by myself for arousal and enjoyment. As I got into my 20's I started more aggressive enema and anal play. I enjoy enemas, rectal exams, speculums, anal toys and pegging. I have been anal erotic all my life (and so was my wife who never received enemas) and I don't think it was because of the early age enemas I got - I think we were just wired for anal pleasure. My anal kink never evolved to other kinks - although I experimented with spanking but it never caught on. I don't have a midget kink (damn spellcheck - I mean med-fet kink) UNLESS it is specifically limited to anal exams and play - on me or my partner.

In short - NO, for me, I don't think enemas were a gateway to my anal fetish or any other kinks, just my first intro into anal eroticism - not saying that is the case for others.

It's possible that other kinks are the gateway to enemas. Butt play? Got to be clean...

My enema kink began as I was reaching puberty; dreaded them till then, and actually my interest in enema began first from anal self-play.... years before I began masturbating to pictures of women in swimsuits. When I began enema play, I masturbated to that as well. So enemas were not a gateway for me; instead and end unto itself.

I'm kind of surprised by this... I've given a LOT of first ever enemas to women who have been spanked, bound, all sorts of things for years but had never been given enemas. Might just be the folks I've encountered but I've found enemas to be an unexplored kink amongst a LOT of VERY kinky people.

Enemas were a big part of my feminine training,,,my wife started giving me enemas mostly because how submissive they made me

For her the deep cramping enemas gave me made me feel like the menstrual cramps women experience monthly....the whole situation was very feminine for me and increased my feminine side,,,,tampons and Kotex pads became a norm after my enema ;;;yes enemas definitely helped her transform me into her girlfriend

Other kinks led me to enemas. Since experiencing anal play at an early age, I wanted to be clean before so started using a bulb to get clean. Graduating to longer and deeper play led me to a bag along with different nozzles and a colon tube. Also began using prostate toys for pleasure about four years ago so being clean is a normal ritual for me. Enjoy exchanging experiences as we as reading about other enema freaks!

I don't think you can use the term "Gateway"

The whole concept was developed by certain persons with a political, not practical agenda on drug abuse and has now been disproven.

Clearly people who engage in one form of S&M are receptive to other forms, and enemas ARE one form of S&M, does that make them a "Gateway?"

I don't think you can use the term "Gateway"

The whole concept was developed by certain persons with a political, not practical agenda on drug abuse and has now been disproven.

Clearly people who engage in one form of S&M are receptive to other forms, and enemas ARE one form of S&M, does that make them a "Gateway?"

Gateway is a loaded term, it has too many negative political/social connotations. It would be the same to say using enemas is the beginning of a slippery slope towards ever more and intense/deplorable(?) fetishes. Because that is the intended, but unspoken message most people will get when they see the terms 'gateway' or 'slippery slope'. That it refers to something that should not be done or that is deplorable or even illegal.

So, perhaps not the best term to use for enemas. Perhaps 'introduction' might be a better word to use, as a positive thing.

As kids we were told not to play with our ass because it was "dirty". But, our mother then gave us an enema. So, sticking my finger or a crayon in my ass is not good, but sticking an enema nozzle in there is somehow OK. So if you like putting things in your ass, an enema nozzle is one of the few things that is allowed. After all, that is what it is made for.

I don't think enemas are a gateway. I think they are more like just one more thing to do if you are interested in anal play.

Gateway is a loaded term, it has too many negative political/social connotations. It would be the same to say using enemas is the beginning of a slippery slope towards ever more and intense/deplorable(?) fetishes. Because that is the intended, but unspoken message most people will get when they see the terms 'gateway' or 'slippery slope'. That it refers to something that should not be done or that is deplorable or even illegal.

So, perhaps not the best term to use for enemas. Perhaps 'introduction' might be a better word to use, as a positive thing.

"Slippery slope" has a kinky ring to it though.

i so agree with this and others who have pointed out the connotations associated with "gateway." It's a shame it has been coopted, because in another, maybe more literal sense ("gateway" also has a kinky ring to it), it could fit?

i see our "kinks" as individual expression of need/want. Some cultures use all sex as a control, a means to assert agenda. Kinks become a sub category of that, an even more powerful way to manipulate and control people. Ironically, it's a form of Domination, eh?

i believe enema, or any other thing that might venture into or touch our sexuality, can be a gateway in a good way. i do not think it, or any other kink, is causative, i think acceptance of kinks that appeal to us individually can be a gateway to deeper discovery of who and how we are. Sharing those "kinks" with others can help us connect more deeply in relationship.

I started my enemas as a teen, it wasn't till I was in my 30's that I developed an interest in spanking, so not sure if enemas were a gateway. In my 40's I began having the desire to be watched while I took my enemas, along with getting into various bi activities.

I certainly have a tendency and openness toward many types of play. Enemas were my first.

I went from anal to enemas to suppositories( as many as I can hold at once ) to tampons, to monistat, to diapers, to laying in the tub and peeing on my self.

I think ' yes ' as I first became aware of my ' anal eroticism ' and very good physical feelings ' back there ' when my mother gave me my childhood enemas . As I matured and she still administered enemas in our home , the ' good feelings ' became much more pronounced as to my desire for her to give me an enema . All continued through my young adulthood years with her giving me enemas when I returned home from college / university during

semester breaks . After grad. school , I found a very good employment situation in a large city and our mom - son enemas were no more . I sure do miss those long ago but most pleasurable days from my childhood innocence through my ' budding ' klismo ' attraction ' and personal journey which is a still a very much anticipated pastime today . And yes …………. so many positive memories