Masturbation Sleeves

Got my first tenga masturbator first use I'm confused not sure what does it feels like, 2nd use still confused. Any guide on how to use and feel about it? And I use both time with a cock ring

Fleshlights & other similar type toys seem to have mixed reviews here over the years. I did see a porn video once featuring an anal fleshlight. Has anyone tried a similar fake anus? In the absence of a willing woman wanting an anal fuck this seems to be my only option at the moment...just wonder if they're any good?

@alan20cm Everyone is different, and has different tastes. I have both the Texas tornado and savage from fleshlight as far as anal inserts go. I like both, but the tornado has become my favorite. The best advise I can give is to find one you think you might like, and spend the money to find out if you actually like it or not. Have at least a few sessions with whatever you get before you draw conclusions. Good luck.

I have a Fleshlight with a vagina shape. I was wondering if the "anal" Fleshlight variant feels differently, or it's just cosmetics.

I started with the Tenga Spinners, but they all were too rough on me -- even the "soft" ones. I then saw the Tenga 3D series and both the Zen and the Polygon are much smoother.

@Jacana The orifice vagina or butt is for esthetics more than anything else I believe, and I'm not the only one to think so judging from comments else where on the web. Yes, they can be a turn on, but I believe they're not what actually matters. What I believe actually does matter is the texture inside the sleeve. I believe the sleeve will determine more than the orifice what the experience is like. If you're into butts, grab whatever butt insert you think would turn you on. If your vagina insert does the job for you, then that's good.

Also, I would say the vagina orifices have more variety to them, because each vagina is different. The butt on the other hand not so much. Maybe a bit plumper or less so cheeks,and the crack between them. There's a limit on what they can do with the cheeks because of the constraints of the case, and the bigger end cap. The but crack itself is where most of the difference is on the butt inserts. Even there, it's just a crack with a tighter or slightly looser hole, and slight variations in the crack itself.

@longtoy The interior of the sleeve is the same?

Would the "anus" ending squeeze more?

I'm small. I've been into external catheters since I had to wear one when my hands were injured. I wore a 'medium' Urosheath, which is a thick vinyl condom with a tube molded on the end; I would pee into the Urosheath, attached to a leg bag for urine. As a teen I got erections and found that masturbating with it on was awesome; it was tight, slippery inside. Pressure and rubbing all over, especially nice on the glans, as opposed the the feeling only where the hand and fingers are. Just what a real vagina might feel like. I bought extra large which was better size for a full erection, and had the same feeling. These things would last a year. Can't get them anymore. Cook made a similar device, 'external catheter' of thick silicone. Won't wear out after seven years. I have two more.

I have never owned one but am considering it. I used one once as it was given to me to try. Enjoyed it very much but had a pre mature ejaculation!

I've never used one but I recently bought a fucking machine. I looked at a few options before I bought it and one of them came with a sleeve type attachment. Beginning to think I should have opted for that one rather than the one I bought, which has only dildo type attachments.

At the moment it is sitting in drydock waiting until my sub is free to test drive it.

I am really looking forward to using it on her.

@jacana

The interior of the sleeve is the same?

No, most sleeves have a unique texture. There are exceptions; if the insert is generic (I.E. not based on a adult film star) then they offer that insert in either orifice. However, since most of what they sell is based on adult film stars, each orifice has a unique texture.

Would the "anus" ending squeeze more?

While the anus is a bit tighter than the vagina, the squeeze effect is determined by the width and texture inside the sleeve, and on how tight or loose the small end cap is set. So, while the anus would maybe squeeze more upon initial entry, the orifice isn't what actually determins the squeeze effect.

Let me give an example, the Lisa Anne savage insert, and the STU insert. The STU insert has a tighter canal, and is a vagina. The savage insert has a wider canal, and is an anus. The STU provides a greater squeeze effect in my opinion than the savage does because of the width of the sleeve on the inside.

@longtoy The one I use is a generic vulva/vagina.

@Jacana

The one I use is a generic vulva/vagina.

