SO's acceptance and involvment

I was just wondering ...... How many of us have wives/hubbies or SO's that get involved with our love of diapers? I see posts of quite a few that have no tolerance whatsoever and that's really understandable. For me, mine has accepted it totally and has fulfilled all my kinky desires. We have explored some pretty wild AB scenes and she still loves me. She's truly my loving angel.....

For my part, I can say that my wife accept my diapers side, she changes me often but we can't get started with AB play.

Thinks she dont know how to do it.

And sadly she dont changes messy diapers 😉

like to hear more about your experience metoo

Mine accepted it when I was dating her -- which is why I married that girl! That was back in the 1980s and we've definitely had some fun with it over the years. These days she's so accepting of it that she generally pays no attention to it anymore. My diapers are about like all my other clothes to her. And I guess that's good--though I'd like for her to humiliate me over wearing them a little bit now and then, and take more control of it all. She doesn't seem to understand that wearing my diapers is great, but her MAKING me wear my diapers is much much better. Oh well, I'm still luckier than most and I count my blessings.

I have found that person who has no problem with this as well. We met right here, as a matter of fact. She loves that I enjoy what I do, and likes to be involved. We don't get to explore as much as we would like at the moment, but that will not be for long. We have many other interests that we share besides, I know this to be an important thing. We have lots of great fantasies yet to explore together.

My fiance' became a diaper love and an adult baby after I told her about me wearing.... she loves it and wears everyday

Diaperc,

One instance was being harshly lectured about bedwetting I don't have a problem other than can't hold it all night as per her orders and wet my night diapers.

I'm made to lay over the bed and given a sound spanking till I cry (it's wildly mortifying). I'm then given a very humiliating lecture about my immaturity and

pinned into thick cloth diapers and plastic baby pants. No potty time. I have to use my diapers. When I can't hold it and lose control I get a stern lecture because

I went in my diaper like a baby. This is all the reason she needs to rediaper me and continue on with diaper training.

I avoid poopy messes as I always felt that was going too far and I respect her too much to put her through that. On rare occasions I have been made to

"make a messy" but I always clean myself up. I then get rediapered by my strict nanny.

Most all of my relationships have had my SO/ex-wife involved in diaper changes.

I was married for 20 years to a woman. I started having accidents and eventually started wearing diapers when she was pregnant with our fifth child. I mostly had to change my own, but she would change me grudgingly when we went shopping once in a while. We got divorced just after the sixth child ( not mine, she got knocked up when she started cheating on me- whole different story)

When I started dating a year after the divorce, I met this women that was incontinent also. So for both of us it was a non issue and we changed each others diapers all the time. I dated her for over a year, but then she decided to move back to her family in the mid west.

The next woman I dated did not know I was diapered, but we had been walking together on a walking trail, and I had a large bowel accident. So then I had to tell her. Surprisingly, she said it was ok. She took me back to her place (for the first time) and changed my diaper for me. I was flabbergasted, at how lucky I was. Then she showed me the rest of her house that she shared with 2 kids (20, and a 16 year old boy). Turns out, her 16 year old was still in diapers at night. So it wasn't an issue with her. we enjoyed good times, but it didn't work out.

In my current relationship, I am engaged to a wonderful women. I told her on our first date that I was incontinent. She told me some other things that were just as revealing about her past life. Anyways, she has totally become a mommy to me and loves changing my diapers and treating me like a baby.

When my wetting accidents started and told her and most all the time been confined to diapers.She has accepted because of the medical reasons but we have had a change of management on who's the boss now she thinks me as her wimp but change my own diapers.

I met my wife at a local upscale bar grill where single like to hook up. I was recently divorced and wanted to start meeting girls again. I'd had a secret diaper fetish most of my life, was tired of hiding this side of me and promised myself that the the next time I met someone I was interested in, I'd let them in on my little secret early on. I went out that night wearing my cloth prefold diaper, two cloth inserts and rubber pants under pretty classy trousers, shirt and jackets. I had been doing this for awhile with mixed results, but nothing long lasting. That night I bought this cute girl a drink and struck up a conversation. By the end of the evening I knew I wanted to continue to see her, we had so much in common, had much the same views of life and events, even though she was quite a bit younger. She was also divorced with a young daughter. My children were adults by then. I couldn't keep my eyes off her as we talked and drank, she obviously didn't mind my looking at her chest, which was purposely unbuttoned fairly low so every time she leaned a bit could see parts of her nipples. We'd been drinking all night and by the end, my diapers were soaked, I was aroused and ask to get together the next night for dinner. Nothing more happened that night, we said good night to each other, I put my arms around her and kissed her gently at first, until she opened her mouth for a much wetter kiss. As soon as I got home, I took my clothes off, looked at myself in the mirror in just my swollen diapers and rubber pants, stuck my hand down the front of my diapers and played with wee-wee until I came.

