Need suggestions please

So I have experimented a little with my GF and would like to keep trying more. I tried the gyno exam things and played with gloves, but what can I try next ? I would love to eventually try speculums

Go for the less invasive stuff first, stethoscopes, flashlights, otoscope, reflex hammer, etc. Most of these items are available from sources like Amazon or eBay at minimal cost. YouTube has plenty of training videos on techniques.

Good idea, thanks. How about stirrups ?

Go to a used book store or a college book store and buy a used copy of Barbara Bates "Physical Examination". That should give you enough to work on for a few lifetimes.

You are not doing this by yourself.

Ask her what she's curious about.

What turns her on, do a variation fo that.

What turns her off - stay away from this stuff.

If you are lucky enough to still live an an area that has an adult toyland, see if you can get her to go there with you. If you can do that, spring for *anything* she finds interesting. Try very hard to get her in the spending mood. When you have a bunch of stuff, look around and they may have speculums, if they do, get one. If they don't, at least you have gotten her loose with toys. When you get home make sure she has a totally positive experience with the toys. Let her use them the way she wants to, at least at first. There is a difference between the way males use toys on females and females use them on themselves. You can not classify across the board but most females spend the bulk of their time on the outside, mostly around their clits and little traces up and down their slits, and minimal if any insertion. Guys tend to want to burry the things up to their hilts, in either hole. Don't do that! At least not at first.

Another cheep med fet toy is a rectal thermometer. I have had GF's that have been embarrassed to have their RT''s taken but I try very hard to make it an enjoyable experience. All of them let me do it more than once. And don't forget that turn about is fair play.

In my experience if what you do takes her to new sexual highs, she will be into it. I have gotten the comment a couple of times to the effect, I can't believe that I let you do that to me, but god, it felt so good. And making it feel good is the trick.

Good luck!

If you don't have a speculum, try a pair of regular spoons.

Just remember whenever you're trying something new, be gentle and watch your patients face. It will tell you more than her voice if it hurts!

Check out some videos together and see what she thinks she might like to try.

Have you tried examining her other places than in bed? Like on a table with her feet supported by chairs?

Been down this road with my wife and as we continue to play, she seems to be into more and different toys and exam types. We started out with a rectal thermometer, a pair of spoons, and a flashlight.