I assume you mean the pink lady. That one has a smooth sleeve. I don't own that one. If that works for you, then that's great. If you're wondering what else they have because you're not entirely satisfied with the pink lady, then I would encourage you to do your own research, and try a texture which you think you would enjoy. There isn't a perfect one fits all out there. What I like, someone else might not, and vise versa. I'm not sure if we're allowed to post links here. I could point you at a couple of sites with fleshlight reviews. If you're interested, private message me.

Over the last several years I have been experimenting with different toys, always looking for something more stimulating as I get older. As of late, my favorite sleeve is a toy like this one from AliExpress: https://www.aliexpress.us/item/3256801422704552.html. It has a nice ribbed and nubby inside. Put a little water based lube in it, slide it on and insert my scrotum through the stretchy hole which holds it on. Of course, my poor little scrotum is then hanging out there feeling neglected so it needs a little attention too. I slip on one of these Oxball Sacksling clones with estim electrodes to provide stimulation to the testicles: https://www.aliexpress.us/item/3256806980120179.html (I use this estim controller: https://www.aliexpress.us/item/3256804350698219.html). At that point I just fire up my Hitachi Magic Wand and use it to provide penis stimulation while sliding the sleeve up and down. I find it very enjoyable. It is very easy to cleanup afterwards as it can be flipped inside out for cleaning.

My current favorite is a Hello Cake vibrating sleeve intimate massager. It can be used as a great feeling enhancement to using your hand on your shaft, or I actually like to just set the underside of my glans at the frenulum on top of a nub at the end of it, turn on the vibration pretty high and go hands free with it wrapped around my shaft. I pretty much always cum within a minute (or less) using it that way, not very good stamina I know but I just can’t resist and hold back against the lovely feeling it’s giving me. I purchased some delay spray to try with it, so we’ll see how that turns out. Ultimately I’d like to find a partner who likes masturbation both with and without sleeves as much as I do so we could have fun on each other.

I had one once, wasn't crazy about it, just something else to clean up. Now I just lay back in bed and do my thing with Rosie palm and her 5 friends. I wipe the cum off my belly with a paper towel, then go to bathroom and finish with a washcloth.

Have a favorite short one --use it in the shower --mornings--easy clean up after used--easy to get it--kept in the bathroom--but the other is a Fleshlight--has a suction cup to attach it to the wall--hands free going at it--just like doing someone ---both have advantages and disadvantages--depends on what way your looking to get off--but both work well--dam now im thinking I need one today--

Agree with @mike45 it's yet another thing to clean up.

Over the years I have had several, Fleshlight, Tenga, and some generic ones. They all felt better than just masturbating with my hand. It does require cleanup and lube. I like to position it on the bed at an angle with a pillow and then be on top of it like missionary sex. I think that gives the best feeling and much better than just using my hand.

I just purchased another Hello Cake sleeve, a Stroker Double Sided Men's Personal Massager off the shelf at a CVS. I love that it is soft & squishy, and thus should be perfect for the aggressive use I Intend for it. As an aside, I think it would be great to share a toy like this with another man, with us both using it immediately after one another and exchanging our releases.

I’ve tried a couple of sleeves and other male,toys, and basically been disappointed with them. Strongest orgasms I’ve had are solo or by or my wifes hand or orifices or her fingers. Just recently bought a very pleasurable toy I’ll post about in another thread!

I've used one on my husband, it came in a couple's dirty weekend toy set that we bought from Love honey. He said it was very aggressively tight and he finished probably quicker than I've ever seen him finish. Its been in the drawer unused for a long time now. I know his favourite way to cum is fucking me, if I'm giving him a BJ I know he is just itching to roll me over and get on top. I have to make it pretty clear when I want to take him all the way with my mouth.

I recently picked up the Hung UFO Male Trainer. The sleeve itself is textured well and pretty tight. I have to lube my cock up pretty well for it to be able to slip in properly. It has two pretty decently sized vibrating motors and also does suction instead of stroking. It's definitely a longer draw out than just stroking (or what I imagine a stroking masturbator would do) but I haven't cum so hard I doubled over in a while, so it's certainly doing its job.

I have used the fleshlight in the past, and really really loved it. The other one I used is the vibrating stroker from cake. This one was okay. the vibration aspect was pleasant, but I feel like the texturing of the sleeve wasn't for me personally. I will also echo that lubricant is super important with any sex toy, even if its just a hitachi wand you are using.