Perineal Massage

I don't know whether this has been explored in another post or not, but has any guy's here ever experimented with massaging their perineum, (the area between the scrotum and anus) either during an enema, holding suppositories or whatever.

I have done this a few times and have actually brought on an amazing orgasm without having to touch my penis at all. Just a curiosity as I think it's an underrated area to explore.

The perineum is indeed an area sensitive to massage. Aside from massaging the prostate gland via the anus it's frequently a site used for external prostate massage and some practitioners will only do this.

However the location of the prostate gland is less easily found externally and the massage needs to be much firmer.

The perineum also contains the base of the penis and the urethra.

For me this is pleasurable but no where near as pleasurable as direct prostate massage.

If you are getting a BJ or handjob then some gentle massage in this area will certainly add something to the pleasurable sensations but I think it would be pretty hard to reach orgasm just by massaging perineum alone. At least for me that is the case.

Personally, I enjoy full body touch/massage. Perineum included.

Well I do know also the massaging of the Perineum can make things feel very GOOD down their . I found this out while going to the lady colon therapist . I first got her to do a good lubing of my rectum before the colonic . Then I later ask her if she would massage my prostate some before the colonic which she did . As she was massaging my prostate one time . She suddenly used her thumb to massage my perineum at the same time as my prostate ! Well I can tell you it sent me OVER THE EDGE ! In no time I was SHOOTING a load ! Good I loved her for that . An I TRULLY MISS HER !

I intend to explore this idea and get back to this thread.

I like what Ron just explained about it, which might be easily done with a modest enema sorting things out already. I should know about this, but honestly, I am practiced at keeping my enema more mental than physical, believe it or not. That way, when I am treating people, I have a better sense of where they are at, in their receiving.

Underrated and overlooked are two words I'd apply and then I'd apply some real attention to exploring this particularly sensitive area of the body. Some of the most stimulating and pleasurable sensations are to be found and enjoyed in this external site which connects the whole male erogenous zone. Massage here as well as the internal prostate and external genitals for the ultimate G spot experience.

I will massage the perineum sometimes while I masturbate. Often times I will put firm pressure on it. This does a couple of things. First, it somewhat ocludes the urethra so less ejaculate and somewhat delayed, but because of this can increase the overall time and pleasurability of climax. It also can help maintain a firmer erection because less blood will circulate out of the penis as you are putting pressure on some of the bigger vessels. Also as we said you can externally stimulate the prostate there. That is my understanding of some of the science - correct me if I am wrong.

On rare occasion, the sawdust located in my head moves around a bit and allows a cogent thought to escape; in this case it was a complete idea. Some times I amaze myself. While taking a 3 quart ivory soap enema in the knee/chest position, I reached between my legs to deepen the nozzle a little and rubbed against the perineum. That's all it took. Been massaging that wonderfully sensitive area ever since. Why don't they give us instructions for our body? We wouldn't waste so much time exploring!!!

It's great to see that others are finding and /or exploring this area, to me anything that enhances my satisfaction in a session is worth trying.

As gape said," Why don't they give us instructions for our bodies".

The exploring is part of the fun! 😃

Rowen

Sexploration is a real part of person and can become shared erotic exploration. To some extent (possibly the greater one) all parts of the body eventually become sexually energized and sensitive to touch between persons who go deeply into their own erotic sensitivities while sharing them with another person with whom some degree(s) of real affection begins to create a greater bond than a purely sexual union

I enjoy having my perineum rubbed. I don't generally do it myself when masturbating but do enjoy it as part of a sensual massage. The sensation of direct massage of my anus is much more stimulating though and I often feel myself moving around so my anus is targeted for massage after several minutes of perineal massage.

On rare occasion, the sawdust located in my head moves around a bit and allows a cogent thought to escape; in this case it was a complete idea. Some times I amaze myself. While taking a 3 quart ivory soap enema in the knee/chest position, I reached between my legs to deepen the nozzle a little and rubbed against the perineum. That's all it took. Been massaging that wonderfully sensitive area ever since. Why don't they give us instructions for our body? We wouldn't waste so much time exploring!!!

Because the church would write the book - they already did - DON'T TOUCH!

I discovered massaging the perineum many years ago and incorporate it in my solo play as well as play exams. The sensations just add to the overall experience.

Any time I take an enema in the knee-chest position, I always find myself giving this area special attenttion. It varies from soft light stroking to more direct pressure massage. Sometimes I'll even grasp and pump the entire area like an extension of my cock - it builds a wonderful erection.

I've just recently gotten my wife to realize this is a hot switch when she gives me hand jobs. Attention to this area makes my erections reach maximum potential and the ensuing orgasms much more eventful.

