Is it weird to be a straight male and enjoy enemas?

I'm a straight guy with a girlfriend (also into enemas and anal sex, but that's another story), and I have 100% heterosexual sex, but I have gotten pleasure from giving and receiving enemas since I was a teenager. I don't know why I still feel it's weird after all this time, but I do. I only ever got one enema from my mother, but I think the reason I'm anal-erotic is because I was still in the age of parents who checked temp rectally. Should I just accept this and embrace it as a part of the great wonderful thing that is sexuality?

I certainly would. Over the years I've come to realize we spend all our time on "labels" for people instead of just enjoying them for who they are. Our Puritanical roots have damaged this nation for so long, and we're in another one of our "dark ages" right now. Back in the 50's & 60's, guys weren't afraid to show some skin; now if a guy has shorts above the knee he's labeled some derogatory, snarky term by all the homophobes out there.

There are many others like you: strictly heterosexual men who are into enemas and other ass-play. I can't give you any names, of course, but most people in my friend list are heteros, like enemas and like playing with plugs and stuff. Being anal-erotic doesn't mean at all that you might be bi. Yes, you should embrace it as a part of yourself. Because it is. Narrow-minded people might not understand this, but I would say that you are totally normal.

My best wishes to you. Might you be able to enjoy this part of your sex life together with your girlfriend.

I agree, some of us guys are lucky enough to have learned, by one means or another, of the erotic pleasure available through anal play. There is nothing in this pleasure for me that means I want to watch, play with or receive anal pleasure from another male. Having the opportunity to open this aspect of your life to a girl friend can only improve your relationship with her (assuming she can accept this about you).

I am a straight male who is 100% heterosexual and I DO enjoy enemas and may forms of ass play. Like you whiteboywest, I used to feel weird and thought I was an outcast for liking enemas, but one day I got to thinking about it. I came to the conclusion that enemas are just another way to enjoy life and to share with others who are like-minded.

Being anally erotic doesn't make you gay.

You're stuck with enemas for life. As you get older it doesn't disappear, even if you suppress it.

Like you, I'm hetero. I've always viewed enemas as feminine because of the penetration and filling. I thought I was weird until the Internet, when I finally learned that I'm not alone. That helped me accept my preference and embrace it. Life is more fun this way.

The best answer is NO!! Are you human? Do you have an anus? I, like you am hetero. I don't want a horny male punching his penis into my ass. But, like many who visit Zity, I enjoy other types of anal play It does not take away my love of women and their beauty. Folks of all sexual persuasions like anal play. Don't try to label yourself, just engage in what feels good to you and your partner. Lite is too short my friend to sweat the small stuff. MRay.

Curt, that post about femininity resonates a lot with me. I feel like I possess a little of both femininity and masculinity; sometimes I feel like just having regular sex and assuming the more masculine role, and on the other hand, enemas to me seem to be a way of being sensitive sexually in a more female fashion. I'll try to worry less about all of it and just enjoy life 😃

Personally, I think that the weird, conflicted, kinky, sick, twisted, and perverted people in the world are the ones who are not into enemas or any of the other topics we all love so much here on Zity.biz. Forget what anyone else thinks, WE ARE THE NORMAL ONES, live with it, move forward with your life, and don't look back! And by all means, don't regret!

I stand as a straight male who love enemas and my anus being played with etc.

Even though I'm heteroflexible to bi, my husband is straight as an arrow and he loves enemas and especially having his ass played with using toys and having my arm up to his ribcage ON THE INSIDE.

Switchablesusie that sounds absolutely enticing, thanks for the idea. I'll mention it to my GF. I've never been as much of a fan of individual toys, but I did once read about something called a "colon snake" that was very intriguing.

Nope, its not weird, i am straight, love enemas and anal play of all sorts done by a lady.

