Telling your wife -- positive reactions

Well, my wife finally knows the whole story about diapers, I mean everything. She knows that I faked the whole thing about needing them for medical reasons for bedwetting and that I'm wearing diapers solely because I want to.

My wife got home before I did today. No big deal. As usual, the first thing I had to do was change. I did that and began to do some laundry. My wife was making dinner and said it was going to be ready in about a half an hour.

We were talking about stuff and my wife - Cindy asked how I was doing an all. I decided to just tell here the truth. I can't remember it exactly but it was something like this. I said; well do you want the truth? She said, I don't know do I? I said well the truth is, I don't have to wear diapers. She replied, are things better? I said not quite. What I mean is that I'm only wearing diapers because I want to. She didn't say anything to that but got a strange look so I quickly continued. I said that for some weird reason, I've always wanted to wear diapers and that one day it just struck me to concoct a reason to be able to wear diapers. She said, you mean its like a fetish thing? I said no, its not sexual at all, I just like wearing and peeing in diapers. She said, so you are ok physically? I said yes. I can hold it just fine, but I really don't want to. I said bluntly. I like to pee myself and wet the bed. She said well, on one had, it's a relief that you are ok but this is really weird. Do you want me to change you or something? I said no, I'm not into that sort of thing and it creeps me out. I just want to be able to wear diapers all the time. She said; I need to digest this a bit. I said I was sorry that I told her I had a physical problem and that I've been lying for nearly 3 months. She didn't say anything until we were eating dinner when she suddenly smiled and then giggled. She said, So does this mean you intentionally peed yourself while you were driving your truck? And I said, yes. That was when I had the idea to fake the trauma so I decided to just 'wet' myself to make it look like I had a problem. She just laughed and said, well, I guess you are serious. You really do like to wet yourself. I can't even drive your truck but you actually pissed in it! This is too funny.

At this point I knew she was ok with it. She was 'laughing it off' if you know what I mean.

I can't believe it. You really want to wear diapers!? I said, yes. Its something that has been going around in my head all my life. I really don't want to stop. I just like being able to pee whenever I want to.

She said, well this is certainly strange but as long as I don't have to do anything, its ok by me. But really, do you get turned on or anything. I said, no, not at all. It isn't sexual, I just like to wet myself.

She laughed again and said, some guys turn 40 and have to buy a penis car. You turn 40 and decide to wear diapers. I can see why you thought you had to make up such a story. Had you told me you wanted to start wearing diaper, I would have suggested you have your head examined but I guess you are serious.

Then she asked about sleeping in the daybed. She asked, what is that about? I said that it was a great idea she had. It is much more comfortable that sleeping in a thick diaper but I really, really like to wet the bed. I said that I didn't know how to describe it but I just really enjoy peeping in bed. I said I like being able to wet myself but wetting the bed is a lot of fun. I said that sometime I hope it happens automatically but so far that isn't the case. I described how I wake up but I usually fall back asleep while I'm peeing.

She kept saying how she just can't get over it. In a way its so funny that I like to wet myself. She said, you, a 6 foot 6 biker like guy wearing a diaper because you like it! Wow! Now I've seen everything!

Then she said, well I should have a surprise for you in a day or so. I said what? She said that earlier in the week she ordered an absorbent mattress pad for our bed so I didn't have to worry so much about little leaks. This way I could sleep on my side and not have to worry about damaging the mattress. I said that will be a big help. But she said not to even think about wetting our regular bed. I said no, I wasn't about to do that. She also said that I can't sleep on the day bed every night either. I assured her that I wasn't about to do that because our bed is more comfortable and she was in it too. I didn't want to not sleep next to her.

We talked about her mother and I said that I would tell her Saturday night when she comes over. We are both sort if interested in how she will handle it.

We talked some more about how I just really like doing it. I told her about my 'rules' and bout the website and all. I don't expect her to check the site out or anything. She was impressed at my level of commitment.

I told her everything.

I also asked her some hard questions to make sure she was really on board with how I wanted this to go. I said that I really want to have no control and just pee whenever it happens. I said that is how I've been living for nearly 12 weeks and I don't want to change it for any reason. She assured me it was fine but I said I really mean it. If I'm out in public and my diaper leaks, I'm not going to hold it. I'm going to treat it just as though I can't stop. I may have to excuse myself to change but I won't hold it. I said that if we just had sex I better get into a diaper fast because I usually have to pee shortly afterwards and I'm not going to hold it. I said that except for when I was sleeping on the daybed, in the past 12 weeks, I've always worn a diaper except in the shower. I said that it not entirely about the diaper but about peeing without any inhibition. That was what I really enjoyed.

