Strange, scary or kinky?

Two years ago I was walking on the street to get to the place where I was hired back then. It was a 15 minutes straight trip between the subway and the place were I was working. So, I just got out from the subway and started walking... all of a sudden a guy between 30-40 years old began following me really close. He started to talk really dirty, and in the first place I thought he was on the phone or something, and thought it was really funny. Then I turned my head a little, and I saw he got no phone or headphones. I soon realized that he was actually talking to me, and at some point the distance between us was less then 1 meter. I got scared at that point, because it was early in the morning and no one else on the street. I didn't know what to do, so I kept walking, hearing his words without my will almost close to my ear. He was saying things like : " oh, I would fuck you so hard with my big, hard cock... I would make you sit doggie and fuck your ass and pussy so hard and watch your big tits bounce... " and more then this, but I'm sure you get the idea. I started to walk faster and faster, I didn't want to run to show him that I'm scared. He followed me closely. When I really started to panic, I took my phone out and call my boyfriend, and said loud "I'm on the street and a guy is following me and talking dirty, what should I do? ". At that point I realized that I couldn't hear him anymore, and I turned my head back, and saw him walking fast in the opposite direction. I remain with my boyfriend at the phone till I got where I was supposed to.

When I got back home, I started to discuss with my boyfriend about what happened and I was no longer scared, I was amused. I realized that the things that guy told me, would even turn me on if I wouldn't feel in danger. So I think that's the point when me and my boyfriend started to talk really dirty sometimes while we are having sex.

I'm curious about that guy that followed me, what was in his head? I'm wearing very decent clothes, I never make up myself to much... I'm wandering why he decided to follow me, and what was he actually planing? Do you think he wanted more then talking dirty? And if yes, what he was expecting? To turn around and go to have sex with him 😃) ? Or maybe to violate me, and if yes, didn't he thought at the consequences? Or maybe he was just satisfied to talk dirty to stranger women?

I think he just wanted fun. It is like someone at a bar and a Guy starts talking dirty you flirt back

But it was the right thing to call your boyfriend

If he tries that on the wrong person he is going to wind up getting maced or shot. That is if someones ol man does not get their hands on him first and rip him a new asshole. That was without question a creep. Good thinking to call someone who could go and fetch you or go and fetch help on your behalf. Did your SO call the cops for you? It sucks you have to play 20 questions but at least they would be on the lookout for him. You seem like the strong and sensible type and you just shook it off, which is great for you, but his next victim may not be as self assured, or even be a child.

Anyway, I am glad you are OK and not too taken aback by the whole thing.

First of all, thank you for your answers reggind and elizabeth. My boyfriend and I didn't called the cops because when I took out my phone and the guy heard me talking about the fact that he was following me, he turned around and started to walk in the opposite direction. When I turned my head he was already far away. I didn't even had the chance to see his face, because I was scared that if I look at him, he would do something to me.

If this is all what he's doing ( following people and taking dirty) I don't know if he can be dangerous for someone. Of course, it's not a nice thing to go through this but it's not like he's really doing something that can harm someone. The real problem would be if wanted to do more, but didn't succeeded. I think this is why I can't really forget this... I have 100 questions in my head, and I'm hoping that he didn't do something bad to someone, because I would live with the guilt for not going at the police.

@ katey -- Under the circumstances the way in which you handled that predicament was one of calm but effective action...Thankfully you had the presence of mind to take immediate decisive action & consequently had that desired outcome....Hence that "sleazy" person backed away promptly due to this....There is absolutely no reason whatsoever to subject a woman (any woman) in this deplorable manner.....Nothing less than a "low life" cruising for victims, such scum behaviour has no place yet it goes on as they don't care what the psychological impact (distress) this does to another.....

Unfortunately Katey in this instance not being able to readily recognize said "creep" (and understandable) places one in a less than comforting mindset as a result of incident.....Sadly we often hear, read & see of similar situations whereby the outcome could have taken a turn for the worse as one never knows what damage they can & do inflict upon their victims ......Some are not so lucky & forfeit their lives as a result.

Decent human beings take a very dim view of such behaviour, police & the judicial system often at wits end, do their utmost to eradicate this & is to be taken seriously !! as I'm sure many would feel the same ......

Awareness of ones surroundings a must at all times & so in conclusion and as with others here, glad you are OK......Take care & endeavour to put incident behind you....

Katy, if it was USA,you would have drawn your glock and ask him if he had last wish. You don't even give the benefit of the sound of the trigger engaged

SCARY, if you ask me. Just think what might have happened if you weren't able to call your boyfriend. You got lucky, but others may not be so lucky. What if he decides to act of what he's saying? You owe it to yourself and others to report it to the police. You may be saving someone's life.

I think he just wanted fun. It is like someone at a bar and a Guy starts talking dirty you flirt back

But it was the right thing to call your boyfriend

NO WAY! This POS is working up the nerve to rape a woman ... she got lucky and scared him off by calling her boyfriend ... the next girl might not be so lucky. Getting turned on my feeling in danger .. that's one thing .. setting up a fantasy with your boyfriend with just such a scenario .. that's a whole different and perfect way to feel a surge.

She got off lucky ... call the cops.