Most of the enthusiasts on this website probably already perform this step before administering an enema, but it's very important that you do a digital rectal exam before inserting any tube or nozzle. You never know if the person whom you are administering an enema or colonic has a bowel obstruction or impaction, inflamed appendix, cysts, fissures, hemorrhoids, or swollen/inflamed prostate in the case of males. Attempting to insert a tube or nozzle in any one of these cases can cause serious injury, result in the spread of an existing infection, or in some rare cases, lead to death. The quickest and easiest way to avoid this is by performing an external examination of the anus, and a brief internal digital rectal exam. Most nurses are now being taught to make this step mandatory, purely for safety and to cover the medical institution from a lawsuit. Many injuries have occurred as a result of failure to perform the examination. During my recent certification on becoming a colon hydrotherapist, learning to do rectal exams before speculum insertions was a mandatory part of the curriculum. I now work part time for a clinic providing colonics, and I require each client to submit to a rectal exam, and that is to cover myself and the clinic from injury lawsuits. Just about all of my clients have cooperated well with this, especially when you explain the risks of not doing so. They also realize it's not going to hurt to have it done. If a client can comfortably tolerate having a 1" dia speculum inserted 4 1/2", then an index finger going in 2 1/2" will feel even less uncomfortable. It's really not that big of a deal, though I understand to some it can be a little embarrassing. Hospital patients seem to be the most reluctant, but clients receiving colonics already know the nature of what's going happen when they get in the treatment room, and don't seem to mind.
When doing an internal rectal exam, the first step should be to prepare the enema solution and have it ready nearby. Warm the water temperature in the machine if you're giving a colonic. Take the enema nozzle/ rectal catheter or colonic speculum from it's protective plastic, inspect it for safety, and lubricate the first 3"-5" liberally. Attach the nozzle/catheter to the enema tubing, or place the rectal speculum on a sterile towel nearby. Put on a pair of examination gloves, nitrile preferred for latex sensitive clients. Next, have the recipient lay on their left side, and bend both knees as close to the chest as they comfortably can. Lubricate the gloved index finger of your dominant hand with a liberal amount of K-Y Jelly, Surgilube, or coconut oil. Raise the patient's right buttock to expose the anus. Look for contraindications such as tears, fissures, hemorrhoids, or signs of bleeding. If no contraindications are present, place the lubricated pad of your index finger at the patient's anus, and apply a slight pressure. It takes a little practice, but most of the time the external sphincter will relax enough so you can proceed to push the tip of your finger up the anal canal with little effort, till you meet resistance at the internal sphincter. Encourage the patient to relax and breath through the mouth. When the sphincter relaxes, take care to point the finger toward the abdomen, and with gentle pressure slip it up the rectum as far as it will go( 2"-3"). If may feel as if your finger is being drawn in by the rectum, but it's just a muscle contraction. A patient will immediately let you know if there is an undiagnosed problem with the appendix, as any rectal insertion will cause pain where appendicitis is present. Gently feel from side to side for lumps or tears. You may feel hard stool at the farthest reach of your finger tip. Note this, as a cleansing enema may be necessary to clear the rectum for an adequate speculum insertion. For male patients, check the area that's 2" or so inside the frontal wall of his rectum for prostate inflammation or hard lumps. A normal prostate will be about the size of a walnut and be firm but not hard to the touch. Older males sometimes have slightly larger prostates, but that can be considered normal in most cases where other contraindications aren't present. In either case of performing the examination, try to be brief as possible. The whole process shouldn't take more than 10 or 15 seconds once you achieve full insertion. Remove your finger slowly and gradually. While the patient's internal sphincter is still relaxed, take the enema nozzle or rectal speculum that's been pre-lubricated in the same hand you performed the exam. Raise the right buttock once again, place the tip of the nozzle/speculum at the anus, and with gentle pressure in the direction of the abdomen, it should glide very easily up the rectum 3"- 5". You can now proceed with the enema or colonic.
I've found that some people out there are squeamish at doing rectal exams. I was when I did my first in nursing school. But trust me, it's an easy process. I've given at least 300+ rectal exams since I became a colon hydrotherapist. You just need to be patient with the person receiving the exam, and above all, GENTLE.