Do you like to wear a diaper near others that aren't aware

I wear and wet my nappy all the time now. I love being wet around people. It gives me a thrill to know I'm wet and wearing a nappy and no one knows. OR do they!

Who doesn't, I like to wear diapers near others and if their cool, out in the open with them as well.

It's part of the fun. I have worn and wet at family functions, work, house parties, bars, and just about everywhere. I'm pretty sure none of my family or friends ever noticed if they did they never let me know.

That's why for me, the only time I ever wear my diapers out in the open is unless the people I am with are comfortable with me wearing my diapers in the open and are ok with that. There are many times where I have worn my diapers out in the open and most people are ok with that. Other times such as in school, almost everyone is unaware that I have a diaper on.

I sure do. Not only do I like to wear pinned on cloth diapers and rubber pants on around other people, but even more I like to go potty in my diapers when I'm around other people, and most don't know. I used to wear diapers when I was a teenager and we went out to the movies, Disneyland, long, visit our cousins,or other times that involved long car rides because my mother was concerned I might wet my pants and needed protection since I still wet my bed and wore diapers at night. We were usually around other people who didn't know I had diapers on and I always went in my diapers as long as I had to wear them. As I got older, became independent, I still liked to wear diapers as much as I could, which wasn't often. We I did though, I loved to go out and be around other people, have diapers and rubber pants on with no one knowing. Of course as long as I had diapers on, I went potty in them, and sometimes even messed in my diapers. When I messed of course I made sure no one would notice, I didn't want to insult anyone, but I did and still do like to be out, away from home and mess in my diapers. Just feels so warm, mushy, childish and naughty. Then I can go to my car, sit down on my messy bottom and drive home to clean up. Did that a lot before I married. Not so much now.

My wife is perfectly fine with me wearing diapers and rubber pants and going potty in them, in fact, she likes to take me with her when she goes out, take my diaper bag with us, spend hours away knowing I will get so wet she will need to change me before we go home. She loves to have fun with me, place me in uncomfortable situations where someone might either know I have wet diapers on or actually sees her changing me. She told a waitress at our favorite restaurant that I wear diapers and asked her if she had somewhere I could have my diapers changed. Caused me huge embarrassment, but my wife loved it, and she did end up changing me. Since then, we've been back many times and our waitress usually asks my wife to let her know if she needs to change me. My wife has some close girlfriends we used to see and they didn't know I was wearing diapers, until she eventually told them. Now when we get together, I always have a diaper on and its usually wet. My wife and her friends all know when I'm wet now. Some have seen my wife change my wet diapers.

I like to wet my nappies when out shopping or in a bar I find it a thrill to stand there flooding my nappy and no one seems to realise what I am doing. It is part of the kink off wearing nappies for me

Being urinary incontinent and diaper dependent 24/7, I'm always around people wearing and wetting my diaper.

I'm sure most if not all don't realize my padded bum and crotch. I also don't advertise that I'm padded, I try to be discreet wearing out in public or at work. I don't necessarily get a thrill out of it. It's just part of my life.

I wear 24-7.........zero bladder control. If I'm not diapered I wet the bed or my pants.... Dan

Everyone who knows me knows I use diapers ,no secret there nobody knows precisely when I am wetting or messing and I can’t tell them because i don’t even know until later .

The disposable diapers that I like to wear now are much too thick for me to feel comfortable wearing them around anyone that I know.

When I was younger, I rode my bike to the store and bought girls goodnites and would wear those under my clothes around my family, but they were way more discreet!

The disposable diapers that I like to wear now are much too thick for me to feel comfortable wearing them around anyone that I know.

The more you wear diapers, the more you become confident and comfortable wearing at least from my experience. I do wear thick bulky diapers around people that I know and in public. There's only a handful of people know that I wear diapers 24/7.

I must confess, there’s a certain excitement in wearing a diaper around others who are unaware 🙈

It’s especially thrilling when someone notices and asks about it, as it provides a rare and precious opportunity to help combat the stigma surrounding adult diaper use. By sharing my experience, I hope to support and inspire all who wear diapers, whether for incontinence or convenience.

I must confess, there’s a certain excitement in wearing a diaper around others who are unaware 🙈

It’s especially thrilling when someone notices and asks about it, as it provides a rare and precious opportunity to help combat the stigma surrounding adult diaper use. By sharing my experience, I hope to support and inspire all who wear diapers, whether for incontinence or convenience.

Do you have any examples of when someone has noticed, and what you have told them?

Do you have any examples of when someone has noticed, and what you have told them?

@nappy_j Absolutely, I'd love to share an example!

One time, I was at a family barbecue, and my cousin noticed the waistband of my diaper peeking out. He asked, somewhat hesitantly, 'Are you wearing a diaper?'

