Is it weird to be a straight male and enjoy enemas?

My dad too lol

I'm heterosexual and married and I enjoy my wife playing with my anus - rectal temperatures, suppositories, rectal exam, enemas, pegging. So?

I'm straight and love enemas, and anything that will put pressure on my prostate for a good strong ejaculation

When I was younger I thought it was not right, a social stigma I guess, but as I got older an more open minded my mindset changed to if it feels good why deprive myself. My wife knows I like to have a finger up my backside while she is stroking my cock, she also has used a strap on that i got a couple years ago.

No, it is not weird at all. Anything anal turns be on. I don't know for sure but I believe that it is because of the prostate. Although I have never had one, I have heard that prostate massages are highly erotic.

Many men wrestle with this question. The fact is the anus is rich in nerve endings, like male and female genitalia, and men can enjoy stimulation in that area whether or not the prostate is involved. Of course, that is why so many women enjoy and respond to anal stimulation. The pleasure men can experience from stimulation of their prostate is a separate issue and a whole other reason they should just enjoy and not feel guilty about responding to anal/rectal stimulation.

To the best of my knowledge, the above is largely, if not perfectly technically, correct. Having said and believing all of that, I sometimes feel a little bit of doubt or guilt or something negative after the fact. That is, when I am aroused or having a sexual encounter I may desire, or even ask for, anal/rectal stimulation. If my partner indulges me and my orgasm is caused by, or heightened by, anal/rectal stimulation, I occasionally feel something "bad" post orgasm and ejaculation. So, maybe I do not practice what I preach.

Willy there is nothing to be ashamed of I'm a woman who is anally erotic, I enjoy my enemas very much. When I was 14 I had the chance to be the giver and loved it. Now that I'm single I go solo. There is nothing to be ashamed of because you like enemas, if you read our posts you will see that we are mostly all the same.

Willy there is nothing to be ashamed of?..

I know that intellectually, nevertheless, that negative feeling sometimes follows orgasm. Maybe, I just need more practice and desensitization!

I used to feel that way, but with age, I no longer care if I get sexual satisfaction from them. don't feel "queer, gay, or sissy" from it. Just privileged and any female who also enjoys is fine with me.

Right on! You got it all straight.

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Of course not!!! Men are quite anally erotic and it doesn't mean they are in any way gay!!!

Early on in this whole process (of enjoying enemas), I questioned myself as to whether I was the only guy in the world who enjoyed enemas and anal stimulation, even though I knew that I wasn't gay, or even inclined to be gay. Through a lot of reading, I learned fairly quickly that the enjoyment of enemas and anal stimulation wasn't a "gay thing", but was common to both male and females around the world. Once I recognized this, I got over the "weird" feeling or sense.

The error in thought is that if I love having my butt played with, I must be gay. As a gay man, gay is not just who you have sex with, it's who you love, or want to love. It's being attracted to men in a sexual way. There are both men and women who enjoy sex with men and women, and those who enjoy sex only with those of their own sex. I respect women a great deal, but I just am not in any way sexually attracted to them. If you were to see an attractive man and think, boy, I'd love to get with him, then I'd say you were gay, but since you haven't mentioned that, don't worry, just enjoy your enemas and find a lovely lady who will indulge you!!!

I could not define the difference in straight and gay any better than BarryB did. I never connected enjoying enemas with being gay. I think that was because I was so dumb or sheltered that I did not know that some gay men enjoyed anal stimulation. I guess I thought oral was all they did. When I was growing up, you laughed when someone made a joke or comment about gays, even if you didn't understand it. You didn't dare ask questions or show sympathy because you did not want folks to think you were gay. Damn, we were dumb. I guess the first time I figured out how it worked was when I read "Everything You Wanted to Know about Sex but Were Afraid to Ask", which was not particularly sympathetic to gays, best I remember. Anyway, my ignorance saved me from thinking it was weird for a straight male to enjoy enemas. I might have thought it was weird for anyone to enjoy and be sexually excited by enemas, but as I have read and learned, I have gotten over any of that.

I'm a straight male and enjoy many aspects of enema giving and receiving. I do not derive any pleasure when it's with another male. I don't think there's anything weird being anal erotic and straight.

I worked for years in several gay bars, and met a lot of guys, and girls, but guys who were the full range, out and proud, checking things out, straight but curious, and everywhere in between. And a lot of times the kind of sad part was some great little guy, who probably was gay, who had a girlfriend and they'd come out to dance and party, and you could tell that he wanted to open up and come out but the fear within himself kept him from that!!! AND, just because 2 men might enjoy enema sessions together, by NO means makes them gay!!!

No, but it might mean that they're bisexual.

Yes it could, but in my mind when I think of myself as being gay, I not only think of who I find sexually attractive, I think of who I have feelings for. And I know there are both men and women who can move from being attracted to one sex to the other, but for me I strictly like men. And I think it scares some men who are 100% straight, to acknowledge their anal eroticism.

Being Gay or Straight is strictly about WHO you want to do things with; NOT what you want to do. Conversely liking to do or have anal things done to you is only Gay if you want to do it with same sex partners. If you want to do it with different sex partners it is heterosexual activity. It isn't WHAT you want to do it's who you want to do it with...

^^^Good to see you back here Dan L...you write excellent stories of fictional escapades

Count me in as a Hetero male with a passion for enemas & ass play. For me, enemas are like eating potato chips. I can never just take one. Then......once I have that slightly crampy, open feeling, I have an urge to explore my freshly cleaned out rear passage from a variety of big dildos from my "toy box". My newest, which I plan to use tonight for the very first time,, is a 14 inch long, black curved "Trevor" with a anatomically shaped three inch head.....I can hardly wait....

No, shouldn't be weird at all. I don't think enemas has anything to do with one's sexual orientation.