Hello, young lady. I am glad you posed the question, because we are all very interested in the answers. The encouragement of females should be continued, with all cordiallity. The more that are involved in this mutual interest, with the assurance of complete safety and discretion, the more friends could be discovered, and perhaps a match made. The absence of women from this scene, makes for a drab and lonely landscape, believe me.
I am multi-dimensional, but for now, I'll just mention the diaper. I have been self-imposed in diapers, virtually since I was a baby myself. I saw a baby being changed by his pretty mom once, (she called him a "Stinker - Pot", and I have been hooked ever since. There is much more to elaborate on, but that is the commencement of my lifestyle. I concur with you, that due to the public stigma, it is not easy to find like minded people, especially women.
I believe in my heart that they are out there, to be cherished once found. Until then, the rest of us must roll out the red carpet for their imminent arrival. Welcome aboard. I hope that you enjoy your journey to contented bliss. Talk to you soon, - BLUSHING BABY, (who is also a stinker pot)!