With a smile, I said, 'Yes, I am! I have an overactive bladder, and diapers give me the freedom to enjoy these gatherings without constantly worrying about finding a bathroom.'

His initial surprise turned into curiosity, and we had a great conversation about it. I explained how wearing diapers isn't something to be embarrassed about; it's just another way to manage a condition, much like wearing glasses or using a cane. I even joked, 'Hey, at least I never have to wait in line for the bathroom!'

By the end of our chat, he was much more understanding and supportive. It felt great to turn what could have been an awkward moment into an opportunity to educate and normalize adult diaper use.

Every time this happens, it reinforces my belief that openness and a positive attitude can really help break down the stigma. It’s all about how we choose to react and educate others. Confidence is key, and sharing our experiences can inspire others to feel comfortable and proud of managing their condition.

I'm not a regular diaper wearer but as a special treat when I'm feeling particularly horny and naughty. It isn't the peeing in them that turns me on; it's the 'other'. I prep for diarrhea by eating 5 prunes and chasing that with a glass of prune juice. Usually that combo hits me in less than 2 hrs, but I put on a diaper then, anyway.

Recently a neighbor lady I've fantasized about for years was out doing yard work and I jumped into action. As my gurgling and uncontrolled spurts began, I went out and engaged her in conversation . She has a penchant for not wearing a bra when she works outside when it's hot out. Though married, she's extremely friendly and bubbly and I could feel my erection growing. Then I decided to just let a few spurts of very loose, watery poop out in mid-sentence. It was such a delightfully naughty feeling! Did it again, a little less controlled. It's hard to explain the incredible eroticism of it. The wonder of what she might say if she detected me drove me crazy. Here I am casually chatting with this braless woman and sporting an unnoticeable full erection and messing in a diaper. I was in jeans, so nothing showed. Quite a head trip.

That was such a turn, I decided to go to the pet store with my dog and do the same thing there with the cashier. On the mushy drive home I wanted to see what it would be like to squirt as I was driving, even with only my pooch as a passenger. The prunes were doing their job and I didn't have to push at all...just surrender to the need to expell. And, oh, so squishy. The diaper held its load and nothing escaped. After rushing home for a cleanup, I relived my morning and stroked to a glorious orgasm. I simply MUST do this again. Such a naughty boy!

I like to do that but not around people as I know as I would be worried about discovery. I would just like to do it around strangers, say in a shopping mall or at a museum etc.

A friend of mine is comfortable wearing around her siblings (she is second child of 4, oldest is 5 years older than the youngest and they’re all in their mid-late 20’s), and close friends such as myself. I’m not sure if she has ever wet while around us, but probably. She’s not worried about discovery in these situations because we all know.

I think, as others have said here, all of her support people, like her siblings and her close friends, know about her interests and support her being safe, happy and comfortable.

I'm happy wearing any time or any place, People don't notice unless they are of similar minds to us, i was with a group of people the other day who i have never met in person before, i was with these people for around 4 hours just chatting away, having a nappy on meant i didn't have to leave the group to use the toilet i just wet my nappy will chatting, no one noticed i don't go around making a scene about wearing a nappy. I even wear at work some times and no one has ever noticed, and that one group of people where if any one did think i was wearing i'm sure i would be called out on it

Yesterday I had on a disposable and thick pull on cloth diaper a thick plastic pants and had to deliver something at my granddaughters school . Oh and I was very wet. I was going to take it off but decided what the hell, I just put on some sweats and did the delivery talking with the secretary for awhile. I do wear Depends every day for mild incontinence so it was just more obvious that day.

In some way 8 do enjoy wearing when I have people around that don’t know that I wear, but I prefer people knowing. It takes away the fear of getting caught and makes it more enjoyable. When I am in the presence of people who know I can feel mire free in a way.

Spike

As 24/7 I'm always wearing around others. I used to be very conscious but now don't even notice it. I do sometimes chuckle at the thought of sitting or standing beside someone and wetting myself without them knowing (or better yet, peeing mid conversation!!).

So, I thought of this topic driving over to sister’s house. I wanted to have a well planned messing after about an hour or 2-3 and took in 60ml of Lactulose 1 hour before arriving. Normally it takes about 2-4 hours before it hits. There is something about messing when I am around sis or one of my other ABDL friends/family members that makes me feel little and secure. The thing is, today it took 1 hour and 5 minutes and on arrival I had already messed a little, but when I walked in sis noticed I was squirmy. She asked what was wrong and saw I had to go… asked if I took something and told me to just go, you’re and a half, it’s normal … it’s you. Here I am sitting in the same diaper at dinner like a toddler. I am content 🙂.

Spike