How do get my man to let me play with his anus

My boyfriend is very into giving me anal from rimming to fingering to sex. He is typically open minded when it comes to sex and says he will do anything I want. When I try to mention letting me put a finger in his ass or licking him there, I get completely shut down. I want to just try it in the heat of the moment but I am afraid of freaking him out. Please help. How do I get him to just try it? Were you maybe reluctant and ended up loving it? I know him very well and am nearly certain he will love having my tongue and fingers on his sexy bum.

Go ahead and give it a try, guaranteed he will come back and want you to play back there again.

Should be easy, since he's already giving you anal then you can just tell him you want to show him what he's missing.

Also every guy is going to have to get a prostate exam sooner or later so I think any guy would rather have the whole anal experience be primarily a sexual thing with his girlfriend than just a weird moment with a doctor.

Tell him to do it to u and tell him how much u enjoy it

You might try asking him about it sometime out of the bedroom. It may be something he is hung up about or it may be something that is uncomfortable or even painful for him. You may be able to relate your experiences to him and that may help open him up to the idea. You may also need to be prepared for him to just say no. I don't think that attitude is part of a healthy relationship unless there are extenuating circumstances as to why he will not let you try, but it is your relationship and not mine.

It could be a negative trigger for him, also, like if he was ever assaulted, etc., and does not want to share that info with you or anyone. Like the man in Prince of Tides, is what I mean.

Sunny,

Prince of Tides is a pretty great movie! Nice choice for a reference. It's a bit before my time, but I found out about it from the allusion to it in an episode of The Sopranos.

Sometimes when my gf licks and fingers me I am worried I may not be clean. Maybe try playing in the shower after you both have soaped up.

Dont i ever wish i had a girl wanting to play with my bum.....theres nothing much i love better.

Cant really understand those who dont like it.

After you both getting soapy clean in shower, have a little additional shower fun. Spent some extra time soaping and scrubbing your bum, and show him how much you like it. Tell him the more you rub your ass pucker the more that whole area relaxes. Let him slide his soapy fingers up and down your ass crack and stroke your pucker. Then grab the soap and say you want to give him a super soapy massage too, starting by kneeling down in front of him and working on his balls. Keep one hand soaping his balls while the other hand starts working back over the taint, eventually soaping his pucker. Put your mouth on his cock while your two soapy hands massage him. This should be a very enjoyable situation for him. Once he gets close to cumming, tell him you don't want him to cum in the shower just yet. You want to move this game to the bedroom so that he can recline and relax, and enjoy it more. Tell him you want to continue it just like this, but with you on top of him in a 69, with a little bonus ass tickling.

Your eagerness to have sex, and enthusiasm for ass play will be very convincing. Show him how much it turns you on, and how you enjoy it combined with other activities. This will help set the stage for you combining playing with his ass with other things too.

I bet if you tell him you want to suck his cock until he cums down your throat, and that sucking is accompanied with your fingers exploring his pucker, he will quickly understand the enjoyment there is to had with a loving, hungry girl.