Part-time sub-- having Master and boyfriend

I'm a part time sub that is also full time girlfriend. Master and boyfriend are two different people. Is this alright to have a Master and boyfriend? Master also has a full time girlfriend. I guess I mean to say is this a common practice?

It's not unusual to me. People find solutions that work for them.

Personally I would only counsel your caution if boyfriend and master don't know each other exist.

Communication and honesty can only enhance a relationship.

If your boyfriend loves you and accepts that this is something you want, he can't deliver and is happy for you to explore - thats fine.

The two of you made a decision that works for you both.

If he doesn't know - well, there is no honesty and communication there.

I have a similar situation. A male friend of mine and I are both married. Yet we have desires to be dominated that cannot be fulfilled in marriage. We have begun to meet infrequently to explore common fetishes. It can be healthy if there is no mismatch of expectations.

We all have many different needs and desires. The common notion that one partner fills all of them is a bit delusional. I believe that anyone in a relationship should seek what they need. I was dating my ex for a year when she told me a secret. She didn't want to ruin what we had, but she had been seeing a long time boyfriend besides me. She said she has known him for five years and she enjoys rough sex and domination from him. She likes it, but didn't want a steady diet of domination, that's what drew her to me. I wasn't totally surprised as I suspected she was up to something. I also found myself being turned on by her confession of her sexual needs. I was immediately accepting of it as it did not threaten our relationship.

I seem to attract submissive women, and in the past I tried filling the role of a Dom with another girlfriend with little success. I was however very interested on what she and her lover did together. She would recall their encounters and I became very sexual hearing how he treated her. After many months of this situation being in the open I was invited to be a part of the encounters. I mostly watched as he slapped her face, spanked or belted her. Made her beg for his cock, and then denied her. I loved seeing it and secretly delighted in her turmoil. I couldn't do it, but I found it exciting. I found it fed my own submissive character. I found myself wanting to be dominated by him in front of her. I had a conversation with him and offered myself to be his sub as well. The end results was that she loved seeing me dominated as well.