Kinky Self Punishment

I want "punishments" to do to myself in front of my partner and need some ideas. I am female and I am doing them on my own without his help.

Can't help you there. In contrast I am very happy and see no need to punish myself or anyone else.

You might want to ask your partner what turns him/her on. The problem is you are doing this voluntarily, so it is going to be hard for your mind to consider it punishment. Don't do anything you or your partner will regret.

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http://www.zity.biz/index.php?mx=forum;ox=display;topic=81919

Also, do a search for "punishment". That has so many hits, I can't list them here.

Give yourself a large soap suds enema and hold it until told you can expel.

- after anal sex, keep his spern in your ass with a butplug and go crocery shopping. when you get home, take of all of your chlothes, remove the butplug and collect the cum. smear it all over your tits while on you knees in front of him

Take a look at this, it may give you some ideas:

http://www.zity.biz/index.php?mx=forum;ox=display;topic=15085

http://www.zity.biz/index.php?mx=forum;ox=display;topic=81919

Also, do a search for "punishment". That has so many hits, I can't list them here.

As Susie says I can attest to the effectiveness of self bondage. Give it a go. It's brilliant.

Select a large carrot. Insert it in your pussy and go shopping. Really uncomfortable.

If you want to feel humiluated. Wear benwa balls and go and have your pussy waxed at the salon.

Clamp your clit and poke it with a pencil

Swallow 2 oz castor oil, this the best in the morning, not having breakfasted - afterwards go shopping.

Get a hair brush and rub your pussy with it lightly for 10 minutes. Then spank your pussy 10 times with the same hairbrush with each spank count it say you are sorry thank him for making you punish yourself after that is done spend 3 hours in a bra connection wedgie sitting down upright in a chair writting an appolagie letter asking for forgiveness for the mistakes you have comitted and the reason why you are being punished

Put nipple clamps on making sure they're very tight. Then flick them with your finger. Do this every three minutes for one half hour. Then take them off and whip your tits with a paddle, ten times on each nipple. And put some muscle into it. Then to finish it off rub a generous amount of capsacin or Ben gay on each nipple. This should bring tears to your eyes and have your partner eager to play.

If you would like the feel of constant/unexpected pain perhaps try putting on a small tight bra and then add an ample amount of tacks or other pointed/rough objects. Just go about your daily routine and see what happens. I an sure this has been done but don't know what the results may have been. You can decide for how long and if this is to be done in public or private.

Stiff male hairbrush inside the gusset of your panties and then pulled up tight against your vulva and experience where the bristles go !

You can use your hairbrush .... and spank your pussy and then turn it around and spank your clitty with the bristle side .........

Wooden spoon or wooden ruler self-spankings can be a painful punishment. As can fingerfucking your own bottom. Or push a buttplug in your bottom, fuck yourself with it.

Whichever, be sure to do it in the mirror and watch. Or video yourself doing it to yourself and watch after. Both increase the humiliation and therefore the punishment.

Clips on your nipples are highly effective. You can use regular clothes pins, special small clothes pins (ouch!) or binder clips. A pin can be applied to each nipple, or a group of pins can be clipped to the aureole along with one on the nipple.

Further punishment can include placing the same sorts of pins on the labia.

Males can do pretty much the same when in need of some disciplinary therapy, the only differnce being the genitals upon which the pins are placed.

Small, high powered magnetic balls can be applied to the nipples for a very painful experience. Even harder is the effort needed to remove those balls without cutting skin with fingernails. Such an innocuous looking toy, and so highly effective in generating pain.

Some of the things I like to do to punish myself are wearing a tack bra, tying my breasts real tight, wearing nipple clamps, stretching my nipples with syringe. You can try any of those or combine some of them, and you can always just spank yourself with a wooden spoon or a belt