Parents using enemas for sexual purposes.

PARENT / PARENT (M to F or F to M ).

Something I have often pondered, partly due to the fact that many came to recognize the Enema as a means of deriving both personal & shared pleasure by any one of a number of means....Even though for many (past & present) the beginnings originated in early childhood predominately to alleviate constipation along with a variety of other illnesses for which the Enema became synonymous...And for others who may have discovered it's somewhat significant "capabilities" later in life.I'd be inclined to suggest others also would have wondered about their parents in relation to Enema's....I doubt I'd be alone in this line of thinking nor consider this odd, given historical accounts of writings.

The thought of & about others given situation lingers when it comes to parents & Enema administration namely as a means of sexual interaction...Just to clarify, I'm suggesting parent / parent & NOT parent child...I may be drawing a long bow here but based on the many posts, surely some parents were familiar or maybe conversant with what an Enema's "other" stimulating effects can & does produce...As I see it if many here recognize / understand the mystique surrounding Enema's, then by rights a percentage of our forebears must have also....not something easily ignored.

Now I cannot in all honesty say what my own parents may or may not have indulged in when it came to entertaining Enema's for,or as a means of recreational pleasure....Not that one would be likely to openly discuss this with a parent as there maybe every likelihood that one may end up seen as a little twisted /depraved or end up sharing a consultation couch with a shrink (some just 10 cents in the Dollar themselves) discussing ones alternative therapeutic interests with little or no resolution, because who is gonna voluntarily give up something they enjoy anyhow.....pointless.

From a health standpoint it was a given, depending on circumstances...Knowing full well that my mother (medically trained) was both an advocate for & subscribed to the principle's of healthy body healthy mind.....Fascinating when seen in those terms !!...Psychologically another matter as many are undoubtedly aware.

So here we are in the 21st century with the Enema no longer considered particularly acceptable by mainstream medicine,yet still used in quite a number of countries around the globe & apparently not a taboo issue in some quarters...nor should it be as it's effectiveness being widely known....Even to the extent of regaining a degree of popularity borne out by renewed interest across different sectors, web sites being just one medium of promotion....colonic therapy being another growing in popularity both here & abroad.

Just as an aside : As many are aware & with research psychologist J.Denko coining the term Klismaphilia for those that equated the Enema with sexual connotations / behaviour....Oddly enough prior to her "research" the term known was simply "The Enema Habit" for which the treatment was ??....you guessed it....Enema's....Oh really !!..Yes, Enema's administered daily over 10 successive day's...said program commencing with a large volume 3H soapsuds Enema & decreasing by one fluid ounce & one degree in temperature for each & every day.....Whew,wonder how many were cured...not many I suspect !

QUESTION : Any members recognize or know beyond all doubt that either parents or living grandparents participate in Enema's as a means of....1) purely relaxation ??...2) regular health regime(non sexual) ??...3) Outright pre-cursor to sex...vaginal and or anal??... Appreciate candidness in elaboration .

As I posted in another thread, my mom took enemas just as frequently as she gave them to us. My mom and dad divorced shortly after I was born, and she raised us as a single parent, so it was not a shared sexual activity, and she did not give herself an enema after giving us (my older sister and myself) one, so I do not believe that there was any sexual arousal at giving us kids an enema. However, having seen her going into her bedroom with a filled enema bag and closing the door, I heard a faint buzzing sound coming out of her room. Also, when she was going out for the evening, the bag would be hanging on the towel rack drying out, so I assumed that she took and an enema or douche as she was preparing for the night out.

Well my mother started giving enemas to me at age 5 and this lasted until age 13. At age 8 she started to have me give her enemas 2 or 3 times a week. This lasted until I went to college at age 18. She also had my father give them to her. My father gave himself bulb enemas. As far as I know they weren't used for a prelude to recreation by them. They were for health reasons. I do believe my mother like the attention she was given as recipient of the enemas. Certainly, whether sexual or not, they are intimate

I think my mother got aroused and was fancinated with enemas although she remained very subdued and professional about it. I remember her telling me when I was in the hospital and could not use a bed pan that they were going to give me an enema. After wards she asked me how I felt and two days later she just smiled a said she asked the nurse to give me another enema. A year or so later I was home and needed to go to the hospital for some tests. She very discretely told me the procedure required her to give me two enemas. Never can forget her coming to my room with a towel a full enema bag and a jar of Vaseline. At that time she realized that I did not mind getting an enema.

I think my dad got aroused giving me enemas

Does anyone here think their parents used enemas sexually? I knew both of my parents would take enemas from time to time by themselves. But I can remember a number of times late at night when they would both be in the bathroom and I could hear a lot of water running and the distinct sounds of a number of enemas being expelled. As I gotten older I've come to suspect there were as many moans of pleasure has groans of distention going on in there.

I grew up in the '50's and in our house the enema equipment was regularly on display in the bathroom. In addition to the matter-of-fact remedy for constipation, mom insisted on giving enemas at the onset of any illness and also as a preventative measure. So everyone got their fair share including mom and dad. Their enemas were generally evening affairs around our bedtime and, because we had only one bathroom, mom would ask us if we need to use the toilet because either she would be giving dad an enema or dad was going to help with her enema. The usual enema sounds could be heard through the closed bathroom door and their conversation was infrequent and hushed. I recall several times seeing them hug after they finished an enema session, so I'd have to say they were well aware of the sexual response that we all know can be induced with an enema. Did they occasionally use enemas solely for sexual purposes? I don't think so, but I do believe they knew all about relaxing, pleasurable enemas and their enema sessions probably included a little of those "extra benefits" we all know about.

@rainyjane

Why do you think that?

