Which is more painful

Is it more painful to get spanked and then caned or caned and then spanked and the same with being paddled

The flat objects (hand, paddle) tend to sensitize the skin. Caning will take advantage of that tender skin.

I find that being spanked first warms up my hiney, then a caning will hurt less..but that's just me...

Canning hurts more,

Spanking and paddling have the same type of effect. I would agree that they make all of your ass more sensitive, and therefore would make caning hurt more afterwards than if you had been caned on a "fresh" bum.

I was paddled thru high school by my dad on the bare butt---It was typical in our era--At 16 my best friends dad took us camping--for serious disobedience he cut a switch and switched both of us bare assed it hurt way more than the paddle---It was the one and only time I was 'switched' and it hurt alot. i was gratreful he did not tell my dad he had to give me a switch on the camping trip

I have found,for me, I start with a heavy swade flogger to get the blood flowing to wake-up the nerves. I then switch to a paddle to sensitize the area. Making it cherry red. Then the cane. Rattan first then the delin cane witch is very nasty! I love/hate the cane !

I think the order is irrelevant although my mistress begin the punishment with the less painful spanking instrument

Ellie hime, Why don't you try both and report back. What people like and don't like varies from one person to another. For me, I want no part of either scenario, but would be curious about your preferences after you try both.

Does it hurt more to get caned before or after getting paddled

It hurts more to get caned before being paddled because each cane hit hurts/injures a line of tissue. If you are paddled first, a large area gets desensitized from the hits.

You will have more tissue damage/marking if you get paddled first because the capillaries get inflamed, engorged and reddened and more easily broken by caning, resulting in black and blue marks from the caning.

When our daughters were much younger and were at sleep away camp my husband and I used to do pretty severe corporal punishment over the summers.

I would stick to a good paddling but that's just me

From my own point of view, a paddling and a caning are two separate and distinct punishments. Paddling can be titillating, playful or any range from uncomfortable to quite painful. A caning, on the other hand, means business... usually a punishment for something really naughty, not for fun. Of course a practiced administrator can use a cane over a wide range of sensations, but for most of us the cane is used in answer to something really bad that we have said or done. Using both the cane and the paddle suggests incompetence on the part of the disciplinarian. One or the other, depending on the situation.

. . . .Using both the cane and the paddle suggests incompetence on the part of the disciplinarian. One or the other, depending on the situation.

Not at all.

I have been spanked with a belt, a trap, a switch, a paddle and a cane. When I was a teen my stepmother usually used a strap and it hurt. I had to bend over a chair or lie on the bed with pillows under me to get my butt up She'd give me anywhere from 5 to 25 depending on what I had done. At the school we attended the headmistress used a strap and a cane and I got the cane once and it hurt more than the strap.

Now I'm in a relationship and my girlfriend decided to spank me for something I did. I'm fairly submissive so I allowed it. The first time she made me bend over and used a belt. The she bought a switch and a strap and uses them as it suits her. The worst is the cane. Then the switch and then the belt or strap. Now she has told me she's going to feminize me.

A good caning (more than love taps) leaves unmistakeable tram stripes that are raised some and sore. There is no numbing sensations with a caning.

Paddling on top of the caning is intense!

With paddling, the whole area heats up and if hard enough can cause a degree of numbing.

Either way, while after paddling a cane can certainly hurt, it is not as much as the cane first.

At least this has been my experience.

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