Changing Moods, Desires, Wants and Needs?

I seem to go through phases. I have been interested in Med/fet for a long time, but there are times when I'm just content with the same old same. Then there are times when it makes me crazy and I feel like I need an intense exam so badly I am going to explode! It's like a button has been turned on and it's all I can think about 24/7. And my level of adventurousness changes too. Sometimes I want certain things and sometimes I don't. Does anyone else go through these phases? Could it have anything to do with hormones? I know my hormones have always been unpredictable or not functioning like they are supposed to. Though since I've been a lot more picky about the types of foods we buy (more natural and less processed), not only have I felt better but once again that button has been turned on!

Guess I'm just wondering if anyone else goes through ups and downs with their desires or if theirs stay the same pretty much all the time. Do different things turn you on at different times?

I have the same ups and downs in desires. And it's difficult to pin down what causes these fluctuations. If I could I'd like to be high on desire and longing for as long as possible ... ha ha.

I have notice that having time on my hands, with nothing specific to do, causes an increase in fantasizing, but the same applies when there is so much to do that I don't know what to tackle first. Normal, everyday ho-hum average days seem to be the least advantageous.

Oh I know I wish I could stay in the high desire phase as well! My hubby loves it. Haha

That is simply evolution , staying all the life long with same desires , needs and fantasies will be borring.

Variations give a spicy taste to forgotten fantasies .

Yes i too have similar ups and downs in my desires. Not sure what triggers them. hormones? Quite possibly. I guess for men testosterone. But yes. Certainly ups and downs doesn't stay the same. Sometimes I really have to focus to turn it off. Because it seems is like that at the most awkward times rears up. Lol. And there is no low, med, kinda high. Once the switch goes on, like full open. 😃

Same here. There are times when I get very excited about it; if I had a play exam scheduled for example. There are other times when it becomes just a curiosity, which usually occurrs when I feel my medfet will never be actualized. Then there are the other distractions, crises, etc in life that detract from really enjoying it to the fullest. I wrote another post where I asked if others were worried about losing their medfet, as sometimes I feel like it's waning, but then somehow it comes back.

My moods and desires change. Honestly, there are times when I can go quite awhile without any medfet, especially if I'm in a really hectic time of life. Then other times when it's all I can do not to go home early from work just to get in some medfet.

I've also become much more open in what I like to play. When I first started, it was gyno and basic gyno only. Now I'm into surgical, dental, anesthesia, resus, pretty much anything.

Yes, I experience times of heightened interest and intensity and other times could care less and feel no desire for the kinkier side of things.

I wondered some time ago if I was losing interest altogether and then, sure enough, it kicked in again.

Busy life contributes as do the physical, mental and emotional states of being.

When no stress it's easy to be kinky me.

I am sure we all go through it at some point or another, I find just like sex if one doesn't switch it up ever so often if it is always the same it gets boring, same applies to everything in life really I believe. Hiking is the similar thing, it's always nice to take different trails to get a different experience, so I think changing moods, desires , wants and needs, is only natural for a human. I experience the same thing.

My phases have been progressive rather than alternating.

Throughout youth and early adolescence, my greatest fear when going to the doctor was the inevitable buttock injections (penicillin when ill and booster shots when I wasn't) - especially the humiliation when I had to bend over the lap of a receptionist or p/a for her to watch me get them in my vulnerable bare bottom. Further embarrassment was betraying to others where I had been injected if I couldn't sit down later because my friends all regarded getting shots in the arm as a rite of passage. At the same time I developed a fascination about the ordeal, enjoying hearing about others (particularly girls) getting shots back there and even fantasising about getting them myself so long as none were imminent.

My adolescent girlfriend and I indulged a mutual fetish by giving each other simulated injections in the bottom when playing doctor, even though we both remained afraid of the real thing.

Things came full circle in late adolescence when a misunderstanding with a beautiful nurse led to her insist on giving me in the bottom a shot I could have had in the arm. Humiliated though I felt, I was by then mature enough to appreciate the sensuality of a pretty girl baring, swabbing and even injecting my erogenous naked cheek. Ever since then I have taken all shots back there and enjoy getting them like that, especially from attractive nurses. I still experience nervous apprehension when waiting to get them but it now turns me on.

My phases have been progressive rather than alternating.. . . . etc, etc, etc

No Kidding!!!!! 😁 😁 😁

I've just attributed my lack of or need or what ever sexual desire I may think I want, to what is going on in life. Too busy means lack of interest or time. Lack of attention may mean that he is just busy with his own things to notice or think of what I may need or want. Sometimes time that is available affects what we are able to do to and for each other. It isn't personal what does or does not happen between us.

Some kinks get more attention because they are not so involved. When there is more time available then I can use the deeper fetish toys and play.