I saw erections thru his pants

In my opinion connection between Enemas and pleasure is rock solid. Beside some specific medical prescription a regular Enema takers must be sexual aroused by. Mom gave me and herself at least an Enema a week, without any apparently reason but maintenance routine, always with kindness, supportive and motherly attention. She never indulge on sexual stimulation, nevertheless I think she took same pleasure doing this.

Happy E. folks.

L.

Both my Mother & Grandmother were believers of enemas....

Don't really think either of them used enemas for sexual purposes...

My Mother is quite the PRUDE... LOL

My Grandmother is a little more laid back...

If anyone in my family took pleasure in enemas it would have been my Grandmother.

But I really don't think my Grandmother would have taken a sexual interests to them.

However she did joke about them from time to time. ....etc.

I seriously doubt my parents used then because they never gave one to me.

Looking back and reflecting on my (and my sister's) enema upbringing, I feel certain that our grandmother and mother gave to each other for the sexual as well as health benefits. The fact that we got them twice weekly speaks for itself. The thing we never understood was our nightly dose of Fletchers Castoria. I am sure Grandma was anally erotic, which explained our not-infrequent, spur-of-the-moment suppository insertions, as well. Sis and I cannot recall ever having a spontaneous bowel movement. Of course, the result was chronic constipation, so both of us grew to love those bulbs, and later bags of warm soapy water. As we entered puberty, we came to appreciate the "other" benefits as well. We gave to ourselves and to each other when Mom and Grandma we away long enough. We both married klismaphobes, and neither dared risk introducing our kids to the pleasures of E's. I don't think either spouse ever suspected that we did each other when we travelled to family gatherings for holidays. We did a lot of "shopping" in no-tell motels, LOL! For those among you who are now wondering: no, we never had sex, unless you want to call "enemas til orgasm" sex. Now both widowed, we are contemplating moving in together, for "health" as well as financial reasons. Travelling 600 miles is getting tedious, not to mention time-consuming. Oh, and NO, I don'[t think we'll ever "do it". Incest is still a taboo for both of us.

Nmas4u said

. . . Oh, and NO, I don'[t think we'll ever "do it". Incest is still a taboo for both of us.

Oh, I bet you might "do it"!

Those genitals are soooo close to where the two of you play your enema games.

You're right there looking at each other's private parts. . . . You'll look. . . . you'll touch. . . . you'll. . . . you know. . . . you'll DO IT! Who cares as long as you like it?

I have second cousins where the brother and sister live together and they make no bones about it. If you met them, you would think they were in a childless marriage.

Relatives often have similar kinks, and you already know that. Have a blast!

Yep enemas tend to run in families

@nmas4u I think Susie is right, it's a slippery slope. 😃~

@larak I have to disagree, for myself only. I can't grasp that getting them is pleasant on a basic level (I didn't want to say on a gut level). In my *mind*, I understand the "connection between Enemas and pleasure" as you say, bc I like the IDEA of an enema, but for me the reality is unpleasant.

I feel like the only one on this site who feels that way.

What I cannot understand is why I do not get cramps when I have a colonic.

I am a giver only, now, as an adult. Maybe I have an overly sensitive gut lining but the sensation of the cramping etc. is not enjoyable to me, though I see it is a major aspect of pleasure for many.

I only knew of my mother giving enemas to my father, never vice versa and I am beyond positive that there was no pleasurable sexual connection for her. Who knows what my father was thinking; I have no idea if it was a turn on for him.

When my parents were together, that went on. Not sure to what degree or frequency.

Clearly also, my mom's mom gave her enemas well into her teens, and clearly my Dad had to hide his enema taking at least from his Mom. he had a younger brother, and that alone limited what he could tell his younger brother without Mom finding out quickly.

I know it was only months after they met that they had their first enema session together, just the two of them, in Mom's house, while her parents were back in Canada for several days.

Beyond that, it's hard to say, but a lot of things went on!!

@rainyjane

In hindsight, what do you think about your stepfather being turned on by your bottom, by giving you an enema?

Does it upset you?

Does it turn you on?

Do you think he and your mom ever talked about him giving you an enema or was it just something he did, unspoken between them?

If you could, would you want to give him an enema?

Yes I am 99% sure. I never witnessed it (that is the 1% doubt) but the evidence was clear in our bathroom, which was shared by my whole family.

Yes I believe so. Enema bags were in every relatives bathrooms or linen closets if you went snooping.

As I have told elsewhere, my mom was a regular enema user, daily or every few days, was her usual routine. She worked as a sales lady in ladies stores and being somewhat "chubby" she wore restrictive undergarments and didn't want to take time off the floor to spend more than a few minutes in the bathroom. So,... most mornings started with an enema. She also gave them to me from the time I was born, and enemas were just a matter of daily routine. My father died when I was very young and she never remarried. The late night enema sessions I heard her doing must have had more than relief from constipation. Yes, I'm sure she derived some sexual satisfaction from enemas, and never discouraged me from using them either.

My mom took them often for constipation, but I don't think she used them sexually. It might have happened when I was out but not sure. I only remember my mom giving my dad one enema for severe constipation. He did not like it at all, I peeked through the partially open door. Pleasure was the last thing on his mind.

I think they enjoyed enemas they may be your parents but there sexual as all of us are . The bag was always wet and drying on the back of the bathroom door !

Thank you to all those that replied 🦘

I have always believed that my parent's relationship began as essentially platonic friendship. Then evolved from there into not directly sexual enemas and went step-by-step from there.

I will probably never know more than I do now about when and under what circumstances it went sexual, only that at some point it did!!

I think my parent's giving each other enemas began totally platonically.

Probably more out of curiosity than anything else.

It certainly evolved from there.

I don't think enemas and actual penetrative sex occurred in the same session.

Normally, enemas were given hands away from the sexual organs and in Mom's case her breasts as well.

With Mom it might have even had an element of eating disorders.