The never ending search

It is so frustrating to have such a strong desire for enema play, but simply not be able to find someone that will join in those desires. I have searched and searched. The desire is so strong. It's hard to believe that no one in my area would not have the same desires and be willing to play. I would be perfectly okay with simply taking turns at administering. Admittedly, I do have a very submissive side, but I also understand that others have the same desires that I have, and would want to feel the same things that I desire. I certainly don't have a problem with satisfying those needs. On the other hand, if someone wants to take full control of me and do as they please I am all for that as well (actually, that would be so wonderful). I love things medical and would love to locate someone that is knowledgeable and wishes to have a very compliant patient. Well, I continue to search. If anyone has any suggestions for finding someone I would love to hear from you. Signed - Frustrated

I agree that it is really difficult to find another person for enema play, in my case, a woman in this area. Many fantasies, no reality. Years ago, I almost connected with a willing person while I was at a meeting in Orlando, but it never happened.

As a gay man who came out at age 18, which has been 33 years ago, I've met a lot of men, had a lot of fun, but in that time only met a handful who enjoyed enemas and would play!!!

Yes, it always seems one is always living in the wrong area where their are others with similar interests, whether it be enemas, med play, kink, or anything else. It is either that or people are just too afraid to live out their fantasies and interests.

I have no clue how to find a woman for enema play. In the past it has occurred naturally as part of a relationship. I wish it were easier!

I know how you feel. I want someone to"play" with so badly!!! Seems that I am just in the wrong place!

If you've tried everything, including online dating / meet-up groups for kinksters, or maybe you live in too small a town, you might consider meeting with an experienced Dominatrix. These are the real ones now, not the fake kind that also do other services listed on Craigslist or Backpage but the ones who are truly dedicated in the BDSM lifestyle. These ladies are quite familiar with the klismo desire (actually very common in their world) and usually both talented and well-equipped. Imagine if you could have the sublimely strict company of someone as experienced and kinky as SwitchableSusie for an hour or two. It might set you back with some resources but at the end of that time, it might just be worth it to take off the edge and really enjoy yourself for once. There are also whole underground societies dedicated to BDSM and which wouldn't involve you opening your wallet except possibly for paying dues to a club, bringing refreshments to a meet-up or something. Worth looking into - I did, survived and loved it...Another box checked...