She thought about it and said ok, if you are serious that you really want to wear a diaper and all, I'll look at it like you have no control and that you can't help yourself. But you had also better treat yourself as though you have no control as well.

She also said that any supplies I need to by are not going to be household items and that any money used from the household accounts will have to be paid back. (She is rather practical about money.)

I was wrong in one aspect, she didn't suspect at all. She had no clue at all. But she is relieved that there is nothing wrong with my physically. Mentally is another matter but since I'm not hurting anyone it isn't a big deal. Its not like I have a gambling addiction or spend all evening a the local bar.

But she also can't stop giggling about it. She'll just turn to me and start smiling or giggling.

There you have it. This is the condensed version. We talked quite a lot and covered a lot more than just this.

The bottom line is that she is the great person I married and she doesn't have a problem with her husband wearing diapers. She is not into it at all. But she is ok with me wearing diapers 24/7.

I feel really great right now. Life is good.

The plan was for us to tell my mother-in-law this evening. I jumped the gun a bit and told her on the way over.

Yea, she was shocked and thrown for a bit. Not so much about the whole idea of wearing a diaper but that it was me.

Here's how it went down.

I drove into DC to pick her up. On the way back were talking as usual and she asked a general how was I doing question. I paused and said, "Well, I have something to tell you. It isn't bad or good but it is a tad strange." She said, "Ok, lay it on me." I said, "Well, I told Cindy about this on Thursday and we decided to tell you today together but I decided its something I should do myself." She said, "You're not having an affair are you?" I laughed and said, "no, but that would be less weird." I went on, "Here it is. I don't really have to wear diapers for any physical reason. I just like to wear diapers." She said, "What!?!?, you're serious? You like to wear diapers like a baby?" I said, "No, that's not quite it. I just like to pee in my diapers or to be more accurate, I just like to pee whenever I have to no matter what. I really, really like to wet the bed. But I also like to just pee into my diapers." I explained more and she said, "Do you mean you wet the bed at night?" I replied, "no, not our bed but sometimes I setup the daybed so I can wet the bed at night without ruining the mattress." We talked some more and she said, "So what about the ladder accident? That didn't happen?" "No, that happened but I wasn't hurt. I was just driving home on a Friday and I was thinking about wearing a diaper when I though, why not go ahead. I thought about it and realized I would need some sort of 'reason' to do so and I thought about the fall. I thought about it and came up with the idea that I should 'have an accident' and be suddenly incontinent. The moment I realized it was a good idea, I was already wetting myself while I was driving. I really enjoyed doing it.

She was like, "Wow, this is big. I never would have dreamed that you had this side to you." And she asked how Cindy was taking it and all. I said she seems to be ok with it but I would really appreciate it if you could find out for sure. She said she would.

She didn't pass any sort of judgment at all. I didn't expect her to but she was very surprised to say the least.

When she walked into the house the first words out of her mouth were, "He likes to wear diapers and piss himself!" My wife was completely caught off guard. She said, "I thought we were going to tell her together." I said that I thought I should be the one who had to because of what happened when I was fixing her computer.

The rest of the evening was fine. My mother-in-law thought the whole thing was quite funny. She quizzed us on all sorts of things and was quite relentless with the jokes and innuendo. About what I expected. Again, she never passed judgment or anything. She has to see the daybed and she seems to have a million 'big baby' jokes. She wasn't being mean, she just like to poke fun at things. It was all very light and funny.

Taking her back into the city was an adventure. She was in her element and was saying anything to get a rise out of me. I wasn't too bad.

Not much to tell about this. It is definitely out in the open now.

I do feel much better for finally telling my wife and my mother-in-law. I'm not going to go out of my way to tell anyone from my side of the family. If it comes up, fine. I don't really care what they think.

I've decided that this is who I am and I'm not going to make excuses or hide from it anymore. It's not sexual or a perversion. It is strange but so what? I really, really like it. It makes me happy and contented. I'm more relaxed and open now. I smile more.

I should have done this a long time ago. I feel like I'm finally being true to myself.

It only took me to 7 months to ask my wife to marry me but it took me 2 years to tell her about my diaper fetish. She was ok with it. She dont do any acting with me wearing diapers or anything. She is not bothered buy me wearing diapers. At least I dont have to hide it anymore.

