Hi, my name is Elena! And I masturbate.That sounds good.It's nice to tell the truth. I don't always have the time or desire for sex. I masturbate because I need to relieve stress. Masturbation as a way of living under constant stress. Let's be honest. Often there is no time for sex, to explain what I want now, it will delay the process. And my husband is not always available. So I masturbate in the shower a lot. It's normal for me.Before the war in Ukraine ( my country) I had a good job, I worked with my husband, he had his own business. We had a pretty nice office, though not a big one. There are such clients, after which you want to drink a glass of whiskey or cold vodka. Just silently and in one go. I think it's no secret that working with people is very high stress. Not everybody's morally stable. But, for other people's money, you're willing to put up with a rude customer. So, uh. in the office (it was a well-reconfigured residential apartment on the first floor) was a standard bathroom with good doors. I used to masturbate right in the office in the toilet. Why not? Warm, bright and most importantly safe. I was the only one with keys. I locked the office myself. So it was not uncommon to masturbate where we received clients, right on the client couch. The same place where we occasionally had sex with my husband on our break. It is arousing, and gives strength to smile at the client, remembering how good it was here just 40 minutes ago right on this couch, and he does not even realize it. Again, it makes me feel better under stress. I think there's a reason why story porn has “sex in the office” fantasies. There's something to it.Thank you for reading to the end.Regards to the forum members, Elena.
@Happy_FetishistHi Elena, your background/motivation for masturbation ist similar to mine, years ago, as we were at the office 5 days/week, which was normal before Corona started.I had dozens of sessions at the toilet to release stress or after I saw pretty, attractive, slightly dressed ladies - especially on hot summer days.Already then, and I continue to do so, I masturbate as a substitute for sex when I need it (now at the home office), when my lady isn't around or not in the mood for sex.We also practice mutual masturbation from time to time which turns us on extremely. Not really seldom it ends-up in 'real' sex.Anyway, masturbation is an essential part of my sexual driven life.Would be great to have a further/deeper exchange in this topic with you!Steinlaus
Always in bed. I can adjust my nipple clamps with prostate toy in place and comfortably masturbate. I place two towels oi the bed, then sections of paper towels to catch any liquids and go to town. I try to precede the masturbation with some computer porn on Zity, usually, and clean my colon with either a s pair of suppositories or a short, superficial enema series before hitting the bed.
My bed or the shower (best place cuz showerhead). If I do it at the computer though, I keep my panties on as not to make a mess (especially if the chair has upholstery as opposed to say, a regular chair that I can clean easily). "Ni vu ni connu", literally "neither seen nor known".
Usually in bed, and I like to be naked when I do it. These are the joys of living alone and doing it whenever I want. As a child, my mother caught me masturbating, and I was left with trauma and shame. I did it a couple of times in the bathroom at work.
Due to Spring has come to my area finally, too and having the advantage that my apartment is on top of the family house, I'm now using my terrace/loggia as the p2b for my sessions where nobody can watch me. It's so gorgeous laying in the warm sun at my lunch break and having an expanded and relaxed masturbation.
It's usually something intimate, and I have to be very careful with the people in my house. So I lock my room and do it in my bed, watching videos beforehand, or also in the tub with the water hose, which helps a lot. Sometimes I like to have a glass of wine at the same time. I could say 70% of the time in my bed and 30% of the time in the tub.
In the bathroom if I'm doing an enema, I often use the shower hose to bring myself off afterwards. If I'm just having a bath it's normally before bed so I'll only warm up a little and wait until bedtime. My bed is comfortable and convenient and I can take my time with different toys.
I will say that most of the times in my bed, like many others.But my favorite is to be in my gyno chair.But that need a lot of time for preparation and a lot of time home alone , so it does not happens as much as I want to.I like to be home alone or alone with partner when I masturbate, I don't feel comfortable when others are nearby and can hear you or you can get caught.