Anal sex

Can a male who enjoys enemas and anal-erotica ,have anal sex desires and not be either gay or bi sexual?

Nope, sorry - once you insert ANYTHING in your butt, you are completely gay from that point on. You will no longer be able to get an erection around women - only other men. You will also no longer be allowed to stand up while you pee and must wear women's underwear.

Sorry, but those are the rules.

LOL 😁 ..I think I'm ruined for life.

Nope, sorry - once you insert ANYTHING in your butt, you are completely gay from that point on. You will no longer be able to get an erection around women - only other men. You will also no longer be allowed to stand up while you pee and must wear women's underwear.

Sorry, but those are the rules.

Dang it! I wish someone would have let me know this 20+ years ago. I've been doing it all wrong. I guess I better get myself to Victoria's Secrets. Any recommendations?

Plus, my GF is going to be disappointed now that I can no longer get an erection when we have sex.

This same topic question has been asked numerous times on zity. And the responses are pretty much in line with the ones so far on this thread all be it not quite as humorous.

So I guess I will chime in with my answer to the question "I am gay if I like to put things in my rectum for pleasure?" And the answer is NO.

First, enjoying your anus, rectum and prostate is a male anatomy thing. If it feels good doing anal stimulation it is because you have things inside you that neurologically make it feel good. So go play and have fun.

Secondly, sexuality can be fluid throughout your life- very heterosexual for a long time and then maybe you move slightly off that position to being able to think about playing with a same sex partner. As I always say (on those other threads) don't suppress these feelings just see where they take you and don't be frightened or ashamed you have these feelings.

@ProV1 - You've responded this question on so many threads that you've developed a very clear and concise anwser. Well done. Karma for you 😃

*Slowly raises hand.* Yes, yes, and yes. The reality is that for some people the 'poop chute' will be forever just that, an elimination venue and nothing sensual, let alone sexual. Butt (see how I did that) for some, it is a second/third sexual organ. That group would include me. Not attracted to men, don't want to make out or hold hands with them, not interested in getting married to one. I am attracted to and have sex with women. And yet I sometimes like taking it up the ass from other men. Yes, I could ask a woman to peg me, and I've done it and had it and loved it (for those of you curious / interested, but haven't yet or whose woman won't give it to you, hire a Dominatrix, worth every penny). But it isn't the same, doesn't feel the same as with a guy who has an active interest in his own physical feelings and building his own orgasm while screwing me into next week. There is also a certain satisfaction of feeling a real guy tensing up, grabbing onto my hips and impaling my body on his member as he lets go of his seed deep inside me. It feels very natural, and to admit something a little seamy, there is some guilty but smug satisfaction knowing his wife/woman didn't pull it out of him, I did. I don't understand it myself, but it's like being able to see/hear/feel/appreciate things that others can't (or won't). I'll shut up now and let others comment...

From my late teenage years I've wanted a woman to spank and finger me back there. I've never felt desire for males. It's not that anal sex with a male would disgust me but I'd lack desire.

People can have sexual desires all over the board. Just be sure to embrace the fact that every one is different and ones sexual orientation should never be fodder for bullying or lack of kindness. At least not in my home.

Yes. Definitely yes.

Sparty,(post #10) ya' couldn't have said it better!!!

with a "High 5!!!,"

highwater

PS, Glad to see ya' out and about!!

Of course enjoying anal stimulation does not imply an attraction to men. As ProV1 said, everyone is neurologically equipped to derive great sexual pleasure from that area, when it is stimulated the right way.

I am therefore sure that there are lesbians who have discovered that they enjoy anal play in some forms with each other, and of course they are only attracted to women.

This myth that anal eroticism means homosexuality is like saying that oral sex is also gay, just because there are same-sex couples who engage in oral sex, whether this is between two men or two women. There are people who believe the only sexual activity that counts is penis in vagina, and they believe that anything other than that is not straight. However, the truth is that anything that occurs between a male and a female is straight. And any sexual activity counts, as long as you enjoy it.

Yes, definitely!

Can a male who enjoys enemas and anal-erotica ,have anal sex desires and not be either gay or bi sexual?

What if you flip the question?

Are there men who consider themselves gay or bisexual who do not enjoy enemas, anal erotica, and/or have anal sex desires?

Anal sex after an enema can be very comfortable, but I have to say,I'd consider it being bi sexual

The desire for anal sex doesn't have anything to do with sexual orientation. Heterosexual men have their partners use a strap on or dildo to give them anal pleasure. I personally prefer a real penis but that's just me.

I enjoy it when my wife fingers me during foreplay or my female doctor gives me a prostate exam, but it has nothing to do with being gay - it simply gives me great pleasure!

I have had anal sex with men in years past but have not had any attraction to any of them as far being romatically attached. The sex act is great but would be much better with a lady that i was in love with. I still consider myself as straight. I also enjoy enemas and would like to have a man enemate but my wife would be much better if she enjoyed them also.

I have had once but i dont feel gay.

I don't really know the answer to the original question; but, here's my take. I have never been interested in having sex with a guy. I love toying with my ass. That said, I would think I am straight. However, as mentioned in other threads, I would love for a transsexual to have a go at my ass with her cock and I would be more than happy/willing to give her a bj and swallow. So, am I bi? I think, at best, I am bi curious at this time.

I think, that once we cross certain lines some lables may and do apply

I think there is a difference between doing bisexual acts and being bi and/or gay. I think a man or a woman can enjoy bisexual acts and not be truly bi or gay.

Can a male who enjoys enemas and anal-erotica ,have anal sex desires and not be either gay or bi sexual?

Yes, as long as the anal acts are with a WOMAN.

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I think there is a difference between doing bisexual acts and being bi and/or gay. I think a man or a woman can enjoy bisexual acts and not be truly bi or gay.

YOU HAVE TO BE JOKING!

What you say may be true in prison where options are limited, but not in the free world.

I think it's a question that can only be answered by the person themselves. I'm not big on labels, but I think being gay, bi or straight has to do with more than just sex by itself.

If a gay man has sex with a woman, is he all of a sudden straight?

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If a gay man has sex with a woman, is he all of a sudden straight?

Of course not because that's not what he does on a regular basis. A gay man having sex with a woman would be chalked up to experimentation.

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I think it's a question that can only be answered by the person themselves. I'm not big on labels, but I think being gay, bi or straight has to do with more than just sex by itself.

If a teenager or man has sex once or twice with another man, you can chalk that up to experimentation. They can be straight.

If a man is NOT in prison or under some form of extreme duress, if he repeatedly has sex with another man under his own volition, he is at least BIsexual. THAT'S WHAT THE DEFINITION IS.

You can like anal without being gay. There's a lot of people in straight relationships that like anal stimulation.. I happen to be one of them...Just Sayin..

I like anal sex and I love the thought of being taken by a women with a strapon, but not taken by a male. I tried bi sex once, but didn't enjoy it, guess it wasn't what I thought it might be. So men can like anal and not be gay yes.

You can like anal without being gay. There's a lot of people in straight relationships that like anal stimulation.. I happen to be one of them...Just Sayin..

CONGRATULATIONS.

You're a member of the most INCLUSIVE club here that most of the men have joined.

Of course you can be straight and like anal penetration.

Most men here like anal play and penetration--even the straight ones.

The straight men want a WOMAN to fuck their ass.

The gay men want a MAN to fuck them.

I agree. I enjoy, crave anal stimulation, yet am not gay.