Why is there mostly guys who like diaper

I am a girl and i wear diapers but for need but i also love them too...see there is hope for all of us girls out there 😃

Well I think a good cause for girls not joining ABDL communities and the like is because the moment a girl walks in a oversexed guy promptly asks them for more then they want to. You rarely see guys getting harrased that much that they leave a forum. Girls on the other hand do.

So it's also all your fault, guys >😢

I think that there are several reasons why there are more male babies than female babies.One is that little girls come with a nurturing instinct and to play mommy with baby dolls rather than being babies themselves.Another reason is that I was surprised tro learn is that unless shaved the outside pf the vagina has no feeling and therefore only when having their periods do most women wear pads in between their legs.There is even a commercial that compares a pad to a diaper and shows a crawling baby in a cloth diaper. As for why so many males want to wear diapers is that maybe they were jealous of a baby brother or sister or the attention any baby got especially when being changed. Also were the parents nurturing and supportive of them growing up Or were they very negative and critical and impatient. In my case it was all the above.

I think one obvious answer is that men and women are just diffrent, especially sexually. Anyone who is married or has an open sexual relationship knows that what excites men and what excites women are most of the time very diffrent. Men are more visual and physical, women are more emotional and sentimental.

Lots of women never learn to have orgasms even throughout marriage, men learn to have orgasms at an young age. Most men can have an orgasm in a matter of minutes, for many women it can take quite a will to have an orgasm...becuase what excites them and how their bodies work are just chemically diffrent.

Lots of women can't really get into sex unless they are really in love with the person they are with, guys it generally doesn't matter. Most men will sleep with a random stranger, most women will not.

Guys and girls are born diffrent sexually, so.... when it comes to fetishes, it will work out diffrently between the sexes also.

For me I think its because I feel a lack of attention as a child. I have always been a loner of sorts. usually picked on and only a few friends at a time. I'm not at all a "nerd" or anything like that but Ive always been very shy and reserved so wearing diapers gave me comfort and the feeling of love I feel I missed out on very early in life. I'm not sure if this is the case this is just a gut feeling..

now granted I had a great life so far and I'm the leakiest s.o.b I know but when I wear diapers I have that feeling of security within myself.

and like others have said women get pounced on as soon as they make them selves known. I try very hard not to do this even though id love to find a female to share this with. I want to tell people about my love of this but am terrified of the reaction I will get from them. so for now it is my secret to keep.

There are plenty of girls who like diapers. There are actually quite pleasurable sensations unique to the female anatomy that can come from wetting in diapers. The thing is, most girls just don't go on the web about it. And when they do, usually they get freaked out or emotionally scarred by all the vulgar, insensitive male jerks that they have to interact with inevitably. I'm not saying that kind of men are the majority, but they are a significant enough minority that alot of us girls don't want to be bothered coming to these sites, let alone spilling our intimate feelings because the response is usually, "Got any pics I can jerk off to?" Just having a couple of those experiences is enough to put most girls off.

Sorry to rant, but it's just the way i feel and i know i'm not alone in this feeling. Again, this isn't directed at anyone posting in this thread (as far as i know) and i do stay here because i know that the majority of people here are pretty nice.

I know what you mean...but i am a girl and i wear diapers. Now according to several things that i have read it is harder for women to accept this stuff then men. Men want that caring loving person to take care of them and as for women they are more of the cargivers. That is guess is why there are so many men that do this. But i am a girl and i love it.

I agree that there is a sexual thing about having my penis wrapped up in a diaper. I have a need to wear diapers because of nerve damage caused by long term diabetes, but I am just not secure of comfortable if I am not diapered. I love my diapers! Having to wear diapers all the time it is good thing for me psychologically, since I don't have a choice about wearing diapers. 😃

I think that the girls feel it is only another job for them to do. I think that the guys have failed at making it fun for the girls. With my girlfriend I showed her that being lubed up under plastic pants was a pleasant feeling and that at any time of the month I could preform orally through the plastic pants. When she wore just the plastic pants under jeans, out, she found that any movement at all would excite her. especially seated and moving her bottom on the chair. A lot of times she didn't want to stand up until she was finished witch lead to a lot of explaining. I missed half of a movie one time waiting for her. After when we got home is was more than willing to have me finish her, clean and then diaper her. She just loved when I took out the message cream and did her from top to bottom. THEN it was my turn for the treatment.

Hmmm well I'm a girl and I love them! 😁 No idea why more guys enjoy it then girls, they're missing out.