Girlfriend & Anal

My girlfriend says she has always enjoyed anal, but recently she always says its too sore. She actually told me she was jealous of how easily I can take things.

Just wondering if anyone can offer any advice, as she does want to do it, but like I say, says its sore 😢

Cheers

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I guess the obvious question you have to find out is, why is it sore?

Use lube and see how she likes that.

Hm, may you should have an anal-training before you try to have with her anal sex. If she loves anal plays may it's the size or your technique having her anally, what causes discomfort for her.

I guess the obvious question you have to find out is, why is it sore?

1- Use lots of water based lube, lubes like astroglide or probe which are EXTREMELY slippery. they will dry as you use it, just add more.

2 - Oil and silicone lubes last a long time but are not as slippery as some of the water based lubes. SORENESS AND/OR BLEEDING COMES FROM FRICTION, NOT NECESSARILY PENETRATING WITH SOMETHING THAT IS TOO BIG.

3 - Start with small items to penetrate and gradually work up the size. Let each item stay inserted for several minutes with a gentle fucking action to help relax the anus. As it becomes more relaxed, you can get more vigorous.

4 - Don't expect her to get up to big sizes in a hurry. It could take a month before she takes something penis sized comfortably without a prolonged "foreplay"

Oh, and for anal-plays, I would recommend water-based lube, not the silicone one. There is a special anal-lube from Bio-Glide, but the normal one is working as well. True, from water-based lube you have to use more, but it's more slippery, than the silicone ones, and for anal plays that's not a bad point. You may also use different anal-sprays, but I don't think they are for much help. Patience, I think will help you much more.

And don't be in too much of a hurry. Haste is a considerable detriment to many sexual intimacies.