The following day all I could think of was her and what how she would react when I told her about my diapers. I was so afraid she'd reject me once she I told her, but I knew I needed to get over it over with quickly before I chickened out, got too involved with her and ended up never telling her. Once again, I dressed up nicely after pinning my thick prefolds and inserts on, smelling really nice with all the baby powder I used, and headed out to pick her up. She looked so sexy when she opened her door, cute dress, low cut in front, I

I was so excited seeing her again. After hugging and kissing a bit, we left for dinner. On the way I felt myself wetting some, which got me a little aroused. During dinner I wet several times and twice, she asked me if something was bothering me. I suspect I was just zoning out briefly when I started to wet. We had just finished the main course and were waiting for deserts when I looked at her, tried to smile but I was so nervous I blurted out “I have something I have to tell you and before I do, I want you to know I really like you, these last two days have been the best in my life and I want so much to continue to see you, and hope you can trust me enough after what I have to say. Right now I have diapers and rubber pants on and did last night as well. I don't have a medical excuse, but have wanted to wear diapers since I was a teenager, but could never tell anyone. So spent the last 30 years wearing diapers secretly when I could. I would love to talk more with you about this, answer any questions you have. Please give me a chance to explain all this. I need to be open about this, otherwise it will drive me crazy." “Well looks like we have a lot to talk about. I'm kind of shocked to be honest. You seem so cool, interesting mature, that I hoped we could see a lot more of each other. I don't know anything about this, I think I saw something on Jerry Springer years ago, and I have to say I found it pretty weird. You actually have a diaper on now? Have you done anything in them. Is that why you looked so spacy a few times tonight. You were doing something in them, weren't?” Now was the time, I thought to myself. “Yes I am, and yeah, I was wetting my diapers when you asked me. Will you stay so we can talk about it more." Basically I'm breathless, until she says “You have to tell me a lot more. I think I'm getting a little turned on though. Can I see for myself," as her hand goes between my legs and rubs my crotch. By then I'm a little aroused, getting hard and she says “I want to see them, pull your slacks down and show me.” I do under the table, she looks, feels around my crotch and says “these are just like what I wore when I was a baby. Cloth diapers and plastic pants. I expected Depends or something like that, not real baby diapers. And you are very wet. Get those pants up, you don't want anyone seeing you like this. We should leave and you can tell me all about you and your diapers on the way home to your place. You need to have your diapers changed, they are so wet. I haven't changed anyone since my daughter but I'm sure I can change you. Lets go.” On the way home I start to tell her my history with diapers, bedwetting leading to my diaper fetish. She doesn't say much until we arrive at my home, park in the garage and I get out to help her out when she says “take you pants off, so I can see you in just your diapers and rubber pants. Did you wet yourself again on the way home. I think you did, those diapers are starting to sag.” I do as she says as she tells me “Lets get you changed honey.”

A lot of us seem to be on our second or even third relationship. Is it a result of our diaper fetish or something else? My ex was into diapers before I met her. She left with a girlfriend that was also very much into diapers. The revolving door of my kinky life carries on.

I told my wife very early in our relationship of my interest in nappies through time it went adult baby mummy relationship

I am a life long bed wetter and a dl due to sleeping in diapers every night. My wife knew of my diapers and had no problems with them before we married. About 7 yrs ago she suggested pull-ups and then diapers during the day due to wet spots on my pants. And yelllow underwear. She never had any interest in wearing one even though we take frequent 6 hr rides to our beach house. We have to stop every hr or so so she can pee and I suggested a few times she just wear a pull-up, but she always said no. About 4 months ago she wet the bed a few times and then we were out for dinner and drinks in the city and she wet her pants. We had to go back to the hotel so she could change. She usually wets when she coughs, sneezes or laughs really hard. Well a couple of weeks later we were having our weekly sex and after she finished it was my turn and she started coughing and wet the bed… she got up and put a towel down and I told her she should just put a pull-up on as the towel would soak through. Much to my surprise she went into the closet and came out wearing one and got back into bed to finish me off…..My heart was pounding and I lasted less than 30 seconds. When we got up she kept it on. I thought I had died and gone to heaven. The next day she went shopping and bought women’s pull-ups and has been wearing them 24/7, even during our weekly sessions!! So, I guess you never really know what will happen….

52 years ago my soon to be wife surprised me by getting into bed with me. I was as in a wet diaper and it didn’t bother her! 20 years later she forgot about it, till she asked if I was wearing a diaper. She is NOT fond of it but accepts it. However when i repeatedly ask it I could wear my diaper to bed her answer was a sound spanking, when I thought it stopped and asked her again . So her answer AGAIN was another spanking!

She has not mentioned it after asking me if I was wearing a diaper one morning, I answered YES, it is no different than any other morning! I still want to show her as soon as I get up in the morning wearing only my diaper plastic diaper cover and ONESIE, but I would probably not get the reaction that I would want😃

Oh after the first spanking the second was due to my asking “ if not every night how about special occasions like my Birthday or to be a New Year’s baby “

She was chasing me and holding me in a circle both times and yes I was doing the spanking dance ouch!

My wife indulged my fetishes for enemas and diapers as we initially explored our sexuality. Through the years, she gradually became less involved until now, she doesn’t even want to talk about it anymore. She has a disdain for my use of diapers. I’ve tried on several occasions to talk with her about it, but she want’s no part of playing any more. At least I was able to experience some great times exploring enemas , diapers and rubber pants with her and I have those memories.