Temp taken by dad/male in your life?

My dad took my temp, while my mom was away visiting her sick sister.I was 10 or 11 at the time, and he had some friends over watching a football game on TV. I came in from playing with some friends and went to get some water and i throw it up. His friend who was getting everyone a beer at the time called out to my dad .He said i think your son is sick and I felt his forehead and I think he has a fever. Dad came to the kitchen to check on me, he felt my forehead to. He said you weren't over at your friend Doug house playing he has the flu, I said I was. He then grabbed the thermometer and Vaseline so he could check my temp. He didn't want to miss his football game, so He had me pull my whitey down and he sat down i went over his lap, he shook it down lubed it, parted my cheeks and stuck it right up my butt. Three of his friends we're there all stairing at the thermometer sticking out my butt.It was the most embarrassing thing that ever happen to me.One of his friends said my wife started taking our son temp orally a few years ago. My dad said well this is the way his DR. takes it and besides it's the only one we have. I wimper a little as they watched then he pulled it out, wiped off the thermometer and read it 102.3 he said. Then he helped me pull up my pants and have me some Advil and the the walk of shame to my bedroom began.

My rectal temperature was never taken by my dad or a male nurse or a male doctor. My mom was the only person who took my rectal temperature when I laid over her lap.

My husband has taken my rectal temperature on occasion when I've been sick – comfortably in bed and never over the knee. I believe he's the only male who's ever taken my temperature rectally, even in the hospital.

Yes, for real my dad and my doc during childhood until I was 16. For fun my brother and two friends (one in soccer team, one classmate)

Raised by a single dad, so yeah, he took my temperature until, I want to say the last time was 16.

When I was a child and early teen, my father always took my temp ,rectally and with a traditional glass thermometer lubricated wit h wazeline. He used good time, spread my buttocks wide apart and my anus open before inserting.

My mother stood in the background and watched.

I usually lay on my left side with legs flexed up, but sometimes at my back with flexed and spread legs.

Thereafter he wept my anal area free from wazeline with toilet paper.

He often felt at my lower stomach parts, at my scrotum and my hip joints thereafter when I again lay straight at my back.

Sometimes my father also inserted a finger into my rectum to probe my anus and my prostate.

The whole felt more like a pelvic exam than like just temperature taking.

What told so far is what happened when I was awake. But he also took my temperature early in the night or very early in the morning when I was heavily sleeping. I think i got some medicine to sleep hard.

I am sure my urine was emptied with catheter before I woke up in the periods when I was most sick in my preteen and early teen years. They injected some medicine into my urethra, which I actually remembered. I do not remember that they inserted the catheter, explicitly. But when I woke up my bladder was totally empty and I had no need to pee before late in the day. I wondered actually at the time why I did not have to pee. But I had some slight pain in my urethra and my genitals were totally flaccid as if they were numbed out which also made me wonder. I think the one doing it was a nurse living in the apartment building that everybody could call to take care or sick people. I think she earned taxfree money from it.

My father was equally eager to look into my throat and check my breath by listening with an ear at my breast.

I know actually why my father did these things. He was afraid I could have rheumatic fever, bladder infection or appendicitis, conditions that are surprisingly common in Norwegian kids.

I’ve had my rectal temperature taken on a few occasions by a male medical care giver. Just another day. No big thing

I had a male nurse come to my home to administer a series of enemas and though somewhat unsure as to my request for him to take my rectal temperature, he did. I found it unusual being that after the enemas , he inserted two gloved fingers and started milking milkmy prostate using two fingers in my rectum, and pressing his other hand between my scrotum and anal orifice and it wasn’t long before I wasn’t milked but wound up shooting a good amount of ejaculate! On my bed.! But I was baffled why on asking him to take my rectal temperature, he seemed hesitant.

Yes my father has done it to me and as adult Ive made male partners do so for fun

Our Priest, Father O'Malley, would often call us altar boys over to the Rectory to take our temps. We called it “Rectally in the Rectory” back then. Funny, sometimes the thermometer seemed bigger than it usually was….

My dad took my temperature multiple times. He would come to my room and I would lie over his lap and he took my temperature. If he was not available my mom did it . I also had it taken by a college roommate. A bunch of us were in my dorm room and someone noticed I looked flush. We didn’t have a thermometer in the room. My roommate started knocking on doors on the floor we were on. About 20 minutes later he came back and said he had good and bad news. The good news was that he was able to borrow a thermometer. The bad news was that it was rectal. I had to turn over on my bed and he took my temperature, and in front of all the guys there. It was a little over 101. He then took me to the ER, along with 2 other guys.

My dad never took my temperature rectally growing up.

