Men - How long after you ejaculate do you remain erect?

Younger much easier. Now most times not to long 2-3 min. But if we are doing it with our friends can stay for much longer or very easy to get hard again . I think it's the excitement of doing someone else and also the mind set that you have. Oh also forgot the little pill also helps Very much for long sessions .

Like most have said, when I was younger I'd stay hard for quite a while after ejaculating. My first time with a woman, I was 18. I came pretty quickly but, stayed hard and was able to give her 3 orgasms (I don't think she was faking...). Another girl I had was surprised after her orgasm that I was still erect ("oh my god, your still hard!"). Now i barely get hard at all.

Gosh, now-a-days I've all to do to get an erection without some play... I miss the days of have a raging hardon and walking around with it... So, to answer the question, it goes down immediately..

Varies. Sometimes I can clamp down, keep it up, and continue thrusting or being ridden through an (or another) orgasm for my wife. Sometimes it withers away rapidly (usually combined with extreme sensitivity, sometimes so much so that withdrawing it is intense). Most of the time it's toward the "stay harder" part now, and that doesn't bother me at all.

Not for long ,minute or so.

Less than a minute. Gets painful and limp.

I get tired and limp fast after ejaculation. Thus, during intercourse, I try not to ejaculate before the missus has had an orgasm or she has announced to me she does not think she'll have one and that I should enjoy myself. (I succeed most of the times, but sometimes, rarely, I ejaculate too early.)

In my teens and through my early twenties, I would continue to stay erect after an ejaculation either from masturbation or with a sex partner probably about half of the time. That frequency of that occurrence most often was attributed to prolonged or heightened sexual arousal. I kind of hated it because it was hard to pack your erection back into your pants and had to wait and wait for it go down.

Now, I long for those days. The erection typically goes soft almost immediately after an ejaculation. My penis will remain somewhat engorged (chubby) or enlarged for awhile again again the factor may have to do with a prolonged sexual encounter but it's not a firm erection at all.

Guitar303030 said:

Depends on the situation really but if we're having a "session" it can be pretty much to the point of exhaustion so I find it's all in the mind.

Interesting - I'm looking far back into history now, but near the end of my functional period, I discovered I could go for a second helping.

The trick for me, was as I felt the climax building I would stop thinking of the climax as the goal and start thinking how good it was going to feel to get past that pesky climax, and still be able to feel all the wonderful sensations of a full hard-on sliding around in that wonderful groove.

It might sound crazy (and might be) but I had started thinking of the climax as “pesky”, because it would bring an end to the intimacy. Of course I would still eat-her-out, but that's going to happen no matter how long my dick lasts. I just really wanted to extend that first phase; the dick time.

I can remember lasting through 3 climaxes a few times. All because I started resenting the climax and cherishing that “big dick” feeling.

Oops, forgot to mention; you will not enjoy your orgasm as much, but I thought it was a fair trade off.

I usually remain erect as long as my penis is stimulated. Even if I can't ejaculate a 2nd time, I'll still stay erect with continued stimulation. However, if someone very aggressively continues to stimulate it such that they really FORCE a 2nd or 3rd ejaculation from me, then it may just suddenly go limp while they continue to stimulate it.

Not so much anymore but fond memories.

In my younger days I remained rock hard long after ejaculation and could thrust for as long as the woman wanted or needed it, getting the erection to subside was the problem. Nowadays it is the opposite and I go limp fairly soon after ejaculation, and the exposed glans of my penis gets much more sensitive directly after ejaculation to the point of being uncomfortable than it used to.

Don't know how long it was but my 16 YO colonels daughter used to get three sometimes four ejaculations out of the first hard-on when I was 19. Then she made me lick her pussy until she could get it up again for more ejaculations. She kept that going all afternoon. She decided to see how many times she could make me cum in our Sunday routine. The best she ever did was 16 times. I asked her why she wanted to do that and she replied she loved to look at my face as I came. After that I enjoyed cumming for her much more. I was so dumb back then I never knew if she came from my pussy licking. I think she had a decent sex-ed class where she went to high school while I had exactly NONE.

My wife sits on my face after coitus seeking an orgasm. This is stimulating and helps me maintain my erection. She also is in a position to fondle and suck my penis. So, I am erect until the stimulation ends, after her orgasm.

As a teenager and young adult I could stay hard and cum again several times in an afternoon or evening session of masturbating, especially if I’d edged myself whilst reading or looking at porn. This could be over a period of 3-5 hours from first cum to worn out penis/hand.

Staying hard post-orgasm inside a woman also happened but lasted much shorter time, mostly till she orgasmed which would tip me over and finish me off.

Now in my mid fifties, my erection normally fades soon after cumming, though occasionally it surprises us both and stays hard longer which is fun. But we’ve never established a pattern to adhere to!

With my current partner we mostly cum together or I bring her to orgasm orally before penetrating so she’s very aroused as I penetrate her. Then I’m one orgasm and done on the short term. It’s too exciting and when the orgasms rip out of me my penis says ‘you’ve had your fun, now hug’ … Also good, but I do miss my youthful endurance.