After the anal fist

How do you deal with the dull pain of a stretched anus and a stretched colon? I would like to know.....ouch.

My husband has NO pain.

He loves it. I fist him to my elbows and I can feel his ribcage from the inside.

I guess if I punched him from the inside, it would hurt.

After his fisting (and orgasm) he likes to relax.

If you have pain, you were opened up too fast and/or you were not relaxed when you did it.

I love it and I'm watertight minutes after. 😃 regards, irrigator333

If you're experiencing a dull pain it means you went too far. Go see a doctor and don't be foolish about it. A perforated colon starts with a dull pain and is nothing to take lightly.

I cant say it was pain but a discomfort......its all good. And now i am fisting myself at ease after my favorite dildo opens me up!!

Apply Lidocaine ointment it dulls the pain after fisting.

I would say a dull pain is an indication you need to go slower and stretch slower next time. Please be careful and yes consider seeing a doctor, very scary stuff.

That said, if you're CERTAIN you are not injured, perhaps icing the sphincter can bring some relief to it... Takes down the swelling. Insert ice inside to your own comfort/preference level as well. When I have rubbed a partner raw ice is usually my go to for aftercare.

Definitely start slow. I can knuckle. You never want to hurt yourself. I got as far as I have by weird object insertion, lube, patience, and a condom to protect myself.

You want to go slow with this. If you are experiencing pain, you may wish to rethink the speed at which you are going. 😃

Even I have had problems like this just be careful not to force too much and proceed slowly with more lubricant

I've never had problems. It's more of a surreal feeling of...holy crap....I just had a hand up my ass...and one experience was 1/2 and arm....it was the most amazing feeling and desire it again.

It took my Mistress 6 months of practice (and lots and lots of lube) and stretching to get her fist in my ass. It was a goal we set and have accomplished! Wonderful! Now I ride her hand easily and with great joy.

How do you deal with the dull pain of a stretched anus and a stretched colon? I would like to know.....ouch.

I have never had that experience. If you are feeling pain of any sort you are doing it all wrong. Got it? Wrong.

Apply Lidocaine ointment it dulls the pain after fisting.

As people have stated, if you have pain you are doing it wrong.

All, I am going to confess to be real curious about anal fisting. And scared, too. It looks easy, but I am scared of something going wrong, and I don't want that, of course. I am playing with toys back there, and it feels good, but again, I am curious. And scared. And curious. And scared.

All, I am going to confess to be real curious about anal fisting. And scared, too. It looks easy, but I am scared of something going wrong, and I don't want that, of course. I am playing with toys back there, and it feels good, but again, I am curious. And scared. And curious. And scared.

It isn't easy. Even with lots of lubrication it takes practice to gradually get to larger diameter/volumes. Remember that every inch increase in diameter means the total circumference must increase by 3.14 inches. I take some pretty large toys (and very long ones, too) but they weren't just something I slipped in.

All, I am going to confess to be real curious about anal fisting. And scared, too. It looks easy, but I am scared of something going wrong, and I don't want that, of course.

There's no need to be scared of it. Just make sure you can trust in your partner, always make sure that you stay in your comfort zone and follow all the practical advices you can find here. Go step by step and take all the time you need and eventually you will succeed! 😉

First time it didn't get in very far. got back home thought that wasn't to bad can't wait to try it again. second , third , forth, finely went all the way. that really felt good. now I have a big dildo that I use and look forward in using it when I get in the mood..

I've got to try that, hopefully some one can teach me.

I actually love the feeling of being stretched after fisting, then just feel like my arsehole hangs open and is fully relaxed with no tension in it. Mmmmmmmm drives me wild. Love self fisting and being fisted by others.

@MarshaK

If you, understandably, have scare feelings, make sure you have like a safe word or sign

So you can tell him or her to stop. Which obviously he or she could notice when playing.

I am eager to get fisted, but haven't found someone yet. Plenty of offers, but these are man coming from nowhere just popping up in my FetLife mailbox.

After years and years of shoving larger and longer toys up my ass, it would take quite the fist to leave me sore I think. The feeling of being “worked out” is sublime and the reward after all the prep and play.

As to being safe - limits need to be set and communication with trust is key. I know I say that in just about every post but for this type of extreme play, it is important. This is not the realm of “rough domination” it needs to be tender until both parties are ready to make it more intense.

All, I am going to confess to be real curious about anal fisting. And scared, too. It looks easy, but I am scared of something going wrong, and I don't want that, of course. I am playing with toys back there, and it feels good, but again, I am curious. And scared. And curious. And scared.

After inserting many objects deep in me, my anus colon and spincter are stretched and loose. In my experience going easy over time you will be able to get alot in larger and bigger. Yes I have pushed my ass and hurt it several times but with care it doesnt happen much now. Being scared is natural but courage will conquer your fears. Happy ventures everyone