How's everyone else fair finding patients or stething partners

I find it hard where I am (NYC) finding female play patients .Men are interested however I am not interested in men but please note I have nothing but love and respect for all orientations shape size and color .But we all have have our preference you know what I mean .I anyway there is one woman I know that I havehad play exams but she only does it she apease me not because she enjoys it . I would to find a woman who shares the enjoyment of an examination and especially auscultation as all of us here I can safely say we enjoy . You would think living where I do it wouldn't be that hard to find but I haven't found anything as of yet .of course there are Fetish providers and what not and there seems to be an endless supply of that here however I don't feel the need to pay a large sum of money to someone. Bleh. And sugestions friends ?