Not sure what to think

I have been seeing this girl for about a year now and finally wore a diaper to bed Saturday night with jogging pants over them. I have worn a couple times around her but has had jeans over them. She discovered them when we started fooling around but never said anything and has yet to bring it up. She somewhat made a face when she felt them but that's it. I was hoping she would say something or ask but didnt

I think the real test is going to be when you urinate and defecate into the diaper. For a non wearer, just wearing them may be more acceptable.

Yea. It was a little damp but not bad

Jason, Look at this from her perspective. I'm assuming that she isn't into diapers or the adult baby scene. She's looking at you as her man and lover. Those roles carry some expectations and notions of behavior. When she reached into your gym shorts and found a diaper instead of your usual undergarment, there probably was some surprise. If she didn't jump up and scream "What the fuck?" then you are a lot closer to acceptance.

If you've been seeing her for a year, you probably know a lot about each other.

You need to bring us the subject and talk with her about it, stone sober. Think about how you would explain your interest in diapers. Avoid the why, because none of us really know the cause and effect. If you find diapers highly erotic, and you are a more passionate lover when diapered, then she will see an advantage for her. If it just excites you so that you cum faster, she's not going to see anything in it for her.

Ok. Thanks

I know this is a little far fetched but it's another way to visualize the problem so admirably pointed out by Quincy:

Suppose you touched her boobs but found she was wearing a whale-bone corset or that under her skirt were pantaloons. And you asked her about it and she said she had always longed to be a virgin spinster from the Victorian era.

Would that not be a little at odds with your hopes of finding a nymphomaniac?

I don't see how you are going to get a girl's expectations changed from admiration of macho to acceptance of bambino, much less acceptance of poop.

Sorta like my example. Can you expect a guy to think he really doesn't want a sex kitten, he wants a sterile prude?

If you need a diaper appreciator, find one. Building one isn't going to work and neither is conversion from where she is to an ABDL.

If you can't find one I am afraid all you can do is take a cold shower.