Going back to that first post, which I just read again, I have to say it's a highly arousing fantasy. In fact I just got a big drippy erection thinking about my dominatrix repeatedly pegging me in our weekly sessions. She has been locking up my cock in a chastity device at the end of each session, and this has made it impossible for me to cum until I return to her again to get unlocked. Every session, she has been pegging me and getting me closer and closer to a pure anal orgasm by using her hands less and less. Also every session, as she has locked up my cock until next time, (and kept the key), she has been telling me that once she fucks my ass and I cum without her using any hands, that's the only way she'll ever let me cum again. That prospect in a real relationship would take the role reversal aspect of pegging to a whole new level for me.
How would I feel after my dominatrix fucks my ass with a huge dildo and I finally do cum without her touching me with her hands First, I'd be thrilled to finally experience a pure anal orgasm with her. Second, I'd suddenly realize that the only way I'd ever cum while being her sub will be by her fucking my ass, and future pure anal orgasms probably won't be happening every session with her. That would take the role reversal of pegging to a even higher level.
Now assume that my dominatrix is blackmailing me. She's threatened to send video of our sessions to my boss if I don't continue our relationship. I have to wear my chastity device between sessions and be deprived of orgasms until she fucks my ass again and maybe I can cum. Would I feel like an abused woman? No, but I would feel like an utterly feminized man being totally dominated, particularly if she added some public cross dressing outings with her.
It's a great fantasy. Writing about it has me totally wet and hard. It might be fun to actually live out this fantasy for the short term, but only if I could easily ply my trade far, far away where my blackmailing dominatrix couldn't easily track me down.