Does anyone know how to truely lose bladder control

Hi i was wondering if any one knows how to lose bladder control completly

I understant that if you wear 24/7 and don't allow yourself to use the toilet, you eventually will unpotty train yourself.

Hey dlboy whats up? as far as becoming truly incontinent be carefull what you wish for. I and a few others here are and let me tell you its not as much fun as you think it would be. Theres the diaper rash problem thats a reality,along with the smell sometimes of urine on you however much you bathe sometimes it just smells. And of course the mental aspect of being in diapers 24-7 dosent do much for your ego. Also the embaressment of being caught in public as much as i dont care what people think deep inside i realy do. And of course good luck finding a partnner who dosent mind you wear them. i have above average looks and never have a problem meeting woman but when it comes to the sexual part then what? Well me and others here have to explain to them were diaperd for medical reasons and hope they dont laugh at us or run away. I am not mad at anyone who wants to be diaperd 24-7 but do so willingly not because you have too. To be diaperd 24-7 becuse you have to be is not fun in fact it sucks but its life and we deal with it. So enjoy your diapers because you like them not becuse you need them. On behalf of me and the rest of us who need them for real we are not mad at you just think if you know the real deal its not as much fun as one might imagine. Sincerly,momasboy

I agree with mamasboy-- being truly incontinent can have severe drawbacks,so

you may not want to go that route. maybe just have fun for now and give it more

more thought-- have fun

If you realy want to go all the way to being like a baby try this i was in an accident and my spine was ripped apart leaving me in a wheelchair (buggy) i have no sensation in lower body so dont even know if im wet, a bit drastic but guess im as close as anyone can get to being a baby again, I even need someone to look after me and most of my fluid intake is via a sippy cup.

Do not hold your pee just let it go every little urge you get. if you want to speed up the procces then push out pee every 10 minutes and drink lots of fluid

This may sound odd coming from someone who has admitted on many occasions that they want to lose all nighttime control of their bladder, but, a few people here have a point are you sure you fully understand what it means to become bladder incont full time. You will have to be careful while changing or you may end up wetting where you are. plus 24/7 use can lead to diaper rash if you arent careful. plus a couple people have mentioned being in public and having the one they are wearing start to leak. and what if you are traveling and get randomly selected for a search? It would be better to just wear use and pretend it is by accident during the day. Honestly would you want to risk being somewhere with out a diaper such as a beach swimming and wet yourself while sitting and eating lunch or while waiting after eating lunch. I have thought about what it would mean to get to where i want to be and know the downsides and have fully decided it is TRULY what i want. i am not telling you to give up on the idea just to do some research and ask questions so you know what you are getting yourself into before you do something that could take quite a while to reverse if it even can be reversed.

Hi i am new to this sight i have fooled around with diapers for some time maby 10-15 yrs and also fooled around with cathiters trying to make me incontinet for a while at first i could not get any of the small tubes i was using to stay in place till i started using a fairly short tube with a barb like shape on one end and ball on the outher once the tube was in place with barb end in my bladder and ball end at the base of my member i would have no control of my pee and nothing showing outside and what a feeling when jerking off semen is blocked so it goes into the bladder i do not recomend trying this risk uti or getting something stuck in there i had to go to hospital to have a tube removed no fun and hard to explain hometool

To think you would like to be totally incontinent is fun when you are horny, however, after your climax - guess what - you would still be totally incontinent, and then the cleanup, Go to work - totally incontinent - cleanup....not as fun as i thought...oops - still totally incontinent...cleanup - man -this is getting old...can't wait until I'm horny again... cleanup...maybe it will still be fun???

I would think hard and long before I would try it...

It is a nice fantasy though... 😉

I think we need to define things here. Incontinence would be irreversable loss of control either by muscle/nerve damage or defects. Nocturnal Enuresis aka bedwetting, the inability to wake up and/or hold it during the night. Finally what I am doing is 'diaper training' basically the reverse of potty training, I'm not trying to undo something but rather become accustomed to something new. Conditioning my mind down to the subconscious level and/or reflex level that when I need to go I go automatically. So far getting pretty good at it. Just stay in diapers all the time and wait for the results, that simple (or complicated?).

I suffer from back nerve damage and believe me incontinence is no joke when i first thought something was up it was a dribble here and there but over the few months it drags you down like being drowned i used to buy them my self but when it happened more and more i phoned incontinence nurse in uk next day appointment full questionair and doctor aprovall now i get pads for day time and tabbed incontinence for night it aint no fun you can be out shopping and no warning each day im more incontnent so please think about it i would love to be normal again

Just wear nappies all the time and never hold your pee just let it flow every time you feel the slightest need to urinate. And above all don't force it just let what flows out easily flow. This will slowly weaken your control and you will become incontinent.