Partner Having Sex With Someone Else a Turn On

A few years ago my wife and I were on a ski trip with 3 other couples. After a exhausting day of skiing we all settled in to play poker and drink. After an hour or so it was suggested we play strip poker. I was immediately aroused by the thought of others seeing my wife naked. After the first few rounds it was suggested that the winners massage the losers.

My wife was one of the losers and was randomly matched with a winner who was just in his briefs. and as it was agreed they ducked into one of the bedrooms. I ended up with a raging erection as I listened to the sounds coming from behind the closed door. Later that night while we were in bed my wife answered all my questions about her massage session with great detail while I jerked off. I often think about that night and wished we had more opportunities and would love to watch someone having sex with her.

Are there any of other folks out there with similar experiences?

Have not had the experience, though I have found some cuckold stories arousing. This is one instance in which, for me, the fantasy is better than the reality. I think the reality would certainly arouse me, but I am not sure how I would feel about it afterwards.

After two kids and many years of marriage, we both agreed that we needed to spice up our sex life. I proposed that she take on other lovers, while I remain exclusive to her. it was as if she was single and still married. It didn't take long for her to start dating and having sex with other men. It was just what our sex life needed.

It was so hot having her in bed knowing that she just had sex with someone else. It eventually turned into her at times vacationing or spending weekends with some of her lovers. There is nothing wrong with a wife having lovers on the side within a solid marriage.

I accept this relationship with my GF but don't want to participate or hear the details. I don't share the details from my side unless requested.

Long ago when we were young, back in the mid 1970s, we had neighbors who were apparently inveterate swingers, as the term was back then. Once, the husband suggested we do a nude photo shoot of both our wives together. I was waiting for a storm to break but oddly my wife readily agreed with little hesitation. The shoot went off very well and both ladies gave a nice show for the camera. I still have the negatives and hold them dear to my heart.

The photo shoot got my wife going afterwards, lots of nice intense sex afterwards. About a week or two later the same neighbor suggested something more. I had been expecting another photo shoot, but he thought it might be fun to have a foursome. Personally I was all for it, but once again I expected my wife to be vehemently opposed to the idea. When the neighbor started on his pitch, I think I closed my eyes, waiting for minor hell to break loose.

Well, again to my surprise, it didn't. After some chatting and discussing the wives agreed, my own really surprising me. When the weekend came around on the agreed on day, I was sort of nervous at first, but actually everything went fine. There was something very pleasant to be coupling with someone else while my wife was doing the same. I never felt the slightest bit of apprehension or sense of playing with fire. It was just something I'd always wished to do and I was ever so grateful my wife approached it in the same manner as I did, as a fun past-time for a few occasions.

And after the first foursome, the ensuing weeks were really a blur of sex and revelations. I'd go to work at the office and be thinking what ever would everyone else think of me if they knew what me and my wife had been up to. It made for some nice smug thoughts, let me tell you.

What I did regret though was not having any photos of that evening. Those would have served for some happy memories now.

I have been in a cuckold relationship and where my then girl friend was able to take any lover she wanted (men and women) while I remained faithful.

She had a very high sex drive and also had a craving for very large cock (something that I could not supply). She often played, sometimes with me present, other times on her own.

It was always very hot and made for a very exciting relationship with lots of great sex between us. Whenever she had been with a lover she would always make love to me afterwards. I was crazy hot for her when she had been with a lover and it was always the best sex on these occasions.

There were no feelings of jealousy and no issues with the situation, if anything it made us stronger.

Cuckolding has been an interest to me and gets me a bit hot. I don't think I could actually do it, but one never knows.

My first wife had several partners over the first six years we were married. I found it to be a big turn on at first, but she wasn't into sharing what went on and was never willing to have sex with me after she had been with her lover. We belonged to a group that got into swapping parties that eventually turned into a problem with her being unhappy with my participation with others. After a year of tumult we decided to split.

Subsequently, I remarried to someone who is not quite as adventurous and other than a couple of flings each we have been faithful. I've often thought about her watching or participating with her having sex with another, but alas it is only a dream.

Some years ago (about 8 ) I was approached by a husband and wife "would I be interested in a 3 some"?? I excitedly agreed and on many evenings, they came and stayed over night in my house, them sleeping in another room and she would come to my bed about 2.30am. She always appeared on time and as soon as she got into my bed, WE WERE AT IT, About 5 minutes later he arrived and watched me fucking his wife, he needed to watch me doing her to get his erection. When he had a good enough erection I pulled out of her and we lay her across the bed with her backside level with the edge of the bed so he could stand on the floor and into her. He said it excited him to see someone fuck his wife. These days I have trouble getting an erection myself and the thought of watching an able bodied man fucking my new partner turns me on.

I have to tell you that having sex with someone is a huge turn on for me. It is also a huge turn on for husband if I have sex with someone else. Many years ago, my husband told me that his fantasy was to watch me have sex with someone else. After he told me this, I told him my fantasy would be for him to watch me have sex with someone else. For years, we had talked about this but no opportunities ever came up. I talked to one of my old boyfriends about doing it and he wanted to but he lived too far away.

