Desire after orgasm

Do other people here want to continue the S& M after an orgasm? Or do people lose interest after orgasm?

When I play, I can tie myself up, wear cuffs, genital restraints, self spank, watch porn etc for hours. When I do decide to have the cum, I lose all interest in the sex/S&M play. I put away everything and do 'normal' things. If I know I have tasks do, and I know that I can waste several hours 'playing' I'll get some porn and masturbate quickly,wasting only a few minutes.

Perhaps a domme could really torture her sub by forcing him to cum early. Then even if he's not in the mood for punishment and humiliation that's what she'll beat and whip him.

Your problem is you are doing the bondage/S&M yourself.

If you had me doing it TO you, I might make you wait until I wanted you to have an orgasm, or I might give you one early on (my Trojan Horse present to you) and then have my way with you with no possibility you'll have another orgasm. I'll just drain the life out of you.

Thats the stuff dreams are made of......................

This is how a date between a mashochist and a sadist goes:

Masochist: "Beat me! Beat me!"

Sadist: "No."

I usually like to eat dark chocolate and chug lots of white milk after an orgasm. It helps me recover. 😃

I don't lose interest, just the intensity whilst doing it again.

Orgasms are conundrums if you ask me. I don´t really know how to approach them or what to appreciate about them.

Granted the pleasure is intense, but it is also oh so momentary. It´s just that afterwards all sexual and fetish-related desire seems to dissipate into nothingness, as if it had never occurred. Moreover, afterwards, the desires and longings and acts you´ve carried out tend to look rather silly and meaningless when measured against other day to day activities.

Maybe it´s being male, but for this reason I would think that sleep afterwards to be indicated. It allows replenishment of desire and somehow resets the balance of the body.

Even better though I find, is a long delaying of orgasm in order to prolong the sexual pleasures of longing and desire. Being in a heightened sexual state for several days is certainly preferable to a few minutes of intense release followed by a lack of desire?

Maybe there are people who can recuperate in very short periods of time, but I fear that is not the norm, especially when one gets older.

Somewhat of a training issue. I use the have the same problem. After having an "O" I would just wand to lay there and

ponder if there was enough oxygen in the air to save me. With my partners help and over some time I am now able

to present myself for more play after several minutes and though MY enjoyment takes time to rebound she is right

back at it !

For me my desire rises after one orgasm and that is seldom enough. I realize as a woman my recovery time is much less. Being forced to orgasm early on can actually add to greater pleasure with denial involved later.

For myself a orgasm begs additional orgasms. I also have a thing for odd numbers. I always like to end on odd number at least 3 preferably 5. I have to agree that perhaps more training is order.

As a young woman in my 20s one orgasm and I was done. My explanation now is that I did not know better. I felt overly sensitive. Any additional stimulation made me uncomfortable.....was too much. I would become anxious. Learning to relax and listen to my body enabled me to lay still and feel...coaching from a experienced partner led to multiple leg shaking orgasms. He wanted it all every drop.

Oh, I'd give half a kingdom for the sensibility, knowledge and experience of your partner! You surely are very lucky to have met such a person. I guess willingness on your part is important, too...

Afternine,

Willingness to communicate with an open mind.......I know we all know it but here goes again....The brain is the most important sex organ...use it and the body will follow.

L

I can break the connection between bond and orgasm easily. Ive been casually tied up and not given any sexual attention, but I still get turned on. But after I cum I can keep playing on and on until my partner is satisfied, Its just mental stamina

I lose all interest after orgasm. My penis is so sore afterwards, I don't want it touched for at least 20 min. Too sore even to put my underwear back on so it just hangs out for the 20 min or so.

Do other people here want to continue the S& M after an orgasm?

I sure do - and so much so that I had the “brilliant” idea wanting to experience an enema like it was when I was young and disliked enemas. So I connected myself to a full enema bag of soapy water using a retention nozzle. Then I had my female partner at the time tie me up. The idea was she would jerk me off and as soon as I came (and hence would loose all desire for the enema) release the enema! Being tie up and helpless facing the full enema bag made me cum extra fast - so she had no problem jerking me. Unfortunately, once I came and lost all desire for what we were doing, pleaded for her not to do it and she felt sorry for me and couldn't release the enema…

After an orgasm I can sometimes just feel enough is enough and get on with tasks.

Other times I can carry on and reach or second or subsequent orgasms

A friend I very occasionally Dom , loses all interest after his orgasm, a fantasy of mine is to make him mastrubate after his orgasm. Maybe one day I will be brave enough to actually go through with this. Who knows, the humiliation in having to carry on might just tip him over the edge a second time.

Do other people here want to continue the S& M after an orgasm? Or do people lose interest after orgasm?

Most times no I do not wish to continue after an organism. Relaxing and enjoying the orgasm is what can interest me.

Of course there are those rare times where another orgasm is needed so continuing is needed.

I don't take part in S&M often but when I do, right after orgasm my penis definitely needs a brief time out but my desire to continue playing remains.

My desire after orgasm is to have another orgasm. The problem is that my advanced age, it takes awhile before I am able to have another orgasm. O to be a teenager again.

Has anyone else tried ruined orgasms?

After ejaculating but without meaningful enjoyment I might not be horny immediately after but dont feel so draine. Plus the hornyness returns faster

I can have multiple orgasms so we continue on. For the orgasms that bring ny emotions to the surface, we'll take a break and have some cuddling and aftercare and after a bit may or may not resume our activities.

A lack of orgasm is what drives me to play. That consistent “pull” is what leads me into all kinds of trouble! I've found that clearing up that problem, albeit a quick yank or a good fucking, tends to calm my most perverse desires for a bit. Regular cumming keeps me out of trouble.

That said, the tease, build and ultimate delay in getting to a first orgasm is sublime, to say the least. In straight up sex, that first one is often the last these days - and quite satisfying - I do miss being in my 20's… However in kink play, a second or fifth is on the table. By the time I'm pushed over past hyper-sensitivity to the second or beyond, we're squarely in the arena of kink play - or at least, that is what is required for me. I've been pushed (tortured) via a Venus to 9 consecutive ejaculations but by that point the flesh isn't willing and I was quite flaccid (and sore) by number 3 or so. Busted the myth that you need to be hard to cum!

To answer the initial question though, I guess the desire declines after orgasm, usually.