Bored & Tired of a Fetish

Have any of you been into a fetish for a while, and then give it up because one gets bored with it, find it's too much trouble, or tired of it? After 4 years of using Foley catheters I tapered off. I couldn't take them out and re-insert over a couple hours, so it was difficult to exercise. Even plugging it up was hazardous because of leaks around the balloon. Eventually I became bored to not use them regularly. If I have a couple days on low activity scheduled, I might used one. Only used one twice in the last 4 months, leaving them in 2-4 days.

Maybe overindulgence of just about anything, food, drink, smoking, sex, watching movies or whatever, causes a lack of interest. That's probably why someone invented all those sayings about moderation ...

I think the interest in a particular fetish will vary in strength from time to time, it must be subject to other issues, work, stress illness etc.

I agree with Rockdoc above; well stated.

Personally speaking, I go in peaks and troughs with all my various kinks. At some times I can't have enough enemas, at others try don't even cross my mind. The same with getting totally dressed up in rubber. It takes me a while to totally dress if I'm going all out and the prospect of it can be a real faff. Especially the cleaning up afterwards when I have to wash all y rubber wear and then dry it off. If you've ever had to wash an dry a rubber catsuit you'll agree it can be time consuming.

That said, I've never found the effort to not be worth it in te end, even if I wasn't that enthused to begin.

Follow the full moon cycle and its effects on your life and fetish interest. It should be highest the week leading to one and then crash. My bodywork practice also followed this pattern.

Mmmm ^^^ And if one is in Sync with their SO / Partner...Limitless..I hardly think one would get Bored....Cum to think of it that's the result....If ya get the drift.

@ that australian could not agree more... the right partner keeps ones interest in the fetish and with an active imagination....bored? Never with my guy. In my past over time sex can ebb and flow....but just like riding a horse (or a cowboy).....once you mount up it all cums back...

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When you have a few fetishes & a strong sex drive, you can keep mixing it up to keep it fresh. You can take a break from one to engage in another. You can gravitate to whatever you're in the mood for that day.

If you get bored with something, don't do it.

Problem solved.

No psycho mumbo jumbo needed.

On this issue I agree with susie, just let it go.

If you get bored with something, don't do it.

Or rather, just let it rest until you get the urge again. That happens with me all the time and not just with the kind of stuff we discuss on zity, but with all kinds of interests. At some point, for no discernible reason there is just no more interest in that particular activity. So I drop it, don't think about it and immerse myself in something else.

Sooner or later the interest will come back. Unexpectedly usually, out of the blue. Anything at all can appear to trigger renewed interest.

Just don't try to force things, cause that never really works.

This has absolutely happened to me with another fetish of mine (non medfet related) and I was really obsessed with it for years and then I just got bored with it and haven't explored it for a couple years. I may never again, or in a year I may go back to it again. Sex and sexuality for me at least are fluid things and have changed and will change again I imagine.

Me get tired of my fetishes?? Never.......

Over my many years, my fetishes have blossomed into larger kinks.

Not exactly bored...there are just so many enjoyable little quirks to chose from that I can no longer decide which I enjoy most! LOL what a great problem!

That Australian is spot on. If your SO/partner is game, bring something else to the table, er, bed. Read erotic stories, see some videos, Give it a break, give yourself a break.

I some time do my fetish and some time I do not do my fetish at all,, and I know I don't feel like it some time ,,,,,,,

The first post here said that being bored and tired of a fetish was mainly due to its inconvenience- the fetish in question was catheters. I think I would never bother with catheters. It seems inconvenient to me as well. Perhaps this is a case of something that once had an appeal but turned out to be more of a hassle than it was worth.

I think it only natural that our interest waxes and wanes at times in whatever our interest are be it fetish or non fetish, it just human nature . When something is new and exciting our interest are peaked , as time goes by as others have suggested you need to add to it in order to sustain that same level of zeal and enthusiasm.

This can be done by using diffident equipment, new techniques , chatting and involving others, new scenarios , adding other aspects or combining fetishes. The possibilities are limitless , all you need is time and patience and an understanding that at times it does waxes and wanes

The SO and I go through phases of playing in the exam room and playing with toys, and just playing. The exam room is not really heated unless we fire up the heater in there in the winter. Last winter we did that a couple of times, but we generally make the most use of that in the spring and summer. In the fall and winter we go around playing with toys.

When it starts to get old, we move on to something else.

Though I have been interested, or have had a fetish for enemas for 67 years, I have had times in which I almost lost interest in enemas though I read everything I could find on them, just didn't take actual enemas. Then came the movies, then the videos and now the dvd's and the internet so my fetish came roaring back. My age has slowed me down somewhat but my mind is still very active. The slack periods were filled by other things in my life but the fetish was always there. In fact, I wish I were down in Florida now, attending the efest with the finest enema nurse in the USA, Nurse Carrie. I will be there in spirit but for the people who attend, tell us all about it, share pictures. So, as you can see, this website is very important to me and thanks to the people who contribute to it and especially to the people who post actual pictures of themselves or their friends. Long live Zity!!

I've found that content available IA all generaly the same stuff over and over agian making not as interesting to watch. But in real like when I'm being catheterized or given an enema I'm still in love with it. So I guess it's like baseball to me know. Not fun to watch on TV but go to game and it's really fun again.

I have several fetishes. My main one is a medfet: the patient needing to wear a mask to protect her medically. But I have plenty of others in varying degrees: cable knit tights, mary janes, certain kinds of sleepwear. Masks can be combined with any of these.

My very first medical fetish was actually seeing a girl be given the "black beauty" anesthesia mask. Over the years, that has waned, but never gone. Same with every single other fetish I have. You go through phases of oversaturation with a particular fetish, and then burn out.

But then, give yourself time and it might come back. I was just watching a girl on YouTube have a feeding tube (?

GJ?) replaced. It was done in Radiology, and she was laying down with a mask being firmly held on her face the whole time to give her anesthetic. It was a clear mask---somewhat big on her face but not too big--- with clear tubing, as black beauties seem rare anymore. It was a turn on. She was just relaxed, laying down in her pajamas, mask being pressed to her face, breathing visibly.

I've never felt in danger of losing my fetishes, although I do admit hoping I'm right, sometimes. Just gotta recognize the burnout, like when you've played a song on Spotify too much consecutively. You just move on from that song to another one you've liked for ten years, but haven't listened to in 6 months.

Or in my case, looking at pics of a lung transplant patient in her 3M respirator---being replaced by watching another girl get anesthesia through another kind of mask, something I liked a lot way back in the day. Apparently, I still do, if the girl (patient) is right.

Medfet did get boring for a while but I seem to be back on track thanks to this site.