Chastity Harmful for Prostate?

I have to admit that sometimes I get aroused by the idea of being teased and denied by a dominant woman, and being "required" to service her orally and "forbidden" to have orgasms of my own, to keep me horny and desperate to please her.

I guess I would like to be in a submissive role. But I have read that a male needs to have orgasms at least a few times a week to maintain prostate health, and in fact frequent orgasms eliminate the risk of prostate cancer.

So what can you do? This seems to mean that chastity is something that a man should never attempt in real life. Or would the substitution of prostate massage and/or being pegged compensate?

(By the way- I am not interested in chastity devices. I was just wondering about teasing and denial, chastity without the devices. When I first heard of chastity devices, I suspected that any prolonged prevention of erections leads to erectile dysfunction. Sure enough, I looked it up and read that the lack of circulation to the penis in a device causes the tissue to atrophy and the penis eventually shrinks more and more and loses the ability to become erect. I realize that this does appeal to some people, and to them I say whatever gets you excited. But personally, the idea of constantly wearing a chastity device does not float my boat because it involves the loss of the ability for the boat to float in the first place.)

In the real world of chastity, the man is allowed to ejaculate periodically. In the real world of physiology, a man will ejaculate periodically, like it or not. It's a nocturnal emission.

This is necessary for the heath of the prostate. Being a spongy gland, it tends to trap old secretions which will lead to prostatitis and/or a bacterial infection. Periodic natural flushing by keeping it exercising will usually diminish the untoward occurrences. Of course, the older (bigger) the prostate is, the less effective the flushing may be.

Thanks for the answer Jds. I just think that if prostate health requires at least a few orgasms/ ejaculations per week, nocturnal emissions would not compensate for a lack of doing so. Nocturnal emissions do not typically happen to a person nearly so often.

Thanks for the answer Jds. I just think that if prostate health requires at least a few orgasms/ ejaculations per week, nocturnal emissions would not compensate for a lack of doing so. Nocturnal emissions do not typically happen to a person nearly so often.

Think of them as the body's emergency pressure relief valve.

H C, I am in a similar situation as you—teased and denied orgasms for a period of time without any device being employed.

We like relatively tame bondage with sex. My wife restrains me in a chair or spread eagle on the bed and then proceeds to edge me for literally an hour or more. She works me up and lets me cool down just so she can take me back to the edge again. While I am cooling down she sits and reads her Kindle, completely ignoring me—sometimes until I beg her to touch me again. She of course prefers when I am spread eagle because a couple times during the teasing she sits on a happy face until I bring her to an orgasm. If she has worked it right I am finally left with blue balls and a very full prostate.

This activity is not an all the time thing—if it were the only way I could keep my hands off it afterwards is being locked up. The longest we have gone with this is a couple weeks at a time. A few times I had sort of cloudy urine the next morning, according to research that is likely semen that black flowed into the bladder. Even with that I have had no bad effects. Last prostate exam and PSA test I was in great shape. And if it means anything, a couple months ago she miscalculated and edged a little too long—I blasted her chest like a fire hose. Absolutely no problem ejaculating at all!

The atrophy angle I don’t think will work like what you may have read. The penis is not a muscle, muscles atrophy from lack of use. The prostate may need to be dumped out occasionally but it is a gland not a muscle either. Having been a swimmer in high school I can tell you if you don’t work a muscle for a week and try to compete you can tell immediately you have lost muscle strength.

Maybe someone like Swithablesusie with a medical background can give you a more technical explanation. I think Jds4med has an actual real medical background also and he seems to follow somewhat along the lines what I have said.

I have been told by my doctor ejaculation is great for prostate. You need to beat it more often just for health. It lowers chance of cancer he said by 50 percent or more

The prostate, while not a muscle, has muscles that contract it and the seminal vesicles during ejaculation. You gotta use it to keep it healthy. These are smooth muscles, not the striated skeletal muscles. Exercise of these is very different. They're not under conscious control. They're the same kind of muscles in your gut or arteries.

The penis is also not a muscle but it can and does atrophy from disuse. After prostate surgery where the nerves that allow erection are traumatized, the urologist will often prescribe penile rehabilitation. That entails creating an erection by one of 3 main methods, vacuum, oral drugs or injected drugs. The idea is to stave off atrophy, especially of the arteries and erectile chambers, by disuse. In a healthy man, even if you don't have sex or masturbate, you have between 3 and 5 erections every night during sleep. Without working nerves, this doesn't happen. You have to simulate that during the time the nerves are healing.

Tease and denial is great fun, but it is imperative that ejaculation take place for male prostate health! I always aim to ejaculate every other day.

Some get around this by having the prostate milked which doesn't induce ejactulation but provides a relief for the fluid that is produced.

It's still possible (although difficult) to reach orgasm with a chastity device on. This is my preferred way of cumming - the sting of the cage offers such a brutal denial of an orgasm's pleasure.

'Milking' the prostate is also acceptable, but requires one to wear the chastity long enough for enough semen to build-up for a proper draining.

Although shrinkage is possible, it's not permanent. The penis is not a muscle, so it does not atrophy. It may take some days after wearing for an extended period of time to achieve a full erection, but as long as you are still getting erections in or out of the cage every once in a while, there shouldn't be any problems.

Just to pick up on a couple of points: I recently spent 3 months in complete chastity (without a device, but with lots of erections) and did not have any nocturnal emissions - i'm mid-sixties, and suspect it is an age thing, as well as varying between individuals.

However, I do think it is a good idea to keep things 'in working order', which I now do.

The cancer thing? I can't recall the exact details of the study, but I think it was about men in their 20's - how often they orgasmed, and their cancer rates later in life. Maybe there are other studies - please don't take my word for it!

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Milk the prostate every couple weeks.

I have heard arguments on both sides of the fence - men need to have orgasms to be healthy or that this is just an urban myth.

The main argument in favour of orgasms is largely around prostatic fluid going 'stale', so to speak, and that it needs to be flushed out to keep the area in God condition. I think a prostate milking would provide adequate fluid movement to avoid any non-orgasmic risk associated with chastity, caged or otherwise.

With regards to penile atrophy if one were to be caged this can easily be overcome with regular unlocking for prolonged teasing and edging sessions. The chastised male should be restrained securely and then his cage or belt removed. His captor can then spend as long as is desired getting the male hard, bringing them close to orgasm as many times as they want. This is exquisite torture, especially after a prolonged period of no orgasm. Ice can then be applied to shrink the penis back down to a size where it can be locked away again.

This can be done on a daily basis if desired. It is a sure fire way to drive a man insane. He will offer to anything to orgasm after a month or so of this kind of treatment!