Exposing yourself for the first time

Sorry if this has been covered before, but I believe I am putting a different slant on the question. I am old enough to remember when for the most part you were a virgin when you got married - it was a few years after we got married before I first saw my wife naked. Coming from the day of such high morality, how did you feel exposing yourself to the dr before your future husband had seen you.

Geez, the first time I was able to relate the anatomy to the nursing books I had read as a kid. The details of her body as we explored each other was exciting. Still is. I was not a virgin when we married. Meeting a stranger is still intense seeing her nipples and down below. It never bothered having a Dr. look at me. Nor was looking at other guys in the shower. I was bigger than most of them (smile). Some people have problem disrobing. I do not.

Sorry if this has been covered before, but I believe I am putting a different slant on the question. I am old enough to remember when for the most part you were a virgin when you got married - it was a few years after we got married before I first saw my wife naked. Coming from the day of such high morality, how did you feel exposing yourself to the dr before your future husband had seen you.

My god, how is that tolerable or even possible?

Did your wife not see you naked for years after you got married also?

Hi Switch

Up until my wife got preg and completely changed for the better we never saw each other naked, bathed together and she would not even let me see her topless. Sex was always in the dark and it was more for function than pleasure. The most I saw of my wife was in her underwear.

Yes, today it sounds bizarre and intolerable, but then it was how you were.

It sounds odd now, but then for most people in the UK it was normal. Back then "it is not done" was a much bandied phrase.

Up until I got married I had never got my hand south of a girls belly button.

"Up until my wife got preg and completely changed for the better we never saw each other naked"

Do you mind saying how she changed Nurse

I got posted to Germany and shortly afterwards my wife thought she was pregnant. She was not able to drive so I took her to the dr for check up. The nurse called her in to the dr and I was about to read a paper when she beckoned me in as well.

The dr asked my wife a ton of questions, and then asked her to undress. She protested that I was in the room, but the dr just waved it off like she was a kid. She stripped to her underwear but she was told to strip completely, for the first time I saw my wife naked. The exam was througher and intimate and I got to see it all.

After the exam was finished she was told to dress and we left. As we drove back we did so in silence when all of a sudden she shouted to stop. We were in the countryside and she got me out of a car and pulled me behind a hedge. She undid my trousers and pulled them down to my ankles and told me to lay on the ground, taking her knickers off from under her mini skirt she grabbed my dick, slid it in to her and rode me.

After we finished we got dressed and I drove her home before going back to work. When I got in that night I found she was walking around naked and she grabbed me hand and led me into the bedroom for more

Being close to the Dutch border I was able to get hold of some very adult films and if you took out the repetitive and crap sorry lines, they taught us so much about sexual positions and what you could do during sex.

After that we were naked all the time, the sex was with the light on, she bought the skimpiest of bikinis and would often go topless on the beach.

I hope the answers all your questions pammy.

About the same time I was meeting my wife-to-be, I was also dealing with body modesty issues. This was freshman and sophomore years in college. I became sexually active and participated in various unclothed activities including group showers and massage (body rub) parties. By the time we first had sex, we had seen each other naked frequently and had slept naked in the same bed.

Jds

Were the showers mixed or single sex, and what is a massage party pse

The showers happened in a private bathroom in the dorm. Each wing had a communal men's and women's room with stalls and curtained showers but also had a single bathroom with a locking door and tub/shower. There were usually 3 or 4 of us together for soapy fun.

The massage parties happened during holiday breaks at someone's family home. Lots of sexual rubbing of and by both genders.

NurseKev,

Thank goodness the trip to the doctor and forced nudity had a positive on your wife's attitude toward nudity and sex. I'd die and go to heaven if my wife ever told me to stop the car and took me to the bushes to fuck me as if she was in heat.

It was a shock for me too buba.

I never thought she would do the things she did like taking control or being so liberal about sex. The day after, I borrowed a stethoscope from the medical wing and gave her a physical like the dr had done to her.

We will never see 70 again, but we still give each other regular checkups, and it has never got stale.