I wish my male pediatrician took my temp in my butt…..I would have liked if the nurse told my parents to undress me to my underwear at age 18 and sit on the table…everything off including bra but can leave underwear on for now….then nurse comes back and does the vitals….then she tells me to slide my underwear down to my ankles and lie down on your tummy for temperature time…”I don’t want to take down my underwear for a temperature in my butt” I would say lol the nurse says “that’s how the doctor wants it to be taken and it’s going to be taken in your tush“ I get embarrassed by hearing that....I lay back and raise my hips to slide my underwear down to my ankles and then turn over on to my stomach to lay down….while I’m goin to turn over the male doctor comes in and see everything of me in full view haha….while I get in position on my stomach the doctor tells the nurse that if I have a fever then to take off my underwear but if I don’t have a fever then I can leave my underwear on for now….the male doctor stays for a bit checking over paperworks and the nurse comes over to me and spread butt cheeks and insert thermometer in my butthole lol….all the while the doctor is looking on hahaha….while it’s registering the doctor is asking questions about the visit and how old I am….then the nurse spreads butt cheeks and takes out thermometer and reads it out loud 99.9….I can leave my underwear on for now lol….I’m sure the doctor will make me take them off and he will put my in a frog leg position to do an external exam of genital….spreading labia and checking the vulva and clitoris….then makes me turn over on to my stomach again to do external check of my anus…he spreads butt cheeks and just pokes around anus but doesn’t go in lol….then 2 injections on each butt cheeks to call it a day hahhaa my dream exam!!!

On some appointments at the pediatrician I had my temperature taken. Back then it always meant rectally. As these occasions were rare it always was an unpleasant surprise. He had a cabinet with drawers were he had stored all his instruments. I‘d guess that way it was less scary for his patients as if they were laying around on sight. The downside was that every time he was opening a drawer there was a tension what he‘ll take out. I really hated these wooden spatulas used to depress the tongue. But seeing him take out a thermometer was the worst. I immediately felt this odd anticipation in my gut. Watching him taking it out of its shelf and shaking it down only adds to my discomfort.

In a single parent home situation--1958++ yes..Dad did it.

My dad did because I grew up with him alone

Temptokers4you wrote: Our Priest, Father O'Malley, would often call us altar boys over to the Rectory to take our temps. We called it “Rectally in the Rectory” back then. Funny, sometimes the thermometer seemed bigger than it usually was….

The common view about such actions is that they are sexual abuse according to an idea of the priest himself. I am sure the priest had sexual gratification from it, but I am not sure this is the whole of the story.

I think that the priests had been ordered to do it by his superiors or by other authorities in society. The objective was perhaps to look for physical signs of sexual abuse or sexual activities or habits. Perhaps also the thermometer was used to get probes of microbial flora. Perhaps the priest was involved in a research project. If he had found something special on a boy that boy would have been called in for further exams at some place.

The reluctance of the Catholic Church to clean up the matters around the sexual abuse by priests might be that the church is involved with some secret extivities with kids on behalf of the society that also might be revealed for the public by such investigations.

If my hubby counts then yes.

When little yes that is just how temps were taken. My father worked so guess mom did it more due to simply being at home but he has done and I took temps of my own two growing up.

It would be no different to a dad / male in life giving you oral medicine it was just the how it was done.

I had a male babysitter who took my temperature many times. He was about 13 or 14 and I was about 5 or 6.

Mom had given him permission to take my temperature anytime he though I was sick and had even put me across her lap and taken my temperature to show him exactly how to do it.

He babysat me alot when I was in kindergarten and first grade.

I thought nothing of it at first when he took me in my bedroom, pulled my pants down, put me across his lap and took my temperature. It became very erotic for me as time went on and I always asked for him as my babysitter especially if I was sick.

In hindsight I am sure that, being a young teen it was erotic for him too.

I grew up with my dad alone so he took my temperature also

Growing up, home healthcare stuff was mom's job. On a few occasions, the doctor (always a man at my pediatrician) would take my temperature with a rectal thermometer but I don't think my dad ever did.

My father would have taken it only a handful of times, it was more that mom took care of use when sick. I will say in fairness being less experienced certainly more caring and gentle then experiences quick slap dash mom

My father. He was 40 when I was born and pretty old fashioned.

From when I was four it was just the two of us, so he raised me himself basically.

In the hospital

My ex would take happily take my temperature any time and anywhere I needed or wanted it.

My dad probably took my rectal temperature at sometime when I was small . I just have recollection of it . More memories over Mom's lap .

So far as I remember growing up, exposing my bottom when I was sick for temperature, enema or meds was always my mom’s territory. She said to my dad once when he was in the room and she was going to give me a suppository, “You’re dismissed.”