Yeah. Not weird. Being anal erotic does not mean anything except that you enjoy anal play. Does not make you Gay or Bi or Heteroflexible, though we are welcome to self-identify as such - or as str8. It is apples and organges. We are human. We have desires, wants, needs, and psychophysiological wiring. It takes a long time for some of us to get over the taboo-type labels. But when we do,,,, Personally, I identify as a Noble Slut. I enjoy my equipment. I like to go through the senses and beyond them. If I really needed a label it might be Tantra-lover. And I love many kinds of play, many kinds of anal play, and enemas and fisting too.

Be well, have fun, stay safe.

Enemachuck

PS brewing coffee now... and you know where that is going. LOL

Embrace it and thoroughly enjoy it!

I am a straight male who loves enemas as well as having my ass played with. Only interest is in females

Heterosexual, homosexual or bi has nothing to do with what you enjoy but rather who you want to do it with. I am totally hetero and have been into enemas since I was a teenager in the 1960,s. I did think I was weird until I discovered enema magazines and then later internet sites like this one. I have to agree with WET, that we are the normal ones. I have come to believe that there are many people who would enjoy lots of the so-called kinky erotic pleasures but are just too tight-ass to admit it even to themselves.

No, not weird at all. The anus and prostate is a very sensitive area for most men, and anal stimulation is normal, straight, gay or bisexual, and it doesn't mean you have gay tendencies at all!!! Enjoy!!!

Whether it is or not, quit worrying about it!

I get more convinced every day that no two people experience sexuality exactly the same way!

Nerve endings know no sexual orientation. What feels good to one person, may not to another. Consider yourself as the person you are and enjoy the marvelous and mysterious feelings a good enema can provide. Quit worrying and have some fun with it!

Deb

No not at all. You love what you love and that's all. It would be nice that we could not have to label things and more importantly each other. Lots of men love enemas and anal play period.

Taker easy,

SGG

Thanks again to all for the support. As far as adult activities goes, the thing I like about enemas is that it allows me, a man, to at times substitute a very doing-oriented approach to a more relaxed and receptive one. It's like dual masculinity and femininity. As I alluded to earlier, there are times when I just feel like plain old sex as well. To me an enema is a very refined sort of pleasure, like a fine wine over a cheap beer. At least for me, there are a LOT of specific feelings associated with one, and not just the act itself. I mostly don't even orgasm from an enema, the pleasure for me is in the fullness.

Straight Married and Die Hard Enema fan and love a little anal play from time to time... no worries mate.

I am a straight male but love to have enemas given to me by men. Other men, gay or straight seem to know what pleases me when given an enema.

Consider this......... within our most basic instincts, nature made the things that the human organism must do to survive, pleasurable - so we'd do it. So, we have taste buds to stimulate our nourishment, we have sexual organs that produce pleasure so we would reproduce, and we have an anus that is surrounded by nerve endings that produce pleasure so we would be encouraged to rid our bodies of waste. The anus is an extreme pleasure zone, a gift from nature. Those that are in touch with their bodies, and who can cast off society's arbitrary and manipulative "rules", can enjoy the gift. So no, it is not "weird" to enjoy enemas, it is natural. (And by the way, your sexual orientation has nothing to do with WHAT you like to do - your sexual orientation is based on WHO you like to do it with!)

Couldn't agree more with the comments on this topic and just regret I didn't accept the pleasures of none traditional sexual play earlier in life. There is nothing I like more than intimacy with a woman but was persuaded by a male acquaintance to allow myself to be shown the pleasures I was missing.

Before this I hadn’t undressed in front of another male since school showers and had never had my genitals or anus touched by a man but once in his hands I was lost to the moment and the double effect of prostate and genital touching brought about the most energetic orgasm I’d had for years.

I’m not gay and still desire women but I no longer have a closed mind and understand that sexual play with someone you trust can be pleasurable with either male or female. I think the Romans had it right perhaps.

Not weird at all. Embrace it and enjoy!!!

Great posts, thanks!

I highly prefer the company of a woman for most everything I can do with clothes off. Exchanging enemas with another guy, but without sex holds some interest. That guy has to be a sub. I have not crossed that line.