Fisting - Anal

One time when my wife and I were fooling around, she stretched my bottom hole with her fingers and several large anal implements, including two dildos, a butt plug, and a glass knobby thing--one at a time, not simultaneously.

After she took out the glass knobby thing, she put her fingers back in. And then she put them in a little more and turned and twisted her wrist. Her ministrations caused me to involuntarily gyrate my hips and push toward her and my pushing toward her caused her to push more towards me.

So, there we were. I was twizzling my hips and pushing toward her and she was twisting and turning and pushing her pointed hand inside me.

And I think we were both kind of wondering how far this might go. I knew about fisting because I am much more well-versed in all-things kinky things than my wife. She was not familiar with fisting. In fact, she has never even heard the term or that putting a hand all the way inside of a bottom is a thing, but she knows that I have lots of kinks and she goes along with nearly all of them and she was halfway in anyway and she knows I think that “more is better” so she knew that I would like to push this thing a little more.

So, there we were. My hips are twirling and thrusting toward my wife and she’s got her fingers working their way into my bum and she’s pointing and pushing and twisting and turning her pointed hand . . . and suddenly, POP! Her knuckles skipped right past the ring and her hand was all the way inside my bum.

She looked at me and smiled. And her eyes said, "Did you feel that in your bum?"

And I looked at her and smiled. And my eyes replied, "Did you feel that on your hand?"

Yes, our eyes can talk to each other. Sometimes they carry on extended conversations without us even knowing.

"Are you okay?" she asked out loud, with her hand still lodged securely in me, wondering if we had ruptured something.

"Yup, I’m fine. How's your hand?"

"Squished, but fine."

I did a Kegel to squeeze my bottom hole tight.

"Can you feel that?"

"Yup, I certainly can. Can you feel this?” She turned her hand so her thumb caressed my prostate.

"Mmmmm, I’ll give you 30 minutes to stop that . . . or until I orgasm, whichever comes first."

Well, that was the first time she fisted me, sort of by accident because we both pushed a little and decided to boldly go where no one had gone before.

And now her “pointed-hand” repeats this activity almost every time she plays with my bum, and it's always good, but the first time was special because we were both surprised when it happened.

We even purchased a pointed-hand replica of a woman’s hand and forearm. And we affectionately named her Kimberly and I have a crush on her, pun intended, because I crush her in my bum. (I know, pretty lame).

Kimberly lends us a hand, pun intended, when my wife’s wrist is a little tired of trying to reach my tonsils because I keep encouraging her to push farther in. Sometimes, Kimberly is suctioned to a wooden stool and points skyward and then I straddle Kimberly as she slides inside while I play with my wife who is naked and positioned on the edge of the bed.

I've fantasized about anal fisting/taking much larger toys, but I'm scared that I will permanently alter the shape or tightness of my butthole... how real of a risk is that? I like the way it looks right now, haha

It's a wonderful feeling to discover a hunger to stretch your anal limit. Since you mention your fears, I'll be super frank. It's a fact that the vaginal sphincter muscles of women after giving birth may not close tight in the same way. For ass play, I don't think there is a guarantee, but the muscles and tissues of the anal sphyncter are very elastic, don't receive anywhere near the extreme stretching of childbirth. I'm 67, find my ass stays closed under normal circumstances, after about 15 years of ass play and taking toys up to about 3 inches. I'm not sure I could guarantee holding liquid in my ass for a long period without any dripping; I think all ages are subject to various degrees of anal leakage.

I can't speak to appearances, but if you were to test the ability of your ass muscles to close on your finger before and after playing with a toy, I think you'll find they close at least as strongly if not more strongly after stretching play.

Good luck with your explorations. For me, tho I really admire the sexual possibilities women have with their vagina and clitoris, I can be thankful I can enjoy the sensations of stretching, being full, having pressure against my prostate, and feeling the whole area engorge with blood. I feel for guys who never explore those sensations, and laugh at the language of masculine guys who joke about anal sex all the time, without realizing that it's actually pleasurable, a kind of sex play that men and women have enjoyed for eons.

I've been vaginal fisted, but never anal. A vibrator I van deal with, but a fist is is too damn big.

@lori_Girl You can get trained to accept fist or use poppers. But it is one way street, especially when not using poppers and doing it regularly.