Fisting - Anal

I cannot be the only one who enjoys anal fisting. There is something very intense when you fist are get fisted. I mean not just the sensation of it, but also the way one gives himself or herself to the other.

I have fisted a number of men including my husband in BDSM and home environments and have had two women fist me both anally and vaginally, but NOT at the same time. I've never been fisted anally or vaginally by a man and my husband's hands are too big for fisting me.

Although I am not into fisting, I remember reading an early proctology text that explained how the doctor would insert his entire hand into the patients anus and work it as far as he could reach into the rectum in order to feel for cancer or other diseases.

This was usually several inches and was done in the knee-chest position I don't remember if any anestetic was used. I assume that large volume enemas were used to cleanse the colon since this was before fleet enemas.Obviously this was before modern proctoscopes and colonoscopes. Does anyone have any information on this? I wish I knew the name of the text.

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I am interested in fisting myself, is there any risks to doing it? Any tips?

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There are risks if you go too fast but otherwise if you take your time you should be fine.

Use larger and larger objects and toys and eventually you will do it.

I used to take an apple, put it on the border of the tub, lube it good, then sit on it. I would stretch me really good until one day it slipped right in, and I felt a good amount of pain, which receded right away and wow the pain turned into pleasure.

But then I freaked out, thinking it would stay in there and tried to "poop it out" (which I could have done, a bit like a birthing experience).

I started touching the apple with my fingers and realized that.... yes... my hand could fit in there now. I ended up fisting myself and pushed the apple out from the outside. No I could not have clenched it and retrieved it this way, my hand around the apple would have been too wide but pushing it out was possible.

I did not even bleed or anything. I then went to play with my band (all absolutely non-homo but they knew I was a bit different, thought I could be homo but saw me with chicks, somehow they did not comprehend the concept of bisexuality) and during the session I could feel my loose asshole pulsating with delight. Weird experience.

Of course you need to be flexible and the fact I did gymnastics as a kid (and no, most gymnists are not gay) probably helped, but with time, if you are not too tight, you should be able to do it. I am so flexible I could self-fellatio (something I did not find too enjoyable, really).

It has been a couple of years since I was last fisted..But it was intense...That is one thing that you have to take your time at and not rush...But it is totaly worth it

Thanks AzFrNick for not making me feel like the only guy whose anally fisted himself.

I too had a similar start to fist, but I used a Q-ball which did get stuck for about an hour. had it all lubed up but as I was trying to push it in, I slipped and knocked a bunch of things off my desk and I guess the ball slipped in and I didn't notice. I figured it slipped of my hand and rolled off somewhere ??? (here's to me for not looking)

My apologies, Guinea Pig, school keeps me too busy. I work my way up forming a couple of fingers, a small dildo, butt plugs of increasing size, then when I feel up to it try my hand. I start with the fingers, then slowly get your thumb involved (Your hand will look like a birds beak), it gets harder at the knuckles (so lots of lube) work slower and eventually you'll get the whole hand. Flexibility is key, as a lube I like KY or olive oil.

Fisting does seem a little extreme. I like the feeling of my sphincter being streteched but there are limits: the muscle can become injured and one might leak when one does not want to leak. I saw a guy getting fisted once and just about had an orgasm on the spot, so it is really exciting. He really liked the whole thing and the guy who was fisting him enjoyed it too. It must be one hellofa feeling to have ones hand that deep into another person's body..

I have butt plugs bigger than gfs fist/wrist, but I've yet to go to full fisting. I have no doubt I can take it, it's more a problem of mood and relaxation. Partially trust. It's one thing to do anal stretching where you are in complete control, it's quite another to give that power to someone else. Maybe it's fear more than trust.

I've performed the vaginal fisting multiple times. It's amazing the different in depth between persons vaginas. In some, I can barely make a fist inside, it's just too small a cavity (these are the ones you normally bottom out against the cervix on during coitus). In others, I could probably make one large fist with both hands. I'm always amazed by the physical differences among people. Not sure why it surprises me.

I know the "giving" side of what you describe. I fist my husband up to my elbows. It is wild being able to feel his rib cage from the inside, not to mention all those abdominal and anal contractions while he is cumming!

As I always say: give your partner lots of pleasure and if he or she says "no", that means "no".

For instance, certain ladies are fine with butt play. Others are not. If you're putting a finger there and she says "no" it means "no".

As for wide penetrations, certain women love it, others do not. Also do not forget that a woman who gets fisted on a regular basis will not exactly be tight down there.

I have fisted a few women and it always started with more and more fingers until it all went it. The magical time a woman gets fisted is awesome. They have that "oh my god I can't believe I'm so wide" and usually touch your hand to verify you are in there.

Slow and easy. Also found that "pre-drilling" the hole helps. Start with the smaller object and work up to the bigger. Worked very well for me the other morning. A sub on my wrist made us both hot.

Anal fisting is a "must" for a sissy as me!