One day, I saw on social media that one of my childhood friends was sad about going through a divorce. I told my husband about it. I didn’t expect this from my husband but out of the blue my husband asked me if I thought that he might like to fuck me. For a minute, I was floored. But after a while, I found it exciting. For the next couple weeks, I talked to my friend through PM. Finally, I got the nerve and asked him if he would like to fuck me. There was a silence for a moment and he said that would be nice.

We finally met together and I have to tell the high that I got from it was the best thing that I ever experienced. I will eventually post the details of this in my blog. My husband didn't get to watch but he enjoyed me telling him all the details.

Recently, I met a gentleman on Zity and he undressed me and fingered my ass and pussy (photos posted in my album) while my husband watched and took photographs. This was now the best high that I have ever experienced.

Interesting to see this old thread revived. I see the original poster who started this thread is long since gone - wonder what happened.

I found it a huge turn on, even when i was joining in, but there was no jealousy between us so it worked out ok ,and no regrets either

Interestingly this thought has increasingly occupied my thoughts of late. In reality a total impossibility as we are mid 70s and she is totally vanilla anyway. But, if there is such thing as reincarnation, I'd dearly love to try a strict cuckold relationship.

I haunt Literotica reading stories about infidelity and cuckolding.

The first post is now about 7 yrs old…and I'll bet there are still a lot of folks that pine for a similar event/situation. Sign me up!!

Interestingly this thought has increasingly occupied my thoughts of late. In reality a total impossibility as we are mid 70s and she is totally vanilla anyway. But, if there is such thing as reincarnation, I'd dearly love to try a strict cuckold relationship.

I haunt Literotica reading stories about infidelity and cuckolding.

Would love to get involved with a septuagenarian couple. Sounds like she is not up for it. oh well

I am a married bi man and am very turned on by the thought of my wife having sex with someone else. We talk about that almost every time we have sex. She loves the double penetration fantasy, me in her pussy and another man in her ass. She is also turned on by the idea of me playing with another man. Another fantasy that I find intensely arousing is secretly watching her with another man and then joining them. I was amazed when I read that there is a biological reason for that called sperm competition. When a man thinks another man's sperm inside his partner, he wants to ejaculate more sperm which results in a longer orgasm, more contractions, and more pleasure.

We have some real life experience as well. We have been to sex clubs and have participated in consensual watching and being watched. We have soft swapped orally, but have not had intercourse with others. I think we are concerned how it will affect our emotional and sexual connection, and marriage. Maybe when we are empty nesters we will be more open to trying that.

Not gonna lie, I don’t love watching my husband having sex with another woman. He loves watching me fuck others, I ‘grin and bear it’ when he does because I love him and want him happy but even when it’s with our long term female, call it ‘companion’, I get a twinge of jealousy. It’s worse if I’m not there though.

It is what it is. I wish I were more evolved but I’m not.

Easy answer:

Nope…

Short answer for me is yes. Hard to explain but very erotic to see my wife being pleasured by another man.

One of my biggest fantasies is to be involved with a MMF threesome! I would love to masturbate the guy's cock as it is sliding in-and-out of our female partner's sopping wet vagina, and also lick his slippery-wet penis as it was moving in-and-out of her! After he cums inside of her, I would help bring her to an orgasm by lapping his cum from her dripping wet vagina & clit!

An interesting topic.

I can’t claim to have actual experiences but with my then wife I certainly fantasised alone and with her about “it”. Mainly because sadly, she was rather wooden and unadventurous that I was trying all sorts of ways of finding the proverbial key to unlock the door, so to speak.

She did occasionally show off her sexuality and I found it a massive turn on. Yet when I tried to follow it up with me she didn’t go along with my thinking.

Whilst we were way off ever finding someone to fuck her I often imagined it and her looking over at me as a younger man enjoyed her fabulous body. I could certainly make her cum whispering the scenario to her whilst playing with her oh so sweet clit.

When I was in my early 20s, I was involved in a MFF relationship that lasted well over three months. At some point, jealousy and emotions got the best of us, and it ended. It was a helluva fun time, not gonna lie.

My current lady friend (She's in alot of my rectal temping pics) lives across the country from me. We know that current circumstances are keeping her from moving to my part of the country, and that while we love spending every minute we can with eachother, it's unrealistic to commit to a relationship at this time. That being said, she has a fantasy that I would love to fulfill for her. She wants to have a MFM threesome, and watch another guy fuck me. I wouldn't mind that at all. We also want to try something with some MFF play as well. We've talked about what we are comfortable with and what our boundaries are. With that in mind, we will be open to playing with others, without emotional attachment, until circumstances are that we will be able to commit fully to eachother. When that happens, we will remain monogamous with eachother.

I still think about meeting someone so that my husband could watch. I know it is wishful thinking. It is tough enough to find someone to play doctor. I just remember the extreme excitement when a Zity member was playing with me and I locked eyes with my husband. WOW! It was just so intense.