Hi evwebuddy

I'm liltoro 'n I'm new here. I am also new to (formal) ageplay. In my head I am just a lil boy always confused and frustrated. I need this to help make me a more comfortable and stable person. The problem is real life and my current relationship. How do I come out to my wife without destroying my marriage.

Have to find yourself a buddy that you can hang out with and enjoy being yourself in private.

Hi there liltoro.

In my head I'm just a little girl ... and I'm sure we could be little friends and have a great time playing together.

As for coming out to your wife ... don't. Just don't. It won't help anything.

If you pick up hints that she may be interested in this kink, then fine. And by all means drop a few subtle teasers to see if she picks up on them. But if there is no sign of interest, leave well alone. Most people don't understand us, and never will.

I think Abi's completely right about not ruining your relationship.

If you make a few hints and they are not picked up on by your wife stick to safe cyberplay and chitchat.

Being a 'little' a rare and amazingly fun thing but if you did nt meet your partner via kinky connections/venues then she maybe totally schocked and realy badly.

I think it depends but drop a few hints and see if she picks ups on it if not then she's not interested but if she loves you she may accept it with some fear and for myself I no longer hide I'm out as a ABDL and gay. I found hiding my true self was tearing me apart inside and I did it for a very long time on both fronts I'm 39 now and I've been out as gay for 3 years and a ABDL for 6 months but I knew I liked diapers and ageplay at age 9or10 and I was gay at 12. Good luck and I know it's tough to tell people and if anyone needs a friend I'll be one I love new friends hugs all.

Test the waters. Tell her you saw some really weird video on the internet and that will peek her interest. When she sees it watch how she responds. That should give you a good idea of how she will react if u tell her. Good luck!

Keep in mind, the original poster was here for ONE DAY, EIGHT MONTHS AGO, made a few posts and left.

A very good point Susie.

So how long to orphan threads like this hang around the site?