I like OTK bare bottom spankings

I enjoy the traditional OTK bare bottom spankings. I was not spanked growing up but do find them very erotic and pleasurable. It takes me a long time to feel comfortable enough to meet with someone. Once I do, I usually wonder why it took me so long to get together.

My long time massage therapist, who is also a really good friend, has sometimes spanked my naked butt - not always but sometimes. He always asks me first and it can be over his knee or just kneeling on the table. He can make it hurt, but he is a good friend and good therapist so it's not embarrassing

I often fantasize of being put over my lovers knee, having my panties slowly pulled down and told that I am going to get a good hard spanking. No prior discussion about it. I just want to be dominated by him. I think the not knowing how long or hard the spanking is going to be adds to the arousal for me.

Bridgette

How would your lover spot that you want to be treated like that?

Well Facilitator, I would hope that a lover is in tune enough with their lover to recognize what turns the other on, and vice versa. I am not saying one should bring into the bedroom a whip and chain without prior knowledge of the others likes and dislikes. If you are paying attention to cues even subtle ones you can get some idea of what your lover may want you to experiment with and take it from there.(when I stated "no prior discussion", I meant in the form of ie: " I am going to spank you X amount of times, etc.)

Yes, a good traditional bare bottom spanking is always fun for me as well...either giving or receiving them. I do usually prefer the bare hand, but sometimes it is just not satisfying enough, so other methods may feel better sometimes. Besides the hand, some of the other means I enjoy giving or receiving are with belts, straps, riding crops, paddles, hairbrushes, or whips...not necessarily in that particular order.

I wish I could work up the courage like you did. it is just so hard to find someone who wants to spank me.

Bridgette - ok, thanks for further explanation, that makes obvious sense now. I'll have to look out more carefully for those subtle cues! I just hope I can recognise them.

I'd love to spank you Blueeyes. I wish we lived close.

The relationship between the spanker can become a very intimate one, especially when the spankings are administered OTK which is a position associated with childhood. The type of care demonstrated when a person is placed across the lap is particularly intense when the type of spanking is done with the bare hand or a small paddle. Long rather than harsh spankings usually result in strong reactions cries and tears from the one being spanked . This the ultimate purpose of a spanking to unlock the pent up negative emotions which need to be release in a dramatic confrontation with a dominant care giver. The addition of suppositories and enemas can intensify and extend the effect of the spanking as well as corner time. It is important that after the tears a real forgiveness can be received and the sore bottom massaged as consolation for having accepted the necessary treatment for attitude adjustment and behavior modification,

The idea of an over the knee spanking is one that I would truly like to try.

I think OTK is erotic.

I like spanking as well in the traditional OTK bare bottom way .

I was spanked that way as a child and eventually came to like it.

I think OTK spankings are best administered by hand. Start softly and then increase the pressure. Bare bottom of course.

If the slipper, strap or cane is to be used, then bending over, maybe over a chair or similar, is the position I would recommend.

I received several otk bare bottom paddling when I was a teen, I very much enjoyed it. The first was the best not knowing how many swats, was it going to hurt or if I was going to cry and then there was the raging hard on I was trying to conceal. But I also like being told to remove my clothes and grab my ankles, I guess when it comes right down to it any spanking involving my bare butt being paddled is my favorite

I also like spanking OTK .

I love stripping a lad then taking him over knee and spanking him . Taking rectal temp and playing with anus also good. The guy is just so helpless lying there < Love it. Have also been spanked a few times myself but now tend to limit it to hand or cane. The few times Ive had a slipper or sand shoe applied it really hurts . To me its more about the humiliation rather than absolute pain . Cheeks were black and blue for a week after too- not good!

An OTK bare bottom hand spanking feels like heaven when you know you really deserve a good hard spanking and a few quick swats over clothes with a paddle just won't do it.

I was spanked otk, bare bottom growing up, and realize it is more about the embarrassment, legs kicking, bottom upturned. That makes it TWICE as bad for adults tanned in this manner))))

Over the knee is definitely the most erotic for me. Many times a massage of my red hot bottom afterwards is a real turn on.

Nothing more sensual and intimate than bare bottom over the knee. I truly love being on both sides.

Honestly OTK is sort of my favorite way of getting spanked, at least compared to the most common position I'm spanked in otherwise (Diaper position, which side note I 100% HATE, but that's a different subject)

It just feels nice being placed across my spankers lap and having my bottom just right for him to swat it.

Just a few days ago I made the 2 hour drive to visit a mistress I have found. So I guess that making a two hour drive to be spanked OTK shows how much I like it.

To be ordered to strip and stand naked before her. Being told I’m to receive a spanking before being ordered over her lap. What a feeling to stretch out across her lap naked. To look across room to see our reflection in the large mirror. To feel her hand caressing my bare ass before she begins spanking me by hand. What’s not to

like? The paddle is next. Mistress has taught me to take it HARD. For someone who was not spanked growing up it took some effort. No flinching or squirming or clenching. But following her direction I breathe into it, and it works.

So yeah I love getting it OTK and everything it involves . It takes me away from my problems for awhile.

Yes OTK is my favourite spanking position as well. Both for giving and receiving! It's how I was spanked growing up. And my wife an I in our spanking sessions prefer this postion also.