Size king (queen? )

Is the size of the toy important to any of you? It has evolved for me to where the length and thickness is important, stretch me and I cum in convulsion.

Yes size is important if you want enjoyment. A too large vibrator or dildo and the lady will not be happy.

Unless this is intended to be a pain scene.

Personally, I like toys with girth between 4-6 inches and length between 3.5-6 inches. That may change as I become more experienced, but for the moment, that's what most comfortable and pleasurable for me.

I like large toys after enemas.Long dildoes that increase in diameter up to 13/4 -2.0 in.. I use a speculum to help stretch and dilate before toy insertions. R.

I need thick…….very thick. Long is very nice, but it has to be thinner and very bendy.

I am a size queen for sure. I've taken my husband's fist many times before as well as stranger objects like eggplants, squash and large candles.

As far as anal play, I am not quite there yet, but have used smaller plugs and toys on myself.

Girth is absolutely everything, and has way more effect than length for me (although, I prefer toys to be 6"-10" length and at least 2"-4" diameter.

I am not so much a size king for width in my anal toys. I can take 1.5 to 2 inches in width and that's about it. But I have recently acquired a colon tube that is 1 inch wide or just over and is 28 inches long. I have inserted about 20 inches so far. I could feel it and see it (skin bulging) sliding up my left abdomen which was a strange and weird feeling. I have to admit the erotic sensations are really located in my ass- anus and rectum (prostate) so getting past those points really don't provide much stimulation other than the pressure of advancing the colon tube further up my colon. But after a great enema session I do l like trying to see how far I can get this large colon tube up my ass even it only provides some stimulation to my erogenous zones in my ass.

Size-absolutely! I have toys from 2 to 4 inches in diameter and still have a long wish list. I have to say though...the old "Bulldozer" which is a plug about 6 1/2 inches long and 3 inches in diameter is still an all time favorite.

Unless it's 2-4in in diameter i won't use it. i love stretching my ass.

Prov-- tell me about this wonderful sounding colon tube. Where did you get it? What did it cost? What does the dealer call it? How can I get one?

hankb

I have a doc johnson prostate plug that is a little over 2.25 inches in diameter and it takes me a while to stretch enough to accommodate it. However, once it is in place it makes me orgasm almost immediately. I love thick toys and the extra pressure it puts on my prostate.

I guess the size of the toys is a "natural" evolution of any anal stimulation lover. I thought I would not get into "over 2 inch wide" territory, however, bit by bit I got almost to three inch wide and loving it, although at a cost. I played with my 2.6 inch wide glass plug and the next day I had sore insides (prostate and a bit of burning sensation in my urethra). It also happened that I had an regular medical exam that day where I gave an urine sample and it turned out there were some erythrocytes in it. So there's my limit of safe toy size.

Play safe and listen to your body. Once you go "big" you begin to think that you can't hurt yourself by going just a bit bigger (or maybe a bit faster or with less foreplay) in the search of the ultimate butthole stimulation, but you certainly can.

Turns out that "girth" is what my wife needed take her over the top. We've played around with different size toys (along with the occasional cucumber). I think our problem in the past is that when we thought of using something large, we usually went overboard.

We'd been having success giving my wife some good orgasms with average size dildos and with my average size cock.

My wife's sex drive has improved dramatically over the last several months (update from my profile).

Update: March 2016 - My wife has been a total cock hound lately! I have no idea what has changed, but I hope it doesn't stop. We've been having intense sex every weekend - Friday night, Saturday morning, Saturday night, Sunday morning… AND she no longer closes up shop after my first orgasm. Instead, we spend some quality time with a nice fat dildo until I'm ready for round two! and round two lasts until I'm physically exhausted. I think we've fucked more in the last 4 weeks than we did in the last 4 years! She's also starting to get into the "GIVING" side of oral and anal pleasure - YIPPEE!

A couple weeks ago I suggested we pick up a nice dildo with a little more girth - nothing terribly extreme - just a nice fat cock (7"x 2"). After rigorous session of lovemaking, my cock needed a break to recover from orgasm. After a little clean up, we engaged our new toy for the first time. I took it slow and easy to make sure the new girth was acceptable for more rigorous action. It didn't take long to see that she was enjoying the feeling of being stuffed VERY much! I tried to stay focused and make the strokes mimic the speed and force that work best when we're screwing. It only took a few minutes to bring her to the most convulsive orgasms I've ever seen her have. Her bucking and contractions made it a real challenge to keep dildo from pushing out and flying across the room! A few minutes later she had another orgasm that was equally intense. A couple more times and she made me quit.

By this time I was hard again and ready to get back in the game. My initial concern was that after being reamed out by this fat cock, my skinny cock would just be kind of bouncing around inside her. I was absolutely wrong. Her pussy was clamped on my cock better than ever and we fucked like crazy until both of us were both too exhausted to continue.

