How do I get my wife interested in MY diaper fetish?

How can i get my wife to enjoy diapers?

From my experience the first thing is to make sure your wife is comfortable with you wearing diapers.

Don't try to make a big issue of them, try to make them seem like a normal thing.

Also don't try to force her to wear them, it will only push her away from diapers.

Maybe introduce them as part of role-play in the bedroom. Most females prefer males to be dominant. So maybe one time don't wear a diaper yourself, be the stong male type, then do the role play thing where she is the little girl.

Playing truth or dare is another good method - have a nice meal, a few drinks, then start playing the game. Don't make it your first dare though - it's too obvious. SDtart off with some normal fun dares, then mid-way in the game dare her to wear a diaper.

After that leave it a while, then some days later tell her how good she looked in a diaper and also how good it made you feel seeing her in one. Then see if she will wear one again to please you.

The softly, softly approach is more likely to work than just steaming in and forcing her to wear one!

Good luck.

I put my wife in gently, it took about 10 years, plus she already had a weakness and wore pads because she leaked a bit. Now after 3 years (actually more like 5) she is permanent 24/7. Just make sure you really want this before you start, it can be a real drag

1/ No pushbiking, tramping or even long walks

2/ You have to live with her everyday (and she has to live with herself)

3/ It cost her her job and we had to move cities to be anonymous

4/ It pretty much destroyed our sex life (she lost interest once she got truly incontinent)

5/ It is expensive, even cotton needs to be washed and dried (and you cant just hang it on the clothes line)

6/ Your life will change forever and there is no going back once you reach a certain point and she looses confidence in her ability to hold

7/ You can't even leave the house without a diaper bag and supplies

8/ We don't go to the beach anymore and spend summer inside

9/ Long holidays are a pain and overseas trips just dont exist for us.

Having said all that, I wouldn't change for all the money in the world!

I just love what she has become and she is ok with it also, we are certainly closer and much more settled.

Noelfrax

It took a couple of years before I told my wife. Then I asked her if it was OK if we bought some. She said OK...and I had her diaper me and I diapered her. I made really sure it was a WONDERFUL sexual experience for her to reinforce the fact that diapers are really nice. I also have told her there is a great reward for wetting. She will do it if I remind her of the reward; make it a great experience...give her what she wants too!

She is willing to participate, but it is still clear it is not really her thing...but she does diaper me and let's me diaper her. Still very nice!

My wife knows but really doesnt care. She doesnt get into it with me or ridicule me for it. It is rather strange. Some days I wish I just had some support.

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Its such a hard topic to talk about but once you put it out in the open you will feel a lot better

For some of us it's more difficult to tell others about our fetishes...even wives. I've always been deathly afraid of anyone finding out about my diaper fetish. This is my first time admitting it to anyone. It is a fantasy of mine to tell her and she'll be accepting of it, but for now, it'll remain just that...a fantasy.

I did try to convince my wife that diaper might be good for her on long car rides or when she is pregnant, she seems to have a small bladder and she leaks a bit, she didn't take it well.

Ohhhh I agree with all this - honesty, openness and respect for your partner are the key attributes here. If the trust, love and respect are there then there should be no problem coming out with it (in truth you should have come out with it early on, long before the relationship got mega-serious). OK your partner may not like it, or may have trouble with the idea of wearing nappies and pants, but they must accept it as part of you and it should make no difference.

To be fair, you must also accept their decisions and feelings without being pushy. Don't flaunt it or wear in front of them if they don't like the idea Works both ways.

If your partner is OK with it, then progress slowly, in stages. Patience!

Keep the communication going, the openness and honesty, and wearing nappies should not be an issue at all. IMHO... 😁

I get my wife in diaper when we have sex i think she likes it deep down

Tell her if she has another period accident she will have to start wearing nappies durring her special time

I have tried to get my wife to wear diapers quit a few times and the only thing that she has done or worn were the pull ups made by depends. Really I think them shouldn't really be considered a diaper but some people think that they are close enough. But I am hoping one of these days soon that she will deside to wear a diaper & hopefully enjoy it as much as I do

How exactly did it happen for you?

I was watching an old episode of "Cheaters" on Prime in which a husband was caught by his wife being diapered by another gal. The wife had no idea of her husband's diaper interests and found it so disturbing that she divorced him according the show. The husband explained his diaper wearing was not about doing things/messing up in a diaper, but rather the the feeling of security. There was no sex taking place between him and the other gal who liked diapering him.

My wife was also watching the show and I mentioned imagine how upset some wives would be having a husband like me who wears women's girdles, stockings, bras, and panties!

ETA: the fellow and the gal who liked diapering did stay together by the way. Hope they remained together and have had many years of happiness!