My wife/Mistress use fisting to give me anal pleasure when I'm a good girl and also to milk me by prostate massage when I'm in a long time punishment chastity.Cum without orgasm is a great frustration. :-\

Always been something I've wanted to do (giving or receiving), never had the chance to be with someone cool enough to do it though. Too many close-minded people, and it isn't like I'm too afraid to talk about it, they just go "ewww". Pfft, they're the ones missing out 😄

I love, love, love playing with a man's bottom. I could spend hours down there having fun. I love fingering a man and massaging his prostate. I haven't fisted anyone yet, but if he was into it, I would do it in a heartbeat. I have small hands, so it wouldn't be a huge stretch for him. I'd probably start with a couple fingers, then move on to toys, either a vibe or plug, then maybe the inflatible plug; ease him into it. Mmmmm, it's nice to think about...

Egirlky: I enjoy being the subject of a female's attention in this area as well. 😃 I've gone from a couple of fingers to a medium sized dildo, but not a hand yet. I suppose with time and lots of lube, along with a small hand, it might be possible. :-\

Fritz

I have seen fisting videos and they look interesting. I have tried getting larger size dildos into me with difficulty. Unfortunately, the dildos are no where near the size of a normal size person's fist. I would be hesitant to insert my fist into another's bottom for fear of hurting them.

I think fisting is disgusting! Evidently some of you enjoy it! As for me, I would never engage that activity with a man! If a woman was that big, I would tie a 2X6 to my ass, to keep from falling in there!

I understand what you mean, Teddy. But fisting has its place. There are some people who like to take sex to the extremes. It isn't something I would do on a regular basis. There is absolutely no way that I could handle anal fisting and vaginal fisting may never happen for me. I've never given birth, so I tend to be too snug for anything other than the normal male equipment. However, I do have a real fetish for being fingered and go crazy when my G-spot is rubbed the right way. Clitoral orgasms don't really do much for me. I like the deep-seated G-spot pleasures. If I was with a man who had relatively small hands, it would be fun to see if I could handle it. The ladies I've talked with who have experienced it say it's amazing and I've never heard one who regretted it or was injured.

There is a gentleman that I'm rather fond of and we share quite a few fetishes and have the same boundaries, so he'd be a blast to play with. Fisting is something that we've talked about and would like to try someday, just to see what it's like. I think it's the intimacy and intensity that we desire to entrust ourselves to each other's care, the same way many of us feel about enemas. It won't break our hearts if it doesn't happen, but it will be fun trying. I have small hands, so it shouldn't be as big of a stretch for him. (That's right, Baby, come to Mama.)

I met a fellow who absolutely LOVED to insert gigantic toys into his bottom and have me watch. I wasn't really into the whole size thing, but it was rather amusing. I'm sure it will be only a few years before he's in diapers, but he was as happy as a clam when I knew him. He was extremely annoying, always wanting to find bigger and better things to insert and asking if it would turn me on to see him take a toy of a certain size. Despite my repeated denials, he kept asking. I would have done anything for a ballgag. I only play with him a few times and that was mainly being an audience for his magic show. It was a bit like Rocky & Bullwinkle. "Hey, Rocky. Watch me pull a ________________ out of my ass."

I am not a fan of HUGE toys. I'd be ashamed to be able to mount a telephone pole, but some women and men get a kick out of it. I want to stay my nice snug self, but I don't mind a few stretches with the right person every now and then.

Dianne

A hand is a completely different story as compared to say, a 2 litre.

Ouch. Makes my ass hurt just thinking about it.

I'd draw the line at a hand, since yeah, it does have to do with the intimacy, not the size. *shrug* One of these days I'll find out and let you non-believers know 😜

How can I get my girlfriend into fisting? She knows I like it, because we watch porn together, but she's real tight (can only take one finger) and when she sees women being fisted she cringes and says I could never do that. How can I convince her otherwise?

I just got a prostate massage from my wife the other day. She had a glove on and we used lots of neosporin as lube. She put two fingers in and I asked for three. I "suggested" I'd come innocently across pictures on the internet of people using their whole hands... she just shook her head at me in disbelief.. (sigh) It's gonna take a loonngg time.

Oh yeah, the orgasm was still deep and strong, and left me gasping on the couch my belly covered in goo..

Don't push your wife too hard. She might be scared to insert her whole hand/fist into your rectum.

This is something im probably too scared to tryI have difficulty with a dick lol also, wouldnt this be damaging?

Fisting can potentially tear the anal ring even in people who have done it before. Consider this: If you had never done a split, like in gymnastics, and someone put you into position and pushed you to the floor, you would have a lot of torn muscles in your legs, not to mention excruciating pain. Reparative surgery would likely be needed.

Surely she can take more than 1 finger. 2 would have to be a minimum. You just have to slowly work up from 2 to 3 and so forth. Make sure she is VERY wet. If not, break out the lube.

Don't wait to bring out the lube. Lather her up with tons of it even before you start. By the way, while some women love to have your penis inside them during sex, they don't feel comfortable having more than one finger inside when you are just fingering their pussy. The shape of an erect penis isn't the same as two or three fingers, and not every woman likes that sensation.