We didn't talk too much about the following week - talking about sex is still a hurdle we are working on. While I knew she enjoyed it, I wasn't sure if this would be like some other toys where they only get used when my wife is feeling "extra" naughty. I was delightfully surprised when my wife had it laying out the next Friday night and again Saturday night. Apparently she enjoys the intense orgasms 😃 I enjoy being able to keep the action going while my cock rests for round 2.

Since I'm confident that she enjoys the fatness of it, I went ahead and invested in higher quality toy and a high end harness designed for men to wear. I can't wait until they show up!

http://www.vixencreations.com/collections/vixskin/products/maverick?variant=1662172804

https://www.myspare.com/product/deuce

Another perk is that with her growing comfort level with toys - she has taken more interest is using them on me as well. I'm hoping that once she experiences it with our new harness, she will consider letting me order a harness for her to wear 😃

As for me, I enjoy more girth for something stationary, like a butt plug - but for in/out action I prefer something slim that moves in and out without a lot of resistance.

Width and depth. since I love extreme hole stretching, I want my holes stretched inside and out =)

It totally depends on my mood and where I am going to use them. I mean I have a drawer full of toys. It's like I have a thin set of toys for back there and a normal to large set for up front.

Agree, it depends on my mood, but for me it is the girth. To be spread wide, stretched, front and back, s l o w l y. Very slowly. So you feel each tiny stretch, pulsing, the endorphins flowing, slight pain, heavy pleasure. For me it is the journey. Getting it in, stretching and filing. Start with a smaller probe, graduate to the next size up till you are you there fattest one you can take. Each one stretching you, opening you more.

I guess i would be in the queen size when it cums to butt plugs,2.5 inches is the widest so far,anything bigger i think would fall under king size.

Length and diameter are both important to a degree. My 3 favorite toys are all different. The dildo that gets me off the most intense has 8" that insert and is 1.75" diameter. It is very veiny and I use very little lube. I love it. The one that I like for a slow relaxing ass fucking is the new 18" long by 1 1/2" diameter dildo I recently got. And, I love the belly bump it gives me when laying on my back. The 12" double header, also 1 1/2" diameter, is the one I have inserted several hours every day - sometimes up to 10 hours a day now. I have a couple others that are larger diameter that I enjoy less regularly. The largest is just shy of 3", closer to 2 .75", with a distinct head that's larger than the shaft. I can sit on it and get 7" of its 8" length in. When I stand, all of it comes out until the larger size of the head keeps the head firmly inside (think butt plug). I will sometimes leave it in for about 5 minutes like that; but, that's about my limit. I'd like to keep that one in for about 30 minutes to give my ass a nice long stretch.

I can only relay from observation.

Becky would always say she was happy witha small toy but when I would use a much bigger toy she would hop around a lot and be done a lot sooner which leads me to say she was happier with the larger toy...

For me its got to be king sized now. I have a couple of bad dragons that are my favorites. (Kinda pricey though.) They have length & girth and texture and make me feel totally stuffed which makes me cum hard. I have a friend who swears by a short narrow toy. I have witnessed her orgasms & they ain't fake. Very subjective subject I think. :-)

Like a lot of people have said already, it depends on my mood. My collection isn't enormous, but it's not small, either. I have a couple of 6-7 inch dildos, like an actual human size, that I use to rapidly go in and out, concentrating on stimulating my hole and it's immediate surroundings; then I have some fairly big ones: one (Kong, it's called) that's around 10" x 2.5" that I use, in concert with a 3" plug (called Gauge), to give myself a serious stretch; and probably my favorite (named Caligula) that's about a foot long and 2" thick, that I get out when I want seriously reamed. Sometimes I do a little of everything, sometimes I need something specific. Honestly, Caligula is definitely my favorite, and he gets used at least twice as much as all everything else combined. So I'll call myself a Size Queen, King-size wannabe. One day... one day....

I think I have a nice problem in my ass-stretching activities. When I try a larger one than usuaI I cum very soon just from the physical contact and anticipation. I really does not have go go in very far at all. Ive been working on this short ribbed one for over six weeks so far. Great orgasms just prior to the final sphincter-spreading push!

Its why I have many toys in a variety of lengths, thickness and soft/stiffness.

40+ years of anal play-from the tiny carrot barely a 1/2" in diameter to now able to slide 6X that diameter.

The more I played, the more I wanted to enjoy the exquisite sensations I could create.

Depth is not as important as thickness. I love being stretched wide, and I usually cum really hard. Afterwards, i love the feeling of my loose dripping hole, usually to the point of where I go and stuff it again.