Role Play & Male Mentoring For Adult Boys

Taking time to develop our roles is one of the most important things we can do in advance of actually meeting. From that point it is a matter of fine tuning them and allowing them to evolve from where we start naturally. Call it mental foreplay or what you like, this is the key to creating anticipation and excitement leading up to a very intense get-togethers. A little nervousness on both of our parts is part of actual discovery and is natural. However performance anxiety can be avoided by assuring each other of what our intentions and expectations are before we actually get together for the first time. This leads up to the possibility of something magical happening when we both feel the rightness of getting together. So uncertainty needs to be overcome first which can only happen through getting to know each other before taking the next step to meet. This way there little , if any, risk taken in the beginning. However, we both already know those main interests we mutually share. So by the time we are ready,we shall both feel very certain it's the time to take the next step and get together. The more we are willing to share our fantasies, hopes and desires (as well as any apprehensions) from the outset, the sooner our roles will co-creatively evolve into those we can both feel are truly real for us and can be for each other in playing them together. It has been said that the greatest----happens in the mind. However, I feel it takes two minds together with their bodies to make it real. Looking forward to knowing your thoughts about this subject.

That's interesting. I have had a few older 'mentor' types in my love life. I always find that while I really enjoy it when in the heat of the moment, the role play can't really extend to the rest of our relationship. I'm too anti-authoritarian and hot-tempered haha.