If your sex partner would do just one more thing, what would you choose?

Have him lick my titties.

And periodically smooch them lightly.

My fantasy is to watch a stranger, that we meet on a nudist beach or maybe craigslist, eat my wife out while she lays on her back and she jerks me off at the same time.

but she would never allow anyone else to touch her sexually.

unfortunately

@XposeHer Please tell her there is a long line of volunteers here from which she can choose. Also, she should not feel limited to pick just one.

You folks should be glad you have someone at home who cares when you make it home.

My wife and I have a great sex life and there's not much for me to complain about. But I would love it if she would fuck some other guys while I watched. She doesn't want to do that though. She will give me an enema if I ask her to, and I am going to order a strap on and see if she will use that on me. Preferably while I'm holding a 2 quart enema that she just gave me. This could be getting a little too kinky for her though.

Change “ sex partner” to “ life partner” and my answer would be simple!

Have sex occasionally, or even show some interest in his wife.

So I ordered a strap on from bedroomsports.com. and it already came in the mail. I haven't presented it to my wife yet and this is going to be crucial. If she frowns when I whip it out then that means she's not gonna wanna. I am buying new toys all the time and usually she's open minded and will give it a fair try out, but there were a few things that she didn't like right out of the box and she didn't really give those toys a chance. She immediately decided that she didn't like that particular toy and that was it.

Change “ sex partner” to “ life partner” and my answer would be simple!

Have sex occasionally, or even show some interest in his wife.

@Secret_sub I consider “ sex partner” and "life partner” to be the same for me. Despite the daily challenges he may present…lol

I also have a similar request of mine as well. May you get your wish.

@MrBud

Your situation sounds exactly like mine. I am the adventurous one, I buy the new toys to try, she passes judgment. I encourage her to shop and surprise me but that’s not her style. I would love to get her a strap-on to use on me, but I feel I need a few more successful purchases before I go there. Please keep us posted on your strap-on negotiations.

I completely understand the perception of choosing the right time and place for introducing a new toy in order to improve the chances of acceptance. It’s hard to recover from a down vote.

I have thought a lot about having the strap-on conversation someday, and I wonder if there may be a different tack to try with a toy for her to use on you vs a toy you want to use on her. Receiving a strap-on is a vulnerable situation for you(and me). Asking her to be gentle on you, to help you experience it, to do something specific to you so that you may feel it. Admit that you might like it or you might not, but you’d like to try it out. My wife does not really like to “perform“ or take charge. Maybe saying you will walk her through it and guide her to help find what feels good to you. That way it is not her responsibility to figure out how to use it and what to do.

I would love to hear feedback from other members, especially reluctant ones who have been approached to try something new. Is there a better method or time or approach to use that can improve the testing phase? Even if the final verdict is a “no thank you”, getting to just try something one or twice sometimes feels like a daunting task. Even for a couple that has relatively good communication, the success of a new ask feels oddly unpredictable.

signed: also eager to get pegged,

Hookajoe

My husband? Nothing, he spoils me. Even the things I think I want to try he is always okay trying.

Hookajoe

Your wife sounds a lot like mine. My wife is never gonna initiate anything in the bedroom. Ever. Fortunately she will usually go along with whatever I suggest, but not always. I did show her the strap on and I'd say her reaction was neutral. Neither positive or negative, so it could have been worse. We haven't gotten around to using it yet, but it has been setting on top of the dresser for a few days. So hopefully she is getting used to the idea of using it. And it seems like if I want to try it she should go along even if it's not her thing. Like I said before, she will give me enemas and that's not her thing.

Walk!

@AMWest , I was raised the same as your husband, to never raise a hand to a woman. It took a LOT of work for Mashie to get me over that. When she needed a spanking she NEEDED a spanking, and I wasn't doing her any good by NOT giving one to her. She had to teach me that it isn't violence against a woman, that it's a SPANKING, and sometimes that allows the person being spanked to let go of what they're being punished for, forgive themself, and move on.

I also learned the power of being on the receiving end of a good spanking, but that's a story for another time..

Doc

Invite her sister to join us!

@John D nice!

I remember a few times when my first 2 wives initiated sex. Because we had just 1 car, my first wife used to take me to work and pick me up so she could have the car all day. I worked 2nd shift at the time so she would pick me up at midnight. One night I guess she was feeling horny because she showed up wearing a fishnet tank top with no bra! By the time we got home I couldn't wait to pound her out. Another time my 2nd wife came into the kitchen while I was standing at the stove cooking dinner. She dropped down on her knees, pulled my pants down and gave me a nice blow job! I'm now on my 3rd divorce…….Err, uh, I mean marriage, and I wish my wife would be more assertive and initiate sex once in a while. She knows I like enemas but she would never ask if I wanted one. Or better yet just tell me “get naked you're getting an enema”. Or even “I'm bored, why don't you get down here and eat me out”. But like I've said before, we do have a great sex life. As long as I initiate everything.

More imagination! Like in football, I want him to vary the offense once in a while! 🥰

Mr. Bud wouldn't it be great instead of having two stories like that if you had hundreds of stories where your wife initiated sex.