Hi, Pussyfistin makes my woman soak all over the bed. We do it as often as time permits. Assfistin is more difficult. Here we only succeed from time to time. One has to be very patient and work a lot to get a whole hand up the rectum. That goes for her as for me. Most times we only make it with three or four fingers

Three or four fingers is great if that is what makes you feel good. The whole point of making insertions into the body is to do what feels good to each person, not to see how much you can force inside. I've said earlier in this thread that I have fisted men and women both anally and vaginally, and been fisted anally and vaginally by women and men with small hands, but never by my husband because his hands are just too big. It doesn't make me love sex any less with my husband because of it. We do what feels good to each other (except maybe in a corporal S&M scene, but even they have limits).

just thinking out loud...and reading about "fisting"...my question is obvious...isn't there a significant risk of injury to both channels? ???

Potential risk, yes, significant risk, well, it depends how forceful you are in making the insertions. The person getting the insertion MUST listen to his or her body and not proceed when that voice inside your head tells you it isn't a good idea. Getting a whole fist into the anus will take some pressure on the part of the giver, but when either party feels it is too much force, you must back off.

There, I've put my two cents in again.

This article sure has had plenty of interest. Here's my tips for fisting. I've done this many times with 2 different partners. Each were very gentle and listened intently to my instruction on when to stop or when to proceed. If you've never had a sizable butt plug you should start out very slowly. The anal muscles will stretch in time. One of the keys is to be very relaxed. I recommend A&D Ointment. It's very soothing and works well. If you feel you're close one trick is to take a very deep breath. This will shift your attention to pull up and in deep into your chest. You'll find that while you're taking a deep breath your partner will feel your anal muscles loosin quite a bit. It will then be possible to go past the thumb knuckle and travel into the anal cavity. You'll feel a rush of relief when the sphincter closes around the rist.

My favorite position for this is on my back with a pillow under the lower part of my back so my partner has easy access. My orgasms have been the strongest when she has one hand in my ass and the other holding on to my penis while sucking me off. Wow! What a feeling.

Can't wait for my next session.

Use lots of lube and slowly work up to this. It really isn't as difficult as you might think.

I have been fisted vaginally by a couple of women in my time, but never anally. My husband's hands are just to big to fist me in either orifice. 😁

Ohhh yes!

One of the zillion beautiful gifts that women have is their ability to work one of their pretty little hands up your bum, all the way, until their hand is fully inside your rectum, and your anus clamps down on their wrist.

It's like an out-of-body experience for the male. And there is absolutely nothing homosexual about it. And how can there possibly be anything else. A beautiful woman has her hand up your bum. It may feel uncomfortable at first, but you are loving it all the same, and you know you want her inside you.

I really can't find the words to express myself the way I want to. Even after feeling her knuckles slide through my sphincter on more than three separate occasions I am still dumbfounded.

So guys, your lady's pretty little hand can fit up inside your bum. Takes a lot of practice, a lot of patience, and a lot of lube before you eventually feel her knuckles slide all the way in past your sphincter. Patience has its own rewards!

Brachio.

If you have received a fist, I would think that a penis could fit in your anus. I cannot take my husband's fist but can have anal sex with no pain. I think you need to go for it!!!!!!!

I never knew that the hand could be a sensual organ until I fisted a tight hot guy that I met on line. I the look on his face as I worked my hand inside was incredible. As I advanced my hand I felt him close down on my wrist. As the tip of my finger moved past his second ring I could feel his heartbeat. The warmth and sensations were unlike anything I had experienced before

If you are cleaned out properly it can be very erotic. I remember one occasion just relaxing in bed watching tv. I started playing with my boyfriends derriere. I started by easing him with my tongue and then found myself totally absorbed in slipping in finger after finger till I had three and then 4 fingers inside of him.. There was alot of lube involved. He never said a word, but had the hardest erection and most amazing orgasm. The next time i used a simple rubber glove and was able to slip my entire hand into him.. It took quite a bit of time.. but to see my hand disappear and hear his responses.. to taste his sweet reward.. it was quite nice..

OK, I can understand getting a hand in. But I have seen some vids of anal fisting where the person gets the arm it all the way to the elbow. And one almost to the shoulder.

HOW? It seems like that should rearrange the heck out of the internal organs.

Looks right interesting, though.

I was privileged to play recently with a new enemate who is incredibly anal erotic, with lots of solo practice. He has a fucking machine with a huge dildo on it, which he took with no problem. His enema bag is a 5 gallon converted camp shower with a nozzle big enough to choke a horse. And he wanted me to fist him, which I did for the first time. It brought him an awesome amount of pleasure which made me really happy. I had a glove on and he had warming KY. I easily got my hand in and made a fist inside, then unfisted my hand and stuck one finger further along in his bowel. He said it felt like I had my finger inside his dick.

Just had my first fisting this morning and it was incredible. we took it as slow as possible and she got me very relaxed and lubed me up and then slowly got her whole hand inside. all i can say is omg it felt so good.