I find this area to be one of the most sensitive of my body. Massaging it always heightens what ever I am doing.

If I am masturbating, I sometimes move to my testicles and the perineum for light touch to "slow things down." Sometimes if my wife is giving me head, she will lick down the shaft, suck and lick the scrotum, and the perineum. Sometimes if she is doing a handjob, she will start fondling that area and I take over the stroking if her hand gets tired.

No matter when it happens, it's all good.

Great thread.

The perineum is called by a few names: 'Taint' your scrotum, and 'taint your anus is one. Another descriptive term is "the hidden three inches of your penis."

Either tag is apt. It is an area rich in nerve endings and perhaps as 'taboo' as the genitals and anus themselves. (According to the Church et al.)

In doing whole body energy / massage treatment I suggest to clients that we include that area in the overall treatment. (Not always 'legal' in some jurisdictions and with some professional ethical rules, but with the intention of removing blockages to energy flow, in my practice, definitely OK with me IF IT IS OK WITH THE CLIENT.) This is not sex for money! In fact, I encourage guys to do a Tantric big draw and retain the energy for use in whatever way they want rather than have a 'happy ending' and experience the little death.''

In any case, since humans are embodied and, by nature, sexed beings, to deny oneself the pleasure which is our heritage would seem to annoy Mother Nature - or to piss off the gods/goddesses - whatever your view of the Kosmos happens to be. 😃

Just my $.02

Dr. D - AKA e-chuck and a few other names.

This is interesting. I have really never thought of that area when I masturbate. I have held on to my testicles with my fingers and my hand has rested on that area but I never thought of actually massaging or pressing down on that area at all before. I will definitely start rubbing that area next time I masturbate and see what feelings it gives me. I have always been caught up on the penis and testicles and never even thought of that area. Always something new to learn and try. Great! Thanks

I massage my husbands perineum in preparation for milking his prostate rectally. Some men, including my husband, are a little apprehensive when they're about to be penetrated rectally, especially with a female's finger. I've massaged my husband's prostate dozens of times, and he's still a little edgy when I'm about to go inside him. It's a vulnerability phobia that a lot of guys initially have trouble with on each occasion of being penetrated. That's why perineum stimulation and massage is so important. You're near his anus without going inside him, yet still giving him somewhat less direct stimulation of the prostate. Some other women can probably tell you this, but a guy's perineum goes from being firm to softer with repeated massages of the area. It's a sensitive spot for most men, and it might hurt a little the first few times he's massaged there, but arousal in the are starts to feel more intense over time. Perineum massage isn't going to feel nearly as good on his prostate as it does going up his butt with a finger. It's just that perineum stimulation prepares him for being penetrated by your finger.

I agree, it is an underrated area that is indeed highly sensitive and most often neglected by most men. Most men actually do find this area to be highly erotic to them when it is massaged. So, men, try massaging that area and come to your own conclusions.

I used a Hitachi vibrator in my perineal area once while masturbating. My cum was the stuff of dreams it felt so good.

hankb

I dont play with this area, but my wife does - it's so sensitive, that it takes many tries just to start, it simply tickles so much, that I can't stand it! But after some time, combined with a blowjob... Man! Never felt more pleasure than that! Absolutely awesome!

Wow. Just tried a firm massage there and I can feel the butt plug I'm wearing. Why haven't I tried that before? Prostate is up in there so should be able to hit it from both sides. Feels good. Next time I do an enema I'll try and see how it feels to massage the perineum area.

Love it!Jim.

I've tried to massage my perineum before and even just the slightest pressure gets uncomfortably painful for me pretty quick if I'm aroused. Almost the same sort of pain that you get if you slip off your bicycle pedals and catch the cross bar. That said, direct prostate stimulation rectally isn't uncomfortable at all for me. Go figure.

Just a curiosity as I think it's an underrated area to explore.

I've had a few Chinese 'Health massages' where the masseuse gave me a lengthy and very pleasant perineum massage. She started out gingerly and carefully, gauging what I thought of what she was doing, lightly and quickly brushing by the area, giving it a quick squeeze or push. She also asked if I liked it and made some sort of comment which I took to mean that not all clients appreciated being massaged there. Silly clients. When she saw I truly was into this kind of massage, she said some stuff about the real health advantages while giving me a very deep and straightforward treatment there.

My wife tickles me and sort of massages me there (I say sort of because it's not like she claims she's a masseuse).

If my partner and I are having sex lying on our sides, (which is less strenuous, and which we seem to do more and more), I will sometimes swing my outer leg over her leg. This allows her to reach down and gently caress that region. It often helps me orgasm, and if not, it is still a most pleasant sensation.

Doing it to myself doesn't seem to have much effect.