That good congrates rudesmack

I tried hinting at my wife about wearing diapers but she thought it was just too gross. Her grandmother had issues and my wife just can't get people wanting to wear, and use, diapers when they don't have too. I might want to try subliminal tapes. 😉

Glad you were able to be honest and glad your wife appears to be o.k. with it. My I suggest that you treat your diapers like a regular pair of underwear that has to be changed often. Don't throw it out to much in her face/sight. Please keep us posted on how things are going.

I told my wife about my diaper thing way back when we were married. She is okay with it. She does wear them sometimes just because she knows I think she looks hot in them, but she doesn't really like wearing them. That's okay though. I'm glad she loves me and I love her.

I introduced my wife to my diaper fetish to when our daughter was in diapers. That was about 26 years ago. 😎 At first, my wife piined a cloth diaper on me. The first diapering took place on Friday night and the last diapering was on Sunday. By Monday moring, our laundry stunk.

I have since swithced to disposible. Stevie

Mine just agreed to let me wear diapers to bed.

When I was 20 I met and fell in love with a very pretty girl and started "going steady". She loved kids and was a babysitter and always made remarks about diapers..."I was babysitting last night and I sure did change some wet diapers" or "Way back then when we were still filling our diapers..." We decided early on that one day we'd like to have kids. Then we started talking to each other with "baby talk" (in retrospect, this is kind of embarrassing but, love makes you do funny things). So after several months, while sitting on her porch one night talking I finally told her that I loved wearing diapers.

She was fine with this and for the next few years she let me wear them whenever I wanted. But she WOULD NOT have sex, she always said she was saving it for marriage. After a couple of years she finally agreed to sex and for a while, I had the best of both worlds. But then, as she got into sex, she started hating my diapers. It was like "now that you have this, you don't need those anymore." My diapers were one of the reasons we eventually broke up.

So, over the next few years, I pretty much decided that I'd never get married because I'd never find a girl who would accept me for being the diaper wearing big baby that I am.

When I was 26 I met a girl and started dating her and after a couple of years, when things started getting serious, I realized "now is the time to tell her." So over time I worked up the courage to do this. Finally I said "There's something about me that you need to know....I love wearing diapers." She said "Oh is that all? I thought this was going to be something terrible!'

Turns out that she'd spent some time hospitalized and was around lots of people who were diapered and just didn't think it was a big deal. So, again, I had a girlfriend who let me wear my diapers. We'd spend weekends together with me diapered the whole time. She sewed and was able to make me plastic pants (this was in the pre-internet era, before it was easy to buy them online) and adult cloth diapers (by sewing several large toddler sized ones together). She even made me some sissy clothes to wear.

Long story short, I married her and we're still married today. But the moral of the story is: Tell her BEFORE you marry her. That way, if she can't accept your diapers, you're not trapped in the relationship and both of you are free to move on. I can't imagine being married and having to hide my diapers, or, even worse, being married to someone who knows and can't stand the idea.

That being said, you never know, chances are very good that if she loves you, she will accept that your diapers are part of who you are and you will live happily ever after. That's how it finally worked out with me.

After a little while of having accidents, the next day my wife after I came home from work placed me in diapers.

As well has having lotion , wipe and powder prepared

Wish I could be as lucky as herb. I'm sometimes a little late getting to the br as I just can't hold it as well as I used to. I really think a pad would wk for me, but I think I may be a DL as I have a desire to be diapered. I think it's a security thing for me. Although, with my job, it would be hard to be diapered for several reasons. It also will be very difficult for me to address this with my wife.

Well, i am not married..again...yet..but, my GF and i have been dating now over 2 yrs. I didnt tell her about my AB/DL side until a year and half into our relationship. It was nerve racking wondering how she would take it, or wondering if i would forget and leave something out for her to see that would give my baby side away! We had a small fight, and i finally decided to tell her everything. She would either leave me or she would accept it. Well, she not only accepted my baby side, but now she joins me in wearing diapers also! She enjoys it and i love diapering her and sharing this with her! I love her so much!

OKay so first off my wife always new about my my diaper fetish but she really ask,much.I shared apodcast with her"This Is What Living With An Adult Diaper Fetish Is Like" http://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/this-is-what-living-with-an-adult-diaper-fetish-is-like_55f189e9e4b002d5c0783e64 this last week I told my wife of five years this weekend and shes been very excepting Even helping me wear them and bringing the